Bevin 🎀

Faith reconstruction after a fundamentalist upbringing is difficult and worth it! Shylah Joie Hill talks about her name change and continuing to grow into her authenticity. youtu.be/oIbDZ9pJU5Y

(Audio 205 Spotify / Apple Podcasts--search "Bevin" for Bevin: A Femme over 40 and her Friends podcast)

As someone who has managed to not cross a picket line even when it was nearly all the grocery stores in the metro area on strike, really don't wanna hear anyone talking about how they just HAVE to cross the Starbucks picket line. This is like the easiest solidarity ever.

It feels SO UNCOMFORTABLE for me to keep changing and then explain how I'm changing to the world.

I didn't expect this but now I'm developing my psychic readership skills and so much is unfolding for me! A catch up solo podcast episode! youtu.be/X8xH5xB5gqg

My basic pep talk for when my brain wants to do what my body is not available for is "What is for me will not pass me by." New blog post about not having the arrival day I intended at the recent #AlchemyBurn. queerfatfemme.com/2025/10/24/s...

Plus Size Sweatpants & Tee Shirts (up to 6X) from Octopied Mind: Review and Discount Code queerfatfemme.com/2025/09/25/p...

New blog post! Since we have free will choice, we have to ask to be guided. Spirit needs only the slightest invitation to help out. queerfatfemme.com/2025/09/12/s...

New blog post! Five and a half years is a lifetime! Reflecting on my first trip back to Los Angeles since I moved away! queerfatfemme.com/2025/09/05/r...

YouTube video by Self Care Party Dr. Melissa A Fabello: Gaylor and the Taylor Swift Engagement

Dr Melissa Fabello taught me what Gaylor theory is all about. We review & reflect on that theory in the wake of the engagement. And what Travis does that could help cure the male loneliness epidemic!
wherever you podcast (search “bevin: a femme over 40”) or you tube: youtu.be/s7Ye6R8QB-8

Peet’s coffee Cold Brew Horchata Oat Milk Latte is a revelation of delicious and creamy dairy free. I’m in Sacramento on a layover. Peet’s is a fav from my early caffeinated years in California. Omg I just need to tell everyone who likes coffee how yummy this is.

New blog post! Never underestimate how much joy you offer by just showing up empty handed and bedraggled. queerfatfemme.com/2025/07/16/s...

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I Canceled My Audible Membership Here's How I'm Doing Audiobooks Now. New blog post! queerfatfemme.com/2025/05/21/i...

YouTube video by Brittany LeMoine Interview with the Vampire-Burning Down the House

Brad Pitt from 1994’s Interview with the Vampire set the fire. youtu.be/D0DtooamB1k?...

YouTube video by Self Care Party VLOG: Highlights from my First Cruise on the Voyager of the Seas

New podcast episode! I am so glad I was willing to change my mind about cruising. I had a great time on my first one--here are my highlights! youtu.be/vTvQUkqf0KQ

(You can get the audio version on your fav podcast app--search "Bevin: A Femme over 40 and her Friends" and please subscribe it totally helps!)

YouTube video by Self Care Party Vlog: Overcoming Defensiveness

New podcast episode! I reflect on not needing to protect myself from how people perceive me. If there's nothing to defend, it feels so free and that comes from an internal sense of safety developed through healing authority trauma.

youtu.be/BxRr_C8f5MI

I am linking to the app for new users a different micro pet in each post either a wizard polar bear or a ghost (I’ve hatched neither and look forward to adopting them when the game gods allow).

Reflecting on how the #finchapp is keeping me grounded while on my gaycation! It’s so hard to stay consistent on the road! Queerfatfemme.com or bevinsparty.substack.com.

New blog post! I thought about things that have been therapeutic for me over the past year. What I have done to grieve the loss of my beloved Feline Overlord. queerfatfemme.com/2025/03/21/g...

This technique for releasing fear from the body is up on Patreon.com/fkdp for all levels of support through Saturday, then it will be available for Spiritual Teachings + higher tier! I hope it helps!

This is a ritual I got from Jana of FeelingLoudly.com that is so appropriate for this Virgo lunar eclipse today (book a reading with Jana if you’re feeling confused about life / want some guidance!)

My guides told me in March I need to be as DOTING on myself in my thought life as I possibly can be. Your post about fluffy soft made me think of that!!

How can we show up for each other AS family? What is mine to do? This clever mutual aid idea came to me through one of the community meals I attend. I think it's so powerful and actionable! I hope this inspires you to do something! queerfatfemme.com/2025/03/05/m...

"The test of our progress is not whether we add more to the abundance of those who have much; it is whether we provide enough for those who have too little."

—FDR, 1937

SOCIAL SECURITY THREATENED And you know by who...

Since 2008, Musk himself has received $38 billion dollars in government contracts. With those contracts, he earns from our government somewhere around $8 million dollars a day, while the average senior on social security makes $65 a day. open.substack.com/pub/marianne...

YouTube video by Self Care Party Vlog: How to Build Community Part One

How to build community part one! Because we are all we have! Podcast episode! youtu.be/XfrEN6RYMj8?...

Yes, this administration is dangerous and cruel, but they are also shockingly dim and incompetent.

Opportunities are everywhere.

Make everything as hard as possible. Resist every demand. Refuse entry without a warrant. Don’t take the buyout. Their problem solving skills are 📉

by @juliusgoat.bsky.social

Hilarious! Hope all is okay from the hospital on your end!

Best lil pep talk in the email this morning from the email list of Kaitlyn Grana motherofmystics.com