I will probably be not very active for a while. After 8 years my partner changed his mind and his desire to have children is bigger than his love for me. I need some time to recover from this.
26.10.2025 15:11 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0@scaleesi.bsky.social
32. She/They. ๐ EGL enthusiast since 2007 ๐
I will probably be not very active for a while. After 8 years my partner changed his mind and his desire to have children is bigger than his love for me. I need some time to recover from this.
26.10.2025 15:11 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0This is the absolute dream! Already in love with this wip! ๐
26.10.2025 15:06 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Turns out I am not engaged anymore...
26.10.2025 09:59 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I love trash
22.10.2025 20:12 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Hate???? This coord is so cool! I love the horizontal and vertical striped combined!
16.10.2025 11:10 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Since itโs spooky season, have an old #coordinate photo of me on Halloween, channeling my inner Beetlejuice. ๐ชฒ 
I remember getting a lot of hate for this coord at the time, but then I started a trend, soโฆ ๐
#eglfashion #eglcommunity #lolitafashion #gothiclolita #altfashion #ladysloth
Igmore me I just woke up and am raging with nerves to get my wisdoom tooth removed today. ๐คซ๐ซฃ
16.10.2025 04:53 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Ooooooooooooooh, I've had a hunch it might've be them! Yes I've recently started following them on Insta because of the amazing jester (and medieval princess) hats they make! Will reach out to them when they return to comissions for sure!!! Did not know they were also on here, thanks for sharing! ๐
16.10.2025 04:45 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Thank you so much ๐ฅฐ
15.10.2025 21:30 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0TELL ME MORE PLS ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
15.10.2025 21:30 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Coord details:
Headdress Antique Beast
Knit: Axes Femme
Jsk: Moi-Mรชme-Moitiรฉ
Petticoat: Melikestea
Tighs: Snagtighs
Shoes: Dr. Martens
Mirror selfie with the background replaced by a black and white harlequin diamond pattern which matches the monochrome black and white lolita coord. Wearing a white Antique Beast bat cat headdress. Black and white Moi-Mรชme-Moitiรฉ jsk with cross appliques. A black and white knitted sweater with a harlequin diamond pattern, black and white vertical striped tighs and lace-up leather shoes.
I want to thank @chantillycat.bsky.social for inspiring me to use the worn pattern as a background so you don't have to stare at my cluttered room anymore. I love circus inspired coords. If only I had a jester hat.
#egl #eglfashion #elegantgothiclolita #gothiclolita #lolitafashion #jfashion
Spooky Pokemon for the season ๐๐ป๐ฆโฐ๏ธ #pokemon #halloween
11.10.2025 19:25 โ ๐ 3384 ๐ 1147 ๐ฌ 9 ๐ 0Beep and Meep are taking a nice bath together ๐ฅบ๐
Nothing could possibly go wrong ๐๐
Omg AFI brings back some core memories! Davey Havoc with his long lucious curls was such a heartthrob to me back in the day, ngl... ๐ค
11.10.2025 17:27 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0"No one is coming to save you..."
I, for one, don't want to be saved. Haha. Finally managed to finish this beast in between the chaos that is my life. Hopefully ya'll enjoy it~!
#sajaboys #kpdh #youridol
Thank you so much! Only able to reply now as I just got home, but thanks for the kind words on both this one and my previous post ๐ฅน๐ค
10.10.2025 13:42 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Photo of a classic gothic lolita coord with the interior of the Cologne cathedral. Wearing a black headdress with bows on the sides. Long natural red hair frames the face. A mocha coloured satin Motie blouse with matching jabot with black laces which covers the neckline of a black Alice and the Pirates jsk. The skirt has a beige/brown windowed print, picturing scenes from Romeo and Juliet. Frilly black bloomers are visible from underneath the skirt. Holding a black purse in the right hand, and black otk socks and pointed toe Dr. Marten lace up shoes are also worn.
Ok but can we talk about how well this coord matches the interior of the cathedral? How can I go back to crusty mirror selfies now?
Headdress: 
Blouse and jabot: Moitie
Jsk: AatP
Bloomers: SummerTales Boutique
Shoes: Dr. Martens
#egl #eglfashion #elegantgothiclolita #lolitafashion #jfashion #aatp
A close picture to the face of a shiny Cyndaquil in Pokรฉmon Violet and the text "do you ever leave a social situation and you're like Mmmm that was not my best work".
09.10.2025 18:58 โ ๐ 511 ๐ 160 ๐ฌ 8 ๐ 3Photo in front of the Cologne cathedral. A fully black gothic lolita coord is worn. The black veiled headdress has pearls on top which match the buttons on the blouse. Long natural red hair frames the face. The bodice of the dress has a black velvet cross applique. Black frilly bloomers are showing from underneath the skirt. Black knee length socks and strappy platform shoes complete the look. The skirt is held in both hands on both sides to add volume.
Photo in front of the Cologne cathedral. A fully black gothic lolita coord is worn. The black veiled headdress has pearls on top which match the buttons on the blouse. Long natural red hair frames the face. The bodice of the dress has a black velvet cross applique. Black frilly bloomers are showing from underneath the skirt. Black knee length socks and strappy platform shoes complete the look. An upside down peace sign points towards the camera and the legs are crossed.
Today my Goth dream was fulfilled. I asked my fiancรฉ for coord photos at the Cologne cathedral
Headdress: AP
Blouse: Meta
Jsk: Shiroi Tsubasa
Petticoat: Melikestea
Bloomers: SummerTales Boutique
Shoes: Buffalo
#egl #elegantgothiclolita #eglfashion #gothiclolita #kurololita #jfashion #lolitafashion
I accidentally deleted my last post lmao
07.10.2025 21:47 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Your edits and coords are always amazing! May I ask in which app you edit in? I love how you use your prints as backgrounds!
03.10.2025 05:51 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Two images of Poster wearing Baby the Stars Shine Bright (BTSSB) / Sleeping Beauty Shirring JSK in black, onto top of the embroidered design of the skirt, in a black x pink lolita fashion coord. "She Is Sleeping" in pink cursive text is between both images. Poster's headbow, blouse, and lace-topped otk-worn-as-utk socks are pink. The JSK and shoes are black (to go with their black curly hair). The right image has them holding a white x pink tote bag
There's like a bajillion ways I could've edited this one--I love this dress so much .ยทยฐ(T^T)ียฐยท.
Headbow, blouse: MAXICIMAM
JSK, bag: BTSSB
Socks: The Black Ribbon
Shoes: Converse
Necklace: Lief
หส[ #lolitafashion #plussizelolita #egl #eglfashion #plussizeegl #jfashion ]ษห
Watercolor illustration of two Pokรฉmon, Pumpkaboo and Mimikyu, sharing a big, swirly lollipop. Thereโs also a jack-o-lantern shaped candy basket in front.
Sharing is caring ๐งก
#art #pokemon #pokemonart #watercolor
I am sorry you have to go through this. I can relate, but with a friendship, I "thought" I had. It really can tear your heart open. Sending you hugs and healing โค๏ธโ๐ฉน
03.10.2025 05:46 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Me, but with music. Not me listening to One of the Greats by Florence + the Machine since the moment it was released. And I mean I ONLY have listened to that single song since... All day... Every day... I was the same when Ghost released Skeleta and I only listened to that album on repeat for MONTHS
02.10.2025 15:56 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0A stylized illustration of Pumpkaboo, the pumpkin designed Pokemon with a black leafy top sitting on its pumpkin body with its face featured on it. its smiling with hearts and exclamations around it.
It's the most wonderful time of the year ๐ (spooky time)
#pokemon โก #digitalart โก #cuteart
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