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@ragna-laguna.bsky.social

♓︎☉, ♋︎☾, ♌︎↑ // SB ☉, Pushya ☾, Pushya ↑, Dhanishta AK. Chaotic good. 90s kid. Norse pagan. I'll add something witty too once.

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tökéletes akkor 😭😂 sok sikert 🙏🫶

03.04.2025 09:28 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

nagyon sajnálom 🥺💕
amúgy ha nyelvileg nem akarsz kibaszni magaddal, meg szereted a hegyeket, inkább Norvégia felé menj, de a dánokkal se szívod meg teljesen, csak a dán kevésbé szép nyelv (bicsibocsi mindenkinek, aki szereti) 😆

03.04.2025 09:13 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

igen 😭😂 bár mi inkább a susmus miatt, ők meg tényleg csak mert ismeretleneknél nem tudhatod, milyen lesz együtt dolgozni

03.04.2025 09:04 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

sajnálom 😔😔😔 akkor viszont Svédországot kb húzd ki, Finnországot is; első nagyon zárt társadalom és nehéz bekerülni kívülről, nem barátkoznak inkább a Jani tesóját veszik fel (de csak ha ért is hozzá), mert őket ismerik; másodikban kell beszélni a nyelvet egy munkához

03.04.2025 08:55 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0

felsőoktatással jutsz el leghamarabb bárhova, munkát nehezebb találni, mint egyetemet meg diákmunkát (általánosságban értem)

03.04.2025 08:43 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

that "a while" was 1,5-2 years, this is really good in a way even though i loved being able to fall asleep without tossing and turning for hours

12.03.2025 21:30 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

that's Venus Rx in my 9th summed up, i'm fine btw i just have sleeping issues, which is, funnily enough, good because it means my cognitive abilities are coming back and my brain spins really hard and i overthink again, which, funnily enough, is a good thing because i couldn't think hard for a while

12.03.2025 21:29 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Internalizers Don't See Abuse for
What It Is
Because internalizers look within themselves for reasons why things go wrong, they may not always recognize abuse for what it is. If parents don't label their own behavior as abusive, their child won't label it that way either. Even as adults, many people have no idea that what happened to them in childhood was abusive. As a result, they may not recognize abusive behavior in their adult relationships.
For instance, Vivian hesitated to tell me about her husband's anger, saying it was too silly and insignificant to talk about. She then sheepishly told me that he'd broken things when angry and once threw her craft project on the floor because he wanted her to keep the house neater. As it turned out, Vivian was embarrassed to tell me because she thought I'd say his behavior was normal and tell her she was making a mountain out of a molehill.
Another client, a middle-aged man, recounted incidents of childhood abuse nonchalantly, with no recognition of how serious it had been. For example, he said his father once choked him until he wet himself and then locked him in the basement. Recalling that his father had once thrown a stereo set, he admitted that his father "might have had a temper." As he spoke, his demeanor clearly indicated that he accepted this behavior as normal.
Internalizers Do Most of the Emotional Work in Relationships
Internalizers put a lot of emotional work into their family relationships. a reminder on work involves using empathy, foresight, and sc

Internalizers Don't See Abuse for What It Is Because internalizers look within themselves for reasons why things go wrong, they may not always recognize abuse for what it is. If parents don't label their own behavior as abusive, their child won't label it that way either. Even as adults, many people have no idea that what happened to them in childhood was abusive. As a result, they may not recognize abusive behavior in their adult relationships. For instance, Vivian hesitated to tell me about her husband's anger, saying it was too silly and insignificant to talk about. She then sheepishly told me that he'd broken things when angry and once threw her craft project on the floor because he wanted her to keep the house neater. As it turned out, Vivian was embarrassed to tell me because she thought I'd say his behavior was normal and tell her she was making a mountain out of a molehill. Another client, a middle-aged man, recounted incidents of childhood abuse nonchalantly, with no recognition of how serious it had been. For example, he said his father once choked him until he wet himself and then locked him in the basement. Recalling that his father had once thrown a stereo set, he admitted that his father "might have had a temper." As he spoke, his demeanor clearly indicated that he accepted this behavior as normal. Internalizers Do Most of the Emotional Work in Relationships Internalizers put a lot of emotional work into their family relationships. a reminder on work involves using empathy, foresight, and sc

12.03.2025 21:22 — 👍 6    🔁 3    💬 0    📌 0

MY ONLY WAY TO SEE YOUUUUUU
IS TO DREAM YOUUUUU
BUT WHY THE FUCK CAN'T I SLEEP THENNNNNNN FUCK IIITTTTTTT

12.03.2025 21:26 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

** *** ****

16.02.2025 22:51 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

****** *********

16.02.2025 10:46 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

mark my words, ***** **** **** ** **** **** ** ** *** ***** **** *** ***** *****

16.02.2025 10:45 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

other things are put into different context however but still wow

14.02.2025 00:38 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

i will not provide context but well, this explains things

11.02.2025 23:48 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

i think my mom's L10 in H12 Pushya describes her being a forever-sahm to a mentall disabled kid so perfectly

27.01.2025 07:39 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
female hand in black coat, with short, off-white glittery nails, holding a black paper bag with probably wine inside, and a rose photoshopped to be blue with black leaves (with blue undertones)
the background is tire lines and footsteps in shallow snow

female hand in black coat, with short, off-white glittery nails, holding a black paper bag with probably wine inside, and a rose photoshopped to be blue with black leaves (with blue undertones) the background is tire lines and footsteps in shallow snow

also thank you people who post randomly, this is also a sign for someone out there:
(image from pinterest)

21.01.2025 22:55 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

me: i'll ask for X sign because no way in hell will i accidentally stumble upon that thing in my environment
my guides: hold my beer *send me the sign, clearly stating it is a sign*
if i ever doubt myself again i'll just need to analyze my attitude and faith in the universe

21.01.2025 22:47 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

just random Ragna zoomies don't mind me

21.01.2025 20:34 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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21.01.2025 16:54 — 👍 3743    🔁 1052    💬 77    📌 51

sorry, babe, i can't, i'm conducting an experiment on how long nipple hairs can grow without any intervention

21.01.2025 20:32 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

2% for when i just exit the whole app lmfao

17.01.2025 10:43 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

if your video or ad has one if the typical social media speaking tones (whispering, influencer dumb tone, influencer excited tone, fake sleepy tone, "i obviously did not memorize this" tone, fuck knows what else) there's a 98% chance i'll just scroll because i think you're an annoying bitch

17.01.2025 10:42 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

just unfollowed an NF/T account on twitter as well, but that doesn't surprise me too much tbh, Musquito making you follow his (bootlickers') bullshit is something i'd expect.
not like Zuck is such a good person but instagram used to have a better backbone 🙃

17.01.2025 00:54 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

soo, does instagram make you randomly follow (probably ai) accounts that promote absolute bullshit psychology/health takes? because i can't remember following an account like the one i just unfollowed 🤨🤨

17.01.2025 00:48 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

please, that'd be so great to be able to do

15.01.2025 23:39 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

you deserved so much better!!

15.01.2025 23:38 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

here's your random reminder that if one of your kids is autistic or otherwise neurodivergent and needs support, there's a pretty good chance that the "normal" kid(s) that you'll probably end up neglecting so the "sick" kid can get support, is also neurodivergent, just copes better

15.01.2025 22:47 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 1

me: *asks for a sign*
that one account who sometimes posts the exact thing i often get as a sign: *posts the thing*
me: *sees sign*
also me: okay but was that a sign, am i fucking psychic, or am i delusional

15.01.2025 14:28 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

A simple guide to avoiding cancellation:

1) Keep your hands to yourself. Fans & colleagues aren't there for your sexual gratification.

2) No, really. Keep your hands to yourself.

3) Don't say hateful shit.

4) Avoid thinking hateful shit. It's not hard.

5) That's it. Hands. Hateful shit. Really.

13.01.2025 23:12 — 👍 1706    🔁 279    💬 50    📌 17

which is still very nice, as long as you have compassion (sympathy) for others (even just your plushies), but empathy is more about being able to read *the other person* (not just "AN other person") and understanding THEIR point-of-view, entirely separate from your own.
in my humble understanding.

13.01.2025 20:14 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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