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@jonimillerphd.bsky.social

Spiritual wanderer and guide * Marylander and Michigander * Dog lover and cat lover in equal proportions

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Ep 69: The Future is Not Yet Written From despair to possibility - together

Ep 69: The Future is Not Yet Written
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We don’t need one hero β€” we need millions of us choosing love at the same time. Alone, none of us can shift the tide. Together, we are the tide.

#nokings #collectivehope #bluewave #growmorelove

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Ep 60: Cucumbers, Grapes, and the Stories We Tell About Fairness How the story of β€œwaste, fraud, and abuse” blinds us to truth and love

Ep 60: Cucumbers, Grapes, and the Stories We Tell About Fairness
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We’re wired to resist unfairness, but politicians have learned to weaponize that instinct. Too often we end up angry at the vulnerable instead of questioning the systems that create the struggle.

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Ep 68: The Cost of Silence - and the Courage to Speak Choosing integrity over comfort and belonging

Ep 68: The Cost of Silence - and the Courage to Speak
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Courage doesn’t always stand in front of tanks. Sometimes it simply refuses to stay silent.

When we choose love over fear, we make courage contagious.

#growmorelove #courageiscontagious #integrity

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Ep 67: Strange Bedfellows β€œMisery acquaints a man with strange bedfellows” - Shakespeare, The Tempest

Ep 67: Strange Bedfellows
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The real revolution begins when we learn to welcome those who’ve changed their minds.

#GraceInAction, #DemocracyWithHeart, #BecomingBetterTogether

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Joni Miller, Ph.D. (@jonimiller) The back of my No Kings sign says, β€œWe’re fighting for you, too.” That’s what I said during the first No Kings Day to anyone who gave us the finger or yelled. Because I am. Because we are. Democracy...

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The back of my No Kings sign says, β€œWe’re fighting for you, too.” That’s what I'll say to anyone who gives us the finger or yells.

Because we are.

Democracy, at its best, is an act of love: a covenant to care for one another’s dignity, even when we disagree.

#nokings

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Ep 40: Why I Still Love America (but I don't like her much right now) A Reflection on Grace, Grief, and the Courage to Keep Reaching for the Promise

Ep 40: Why I Still Love America (but I don't like her much right now)
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I’m attending a No Kings protest. I hear some Republicans think that means I "hate America." Definitely not true.
#nokings

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Ep 66: Hitching Your Wagon to a Sinking Ship Choosing integrity over illusion

Ep 66: Hitching Your Wagon to a Sinking Ship
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Some will go down with the ship just to avoid saying they were wrong. Integrity asks us to choose truth over pride. Freedom begins the moment we admit what’s sunk … and choose again with love.

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Ep 65: Let Gratitude Walk Beside Your Pain Feel First, then Reframe

Ep 65: Let Gratitude Walk Beside Your Pain
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The ground feels shaky.
Fear and hate are loud.
But gratitude steadies us – not by pretending everything is fine, but by reminding us that love still pulses through the cracks.

#growmorelove #spiritualgeography #gratitude

30.09.2025 17:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Joni Miller, Ph.D. (@jonimiller) Even in times of fear and division, love remains the only destination worth walking toward.

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Ep 64: Confessions of a Hypocrite Wrestling with Fear, Reaching for Love

Ep 64: Confessions of a Hypocrite
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I am a hypocrite, wrestling with my own judgment and anger when I so often speak about love.

What does it mean to keep choosing love when fear is loud and cruelty is cheered?

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Ep 63: In the Name of Religion When labels replace love

Ep 63: In the Name of Religion
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When faith becomes performance, love gets lost.

Online, it’s easy to perform: certainty over compassion. Some use the label Christian like armor, as if it shields from the hurt their words cause. Love is the point. Not the name badge.

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Ep 62: Five Hundred Years of Disagreement (and Counting) Why Ten Commandments Laws Won’t Solve the Mystery of Faith

Ep 62: Five Hundred Years of Disagreement (and Counting)
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Faith thrives in diversity, not control. Certainty comforts some and devastates othersβ€”so what happens when it’s written into law?

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Ep 61: "Thoughts and Prayers" When empathy becomes action

Ep 61: "Thoughts and Prayers"
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β€˜Thoughts and prayers’ -- words we hear after every tragedy. But what do they really mean, and can prayer ever move us beyond words into action?

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Ep 60: Cucumbers, Grapes, and the Stories We Tell About Fairness How the story of β€œwaste, fraud, and abuse” blinds us to truth and love

Ep 60: Cucumbers, Grapes, and the Stories We Tell About Fairness
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β€˜Waste, fraud, and abuse.’ We’ve heard the phrase for decades, but what happens when that story collides with lived experience? This episode explores why fairness resonates so deeply in us.

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Ep 59: Why Some Think the Emperor is Wearing Clothes When Illusions Crumble, Courage Sets Us Free

Ep 59: Why Some Think the Emperor is Wearing Clothes
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Illusions may feel safe and they’re everywhere. But clinging to them costs us more than facing the truth ever will. Be the brave voice that speaks out, breaking the fog of illusion for others.

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Ep 58: Where's My Flying Car? Boldly Go Toward a Future Where Everyone Belongs

Ep 58: Where's My Flying Car?
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Where's the world of inclusion I was promised? Oh ... and where's my flying car?

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Ep 57: I Still Don't Understand Evangelism Love shouldn't require a sales pitch

Ep 57: I Still Don't Understand Evangelism
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Federal employees can encourage co-workers to β€œre-think” their religious beliefs? Yikes. This has been one of the things I have been (1) repelled by and (2) really curious about since I was a teenager. Hear my story below.

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Ep 56: Women Are So Scary Making space for wisdom that doesn't fit the script

Ep 56: Women Are So Scary
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Women are so scary. We’ve locked away too much wisdom in the name of fearβ€”fear of "disruptive" women, of change, of truth. What happens when we stop tightening the grip... and start opening the door?

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Ep 55: Fool's Gold When money, power, and belonging can't meet the deeper need

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Our culture perpetuates that we are β€œnever enough” - not powerful enough, not rich enough, not "manly" enough. But beneath the noise we can find the real motivation and the real solution.

Not fool’s gold. The gold of Love.

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Ep 54: This is not How the Story Has to End Choosing compassion when the world feels cruel

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Maybe it’s not the world that changes first; maybe we need to change before anything else can happen.

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Ep 53: "I Told You So! Why Didn't You Listen to Me!?!" On being right, facing the wreckage, and building a more loving world ... together

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It’s hard to resist saying β€œI told you so” when the ruin proves you right. Even in the wreckage there's another choice: lay down pride, soften our hearts, and invite in those who failed to heed those warnings.

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Ep 52: Growing Beyond the Self-Made Myth How embracing interdependence lets us all thrive

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We’d rather watch everything burn than admit we need each other. That’s the self-made myth at work.

#growmorelove

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I saw that and read it 3 times to see if there was another way to interpret the comment. After my eyes uncrossed, I decided ... maybe ... but probably not.

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Isn't he? I've seen a lot of soul and compassion in dog's eyes.

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Ep 51: Who Gets to Speak for God? Discerning the difference between "power over" and "power with"

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If your theology celebrates destruction, maybe you're not following the Divine. Religion often gets used to enforce obedience & control. Spirituality rooted in love doesn’t coerce or demand certainty; it invites & welcomes mystery.

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Ep 50: "Power Over" and the Politics of Silence Gaslighting, control, and the emotional abuse we've been taught to accept

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Emotional manipulation has become a tactic of power β€” and it thrives in isolation. Healing begins when we name what’s happening, choose connection over compliance, and start to trust what we see, feel, and know again.

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Ep 49: Tearing Holes in History Erasure, memory, and what gets edited out of the story

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Erasing Harvey Milk’s name isn’t just about a ship β€” it’s about whose stories get to matter.

History isn’t just what we remember. It’s what we’re told to forget.

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At the Unite for Veterans rally on 6/6/25 on the National Mall. We stayed until the end and very glad we did - wonderful speakers! Some people left early when it started to rain. @unite4vets.bsky.social #uniteforveterans

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Ep 48: Integrity in the Age of Misdirection Truth, power, and the courage to see clearly

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When power feels threatened, it tells us where to look. Integrity invites us to notice what we’re being asked to ignore.

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Ep 47: Love in a Time of Cruelty Let the rising tide of compassion pull you out of your beach chair

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When the world feels cruel, love asks us to get up from the beach chair and step into the wave. You don’t have to do everything. But you do have to get up. Let your life speak.

Let it speak of love.

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