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๐ŸŽฎ Dating Anxiety Coach for Nerds ๐Ÿ•น๏ธ Level up your social skills ๐Ÿ‘พ Unlock your Player 2. No game required.

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๐ŸŽง Press Start to learn how to approach your gym crush without being creepy! ๐ŸงŸ
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29.10.2025 15:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ‘จ๐Ÿปโ€๐Ÿ’ป In this episode, Jordan Yaklin, an online health and lifestyle coach who helps gamers level up their fitness and reclaim their health, breaks down why the gym is a completely different dungeon than bars, dating apps, or cold approaching strangers ๐Ÿ‘€

29.10.2025 15:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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How to Approach Your Gym Crush (Without Being A Creep) - Date Like A Nerd ๐Ÿ‹๏ธโ€โ™€๏ธ Afraid to approach your gym crush? People go there to exercise and decompress, not to be hit on So how do you bridge that gap?

๐Ÿ‹๏ธโ€โ™€๏ธ Afraid to approach your gym crush? People go there to exercise and decompress, not to be hit on by random NPCs. So how do you bridge that gap?

29.10.2025 15:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐ŸŽง Press Start and learn how to set your single-player hobbies to multi-player mode!
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15.10.2025 15:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿฅ˜ If you're feeling "cooked" because college social life seems like a distant memory, this episode breaks down exactly how to transform solo activities into friend-making (and potentially date-finding) opportunities ๐Ÿ’˜

15.10.2025 15:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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'I'm Cooked' (Where to Find Dates After College) - Date Like A Nerd How can you date after college? Brandon's suddenly realizing his social circle went from hundreds of new classmates to... well, nothing.

๐Ÿซ How do you find dates after you're done with college? ๐Ÿ•ฐ๏ธ For many people, high school and uni gave us the perfect place to meet people. But once that's over, what do you do? How can you meet someone to date if you're not meeting... well, basically anyone? ๐Ÿคท

15.10.2025 15:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐ŸŽง Press Start and play the games you want without worrying about others!

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01.10.2025 15:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

In this episode, Elyse @princessbilbo.bsky.social shares her experience as an asexual woman ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ From her early teens pretending to have crushes, to struggling to explain to people who couldn't understand or accept her as she is ๐Ÿคจ

01.10.2025 15:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Dating as an Asexual - Date Like A Nerd Whether it is being asexual, playing video games, or anything else, being different has its challenges. Learn how to overcome them here!

โ‰  Many of us are different in one way or another, so we try to fit into the social mold. Many of us have experienced social pressures trying to force us into other people's molds. But that doesn't mean that we have to disrespect our boundaries just to accommodate ๐Ÿšง

01.10.2025 15:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐ŸŽง Press Start to discover why leveling up your game may not be worth the grind! ๐Ÿ’ช

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17.09.2025 14:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ’ป In this episode, a 40-year-old programmer shares his journey from socially isolated nerd to pickup artist practitioner to married father, and the unexpected ways those dating experiences still affect his relationships today ๐Ÿ‘บ

17.09.2025 14:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Hidden Cost of Finding Love With Red Pill Dating - Date Like A Nerd ๐Ÿ’Š What happens when red pill advice "works"? John thought he'd found the cheat code to dating, but he then found the hidden costs ๐ŸŽญ

๐Ÿ’Š What happens when red pill advice "works"? John thought he'd found the cheat code to dating, but after years of grinding bars and clubs, he discovered the hidden costs of building relationships on a foundation of masks ๐ŸŽญ

17.09.2025 14:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐ŸŽง Are you ready to become a social nerd? Press Start!

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03.09.2025 17:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

In this episode, Pete โ€ช@be1mont.bsky.socialโ€ฌ shared how he went from being a shy, quiet, serious kid to being comfortable talking to everyone. Just like Attachment Theory teaches, it often involves the support of other people. In his case, with the help of other nerds who invited him to hang out ๐Ÿง™โ€โ™‚๏ธ

03.09.2025 17:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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How to Make Nerd Friends - Date Like A Nerd Meeting your Player 2 organically can be a challenging quest. It involves balancing making friends while keeping an eye out ๐Ÿ‘€

๐Ÿ˜ค Meeting your Player 2 organically can be a challenging quest. It involves balancing making friends while keeping an eye out for potential connections ๐Ÿค”

03.09.2025 17:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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From No Dates to Feeling Truly Seen and Accepted - Date Like A Nerd ๐Ÿ’” How can you find someone to date when dating apps aren't working for you, and all you do is work and stay at home? ๐ŸงŒ

In this episode, Kirk shared his challenges to date as a single nerd ๐Ÿ˜ฐ He was told that "if you focus on yourself and sort out your life, someone will come." Although that was not the case, he did manage to get a first date! ๐Ÿ™Œ

๐ŸŽง Are you ready? PRESS START! ๐Ÿ‘พ

www.datelikeanerd.com/podcast/how-...

20.08.2025 15:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ’” How can you find someone to date when dating apps aren't working, and all you do is work, stay at home, and meet with the same D&D group or play Warhammer 1-on-1? ๐ŸงŒ

20.08.2025 15:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It's much easier to "just be yourself" when you're surrounded by people who make you feel comfortable.

That's only one of many reasons why making friends can help you find a Player 2!

14.08.2025 14:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐ŸŽง If you want to meet someone to give The One Ring to, listen to this episode! ๐Ÿ’

www.datelikeanerd.com/podcast/dati...

06.08.2025 15:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿง™โ€โ™‚๏ธ In this episode, Jose and I discuss what it was like to date within the Argentine Tolkien Association. Just like a Skill Tree, each friend you make can introduce you to others who are similar... until you unlock your Player 2 ๐Ÿ•น๏ธ

06.08.2025 15:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Dating In The Tolkien Association - Date Like A Nerd What does dating within a nerd community look like? Finding a group you're comfortable with can help you "just be yourself" and find love.

๐Ÿ‘ฏ What does dating within a nerd community look like? Finding a group you're comfortable with can help you "just be yourself" and find your Player 2 ๐Ÿ™Œ It also means you'll be enjoying yourself until that happens, which makes you much more attractive!

06.08.2025 15:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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What Your Video Game Choices Say About You - Date Like A Nerd ๐Ÿฆพ Succeed IRL with your gamer skills! Reach achievements similar to your video game preferences! Press Start! ๐Ÿ•น๏ธ

๐ŸŽง Listen now and start choosing the best challenges for your player type! ๐Ÿฆพ

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23.07.2025 21:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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What Your Video Game Choices Say About You - Date Like A Nerd ๐Ÿฆพ Succeed IRL with your gamer skills! Reach achievements similar to your video game preferences! Press Start! ๐Ÿ•น๏ธ

๐Ÿ–ค Dating, like most things in life, has its own set of challenges. The cheat code is to choose the ones you're most likely to enjoy โ›ฐ๏ธ

In this episode, Dr. Daniel Kaufmann โ€ช@drgameology.bsky.socialโ€ฌ is back to share how you can succeed IRL by learning what you value in video games! ๐ŸŽฎ

23.07.2025 21:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

If you want a Player 2 who joins your nerd Quests, this is the episode for you! ๐Ÿง™

๐ŸŽง Press Start to go on an adventure... for two! โ›ฐ๏ธ

www.datelikeanerd.com/podcast/the-...

09.07.2025 13:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The High School Reunion - Date Like A Nerd Pete "Belmont" shares how he lost contact with his high school crush, only to meet again 10 years later at their high school reunion

๐Ÿ“† High school crushes don't have to end with the academic year. Sometimes, relationships may respawn much later ๐Ÿ’

In this episode, Pete @be1mont.bsky.social shares how he lost contact with his high school crush, only to meet again 10 years later at their high school reunion ๐Ÿง‘โ€๐Ÿซ

09.07.2025 13:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The High School Reunion - Date Like A Nerd Pete "Belmont" shares how he lost contact with his high school crush, only to meet again 10 years later at their high school reunion

If you want a Player 2 who joins your nerd Quests, this is the episode for you! ๐Ÿง™

๐ŸŽง Press Start to go on an adventure... for two! โ›ฐ๏ธ

www.datelikeanerd.com/podcast/the-...

09.07.2025 13:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

If you want a Player 2 who joins your nerd Quests, this is the episode for you! ๐Ÿง™

๐ŸŽง Press Start to go on an adventure... for two! โ›ฐ๏ธ

www.datelikeanerd.com/podcast/the-...

09.07.2025 13:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Do you want to start doing what actually works to find your player 2?

Here's the full report and a complete data-driven guide for your Quest for love!

datelikeanerd.com/reality

30.06.2025 14:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Where Nerds Really Meet Their Player 2 - Date Like A Nerd Tired of dating advice that feels like it was written for a totally different species? This is a data-based dating guide for nerds!

Only 6% of Nerd Couples met on Dating Apps!
I surveyed hundreds of Nerds and found out where they really met their Player 2 (it wasn't apps, bars, or cold approaches), how many started as friends (68%!), and where singles actually go to socialize (spoiler: the wrong places!).

30.06.2025 14:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Do you want to start doing what actually works to find your player 2?

Here's the full report and a complete data-driven guide for your Quest for love!
datelikeanerd.com/reality

30.06.2025 14:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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