Chocolate Philosopher

As someone who CURRENTLY works at a university…..correct.

A department VP current wife is a woman who was his assistant….at the same university where he ex wife ALSO worked as a professor….at the same university.

Apparently AWS was hacked?

I heard my Grandmother speak to me this morning. 🥹

And I needed it.

I heard her voice clear as day

“I’m proud of you girl”

And I just cried. And cried.

One of these days when I’m in the mood to tell all my business again , I’ll tell the story of how years later I ended up at a conference with my ex work husband and his actual wife …

And how he tried to come to my room

THIS!

It’s some questions I’m holding on to RIGHT NOW … because I’m not ready for the answer

My boy had to be restrained at a Christmas party bc the work husband recited his wife’s coffee order from memory.

They need therapy.

It’s a deep seated “WHAT ABOUT ME” brewing in their spirit.

All I know is that my work husband took care of me for four years.

So … go be great!

Life is rough 😂

Story of my life.

I am NOT excited 😂

a woman wearing a white hat and an apron is holding a spoon in her hand . ALT: a woman wearing a white hat and an apron is holding a spoon in her hand .

They have a sign up sheet in the Breakroom for our “Thanksgiving Potluck”

I knew I had reached my limit yesterday… because when I realized I left my AirPods in the uber

I just started crying.

I was undone 😩

Autumn Awakens. Yesterday afternoon in Chicago's Lincoln Park as the colors are starting to pop.

You know how EYE KNOW I am God’s favorite ?

I was out of the office two days and only came back to FOUR voicemails

“Women go through fire and come out functional”

Is a word.

emotional regulation is more than just staying calm. it’s learning how to sit with what’s happening inside you without trying to escape it. sometimes peace feels unfamiliar because chaos was our first teacher.

Oh yeah … I was Gorgeous last night for Besties Birthday!

Pause.

Stop.

Choose.

Take a moment for you.

Let it out …

Let it Breathe.

You’re exactly where you’re supposed to be.

I love when I can tell that someone’s Art is a Love Letter to Blackness.

And that’s what this jukejoint scene in #Sinners Feels like to me.

An ode to Black expression: past, present and future

Your body ain’t forget me …

Now … Michael B Jordan never really made me thunder down under.

But as Stack …

There’s a rumble in the distance

Careful Boy … you gon bite off more than you can chew

You’re on my mind … but I want you on my body.

Okay so I’m (Finally) watching #Sinners … got a little something rolled up.

Putting fresh sheets on the bed.

Windows open … it’s RAINING RAINING

Anxiety levels lowering.

It’s nice little Sunday Evening.

EYE, ME, MYSELF
Feel like Selfishness has such a negative connotation.

When it shouldn’t.

Because like … if YOU don’t put YOU first , who will?

And when you fulfill and take care of yourself … you fuck around and have more to give.

You might be on to something!!!

I’m about to start a movie at 8pm like I don’t need to be asleep