A good argument should stand on its own logic, rather than invoking random examples or personalities to seem valid.
It’s a pity to realize that not everyone has this ability— if I can call this an ability.
Sorry I am so mean this time.
“怪自己挑男人的眼光不好”，“怨恨还爱对方的自己”……
这样的情绪我好像没有在接触过的西方文艺作品中看到过，甚至都有点怀疑国外是不是没有这种情绪。
比如门罗一家的事，门罗自己的作品中还真没看到过。
国人倒确实有……只是国内没有创作这种作品的土壤。
Sometimes I wonder if my brain often creating romantic dreams for me is because it wants to stimulate the estrogen production and it realizes I am getting older even I myself don’t take it seriously.
But throwing into something intense to feel alive or breaking through a barrier, feels good.
When suddenly having free time after being so busy for so long, I feel a bit anxious.
I tried to watch some K-pop videos last weekend and wow, those boys and girls are so amazing!
Finally I find the current best song for me—Egotistic from Mamamoo. It’s so magnetic and I start to play it on repeat.
I'll take a long vacation after finishing this project!
I can spend time with my dad's dog Abu (so sad he is not my dog, because he is my dad's baby little son...sorry to say that).
I miss him so much. His fluffy hair, his cutest smile, his familiar smell and...woof!
Friendships often create a layer of trust and loyalty that can make it harder to objectively evaluate someone’s behavior, especially in a professional setting.
But being within the system, one can clearly see the patterns and harm a person causes.
But, it's still terrifying to see how quickly judgement and cruelty can escalate, how deeply it can hurt people, and when facing this situation, how little control individuals have over how they are portrayed or treated once something gains traction.
The internet can be an unforgiving place.
When we are honest and open, the expression from us is raw and exposed, which would make people feel uneasy, so there will be lots of harsh comments and lead to so much frastration and anxiety.
That doesn't mean honesty is wrong. And the judgement doesn't diminish the validity of my feelings.
My coworkers and I are working ourselves to the brink. The conversation between I and ChatGPT shows how deeply ingrained the company culture is, and how hard for us to change the situation—the fear of saying ‘no’ outweighs the need to protect oneself.
I need to reclaim my life.
方方面面都配合着演大片。
ChatGPT said it’s Okay to take time to explore my feelings without pressure to get it “right”. When it comes to emotions, relationships and meaning, truth is personal, it depends on who I am and what I need.
But why? Why can truth be personal? If so, is truth still truth?
实在是很残酷…….前两天还看了一篇更残酷的报道，现在租房市场都不租给60岁以上的人，因为害怕人可能随时会死……
《回避型人类》
这本书比起科普作品，更像科幻散文。
作者用了很多篇幅来描述他理解中的回避型人类&他们怎样的社会生存优势，以及他们如何通过环境变化和基因双重作用，完成对人类这一物种的进化😂
理论不能当真，但如果把它当成科幻文学作品，那还是挺好看。
而且这种“未来的人写下的科普随笔”的设定很带感啊。
🌊🐕 #NAFO #Meme #Shiba #Wave #NAFOMeme
我舍不得离开那边一大原因就是时间线上的好多好多小狗，伤心了。
所以后来我和朋友都更看重人品而不是立场。
立场不一致但人品好的朋友最多就是吵吵架，人品烂的转手就是一个挂人开盒……
好！
不骗你，节目质量不错，邀请的也都是正经的嘉宾，不会来听床胡扯。
但也不能改变谈话节目的本质——嘉宾们的闲聊。聊天本来就很难深入，节目更不可能搞成枯燥的研究过程总结，因此对大部分人来说都是听个乐子，听专家权威表明“我的看法是对的”。
啊对！！！十分羡慕特别羡慕非常羡慕！
为啥是不明白播客……虽然我也会（挑着）听，但我都觉得听这个只是增加了键政谈资，和“学习”没啥关系。
学习才不是这样散漫地听两集嘉宾对谈能搞定的，下次他再这样讲，可以把手头事情全扔给对方，讲明自己要去真·学习。
现在已经没什么真正的好物分享了叹气，大概率都是博主在接推广☹️
这种枕头可以不买，非常花里胡哨还贵，但是睡着并没有声称的那么舒服。
我买了一个，感觉钱打了水漂，懊恼了很久。
我换头像但是名字还是那个名字～
