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Nicole Bedera

@nbedera.bsky.social

Sociologist studying how our social structures make sexual violence more likely to occur. Author of ON THE WRONG SIDE. Co-founder of Beyond Compliance Consulting. PhD UMich.

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A lot of blaming voters, not enough blaming voter suppression

04.03.2026 14:55 β€” πŸ‘ 606    πŸ” 153    πŸ’¬ 10    πŸ“Œ 13

This is a good response.

04.03.2026 17:32 β€” πŸ‘ 4635    πŸ” 536    πŸ’¬ 81    πŸ“Œ 3

As someone who has survived multiple jaw bone infections and needed several endodontic treatments for tooth infections, let me tell you that this man died in one of the most painful ways possible

They tortured him. An untreated tooth infection is torture.

04.03.2026 16:27 β€” πŸ‘ 1576    πŸ” 565    πŸ’¬ 23    πŸ“Œ 21

losing a primary by FIFTY points because you backed ICE should tell everyone where the zeitgeist is right now

04.03.2026 14:00 β€” πŸ‘ 5290    πŸ” 1027    πŸ’¬ 27    πŸ“Œ 35

It is next to impossible for girls to make it to adulthood without feeling shame over being good at something.

I know this post is about body image. But that’s definitely a lurking element too. I’m glad she has you, especially in these tough, vulnerable moments.

04.03.2026 17:56 β€” πŸ‘ 17    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

And, again, it’s a losing playbook.

We gained nothing, but lost hope of a true opposition party.

04.03.2026 17:23 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

And the role that shift has played in the Democratic Party becoming so unbelievably ineffective against Trump.

They are governing the way Bush-era Republicans would tell Democrats to govern.

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I know some people are reading this and thinking, β€œWe know, we know.”

But my brother is one of those people. He used to poll for Republicans and now he polls for Democrats. I genuinely think hardly anyone realizes how much of the machinery of the Democratic Party became fundamentally conservative.

04.03.2026 17:23 β€” πŸ‘ 15    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

We really don’t talk enough about how the Democrats’ eager embrace of the β€œNever Trump” Republicans hugely changed the Democratic Partyβ€”especially the consultant class that shapes their platforms and messaging.

And that those Republicans are the ones who lost to Trump first.

04.03.2026 17:23 β€” πŸ‘ 38    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

Thank you. I’m glad to do what I can to help.

04.03.2026 17:10 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

We’re having a nice (and infuriating) conversation on how the Trump administration weaponized the concept of retaliation on this thread.

This is a playbook he tried out on Title IX, but Trump uses it a lot more broadly. We saw similar rhetoric in the justification of ICE’s violence in Minneapolis.

04.03.2026 16:49 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It absolutely is.

04.03.2026 16:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I literally had a conversation with a Title IX investigator once who insisted that sexual assault was protected under freedom of speech.

In the same conversation, he said that telling someone you had been sexually assaulted was punishable.

04.03.2026 16:43 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Yes. The ideology of victim blame is so deeply held that people really believe any violence reflects the failure of the victim. The perpetrator remains entirely blameless.

04.03.2026 16:43 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m glad you found it useful!

Title IX operates exactly opposite of how the average person would expect. It’s so helpful to have people spreading the word about that.

04.03.2026 16:39 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

just thinking about how USAID was dismantled under the rationale of cost savings but there's an unlimited budget for war

04.03.2026 06:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1744    πŸ” 435    πŸ’¬ 37    πŸ“Œ 23

There's been a lot of debate within the Democratic establishment about what rhetoric to use via ICE.

Well, an incumbent doesn't lose by 48 percentage points very oftenβ€”and her vote on collaborating with ICE was the defining issue here.

04.03.2026 04:49 β€” πŸ‘ 8180    πŸ” 2436    πŸ’¬ 95    πŸ“Œ 105

Exactly this. There are very, very few scenarios in which schools are required to act by federal regulation.

A lot of state laws are more protective, but Title IX employees tend to ignore them entirely.

04.03.2026 16:17 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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On the Wrong Side: How Universities Protect Perpetrators and Betray Survivors of Sexual Violence How Universities Protect Perpetrators and Betray Survivors of Sexual Violence

If you’re interested in this, I wrote about the weaponization of anti-retaliation policies (and other good faith efforts like no contact orders) in On the Wrong Side.

04.03.2026 16:15 β€” πŸ‘ 17    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

One of the primary vehicles through which victims are disciplined is through assertions that they β€œretaliated” against their perpetrators by things like seeking help, sharing their experiences on social media, or warning friends going into the perpetrator’s orbit.

04.03.2026 16:15 β€” πŸ‘ 18    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Technically, there is already legal precedent to protect whistleblowers from retaliation. It’s just been contorted by Title IX administrators into protection for the accused.

04.03.2026 16:15 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

To be clear, Trump’s Title IX regulation is sloppy and ambiguous. Schools have a huge amount of discretion to do better than this.

But Trump gave them permission to discriminate and manyβ€”if not mostβ€”schools are taking advantage.

04.03.2026 16:05 β€” πŸ‘ 25    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Trump’s Title IX regulation was explicitly designed to offer perpetrators impunity and punish victims who came forward.

It isn’t a coincidence that we’re seeing an uptick in these cases.

04.03.2026 16:05 β€” πŸ‘ 29    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

I spoke to @kattenbarge.bsky.social for this story. For about a year or so, I’ve been hearing a lot more stories about victims of sexual violence being expelled or suspended after interacting with Title IX.

I’m glad that one of their stories is making it into the light.

04.03.2026 16:03 β€” πŸ‘ 57    πŸ” 22    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

Yeah, that’s the underlying dynamic.

Republicans are ceding authority to Trump (Plan B). And that means Congress won’t act as a unified check on executive power (because Plan B stands in the way of Plan C).

03.03.2026 19:01 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Listen. The idea that Congress still sees themselves as Plan C is a problem.

03.03.2026 18:34 β€” πŸ‘ 60    πŸ” 11    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I have absolutely no idea what Trump is trying to accomplish in Iran, or how he plans to accomplish it, and the fun thing is that neither does he!

That's why the constitution does not give the President the authority to launch wars without Congressional approval.

03.03.2026 17:15 β€” πŸ‘ 3840    πŸ” 664    πŸ’¬ 293    πŸ“Œ 49

Fascinating. Horrifying.

The Propagandists’ Playbook by Francesca Bolla Tripodi is the book to read if you want to understand a big part of why certain words trigger such different responses.

03.03.2026 18:31 β€” πŸ‘ 34    πŸ” 11    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
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Many Americans hold contradictory opinions on the same policies Our new poll finds question wording can swing opinion by 20+ points on immigration, the budget, and transgender rights. That's a problem for people who use polls to tell politicians what voters want.

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Many Americans hold contradictory opinions on the same policies. Question wording effects can swing opinions by 20+ points on immigration, the budget, and transgender rights.
That's a problem for people who interpret polls for a living.

www.gelliottmorris.com/p/many-ameri...

03.03.2026 13:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1028    πŸ” 295    πŸ’¬ 69    πŸ“Œ 140
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N.Y. Attorney General Orders Hospital to Resume Youth Transgender Care

GENDER-AFFIRMING CARE IS HEALTH CARE.

Thank you to the NY Attorney General’s Office for affirming our community.

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