💀SPUWUKY Sage💀

ok yeah uh. i might need to genuinely get off here for a while bc now my abuser is just straight up pulling shit to actively put my safety in jeopardy by putting my literal birthname on blast so like. theres some shit thats just genuinely too far no matter how much you try and twist and justify it

Clenching ur jaw all by urself beautiful?? (⋆ᴗ͈ˬᴗ͈⋆)

With every hour & every decision today, remember: there is nothing "selfish" about choosing yourself. In choosing yourself, your safety, stability, & recovery, you are also choosing to show up for every person or pet or cause you care about.

Choosing you is choosing them.

You are not "wrong" or "bad" or "weak" for not wanting to revisit old wounds. Nobody wants to.

A huge challenge in trauma recovery is confronting & managing our very normal, very human desire to never think about that sh*t again, to gloss over it, to minimize it, to belittle it.

like if ur gonna insist on continuing to stalk me can you at least not be so damn obvious about it

quick fairy miku 🎀🩷

Taunie! 💛✨ #PokemonLegendsZA #fanart

friendly reminder to stop wasting your time looking for the good in them. they just suck and they’ve shown you that 1000 times. believe it!!! ur welcome.

Try to enjoy something today, big or small. Don't pressure yourself, but be open to the experience of pleasure.

Nothing pisses off our abusers & bullies like our joy-- which should tell us how important it is to our recovery.

Abuse enablers make excuses. Survivors in recovery make goals. Live your life in such a way there's no doubt which you are.

moving was just the first step to healing, it's not going to just magically solve everything by itself, but im getting there

Just for today, speak to yourself w/ warmth & realism (no, they're not incompatible, no matter what Trauma Brain says). Try it on. Consider compassionate self-talk a recovery tool you're experimenting w/.

No pressure, no rush. You're developing a tool. No more, no less.

AW MANNN that such an awesome gift though

WHERE DID YOU GET THIS TUMBLER I NEED IT

grief sucks

😋

i think im gonna get the switch 2 pkm legends edition when it releases

No, as a matter of fact, your bullies & abusers were NOT right about what you "deserve" or what you're "allowed" to do with your life.

Just in case you needed the reminder at this second.

the prince sleeps on mommy’s bed

i hate ugly bitches who are like 'nothing i ever do is wrong and all my shit behavior is justified!!' which is different from 'yes i handled things badly and could have done better AND you did some stuff that was messed up and hurtful too'

me if anyone cares

You are not a burden for telling your story.

If someone's life is negatively impacted by you telling the truth about how they behaved, that's something they did-- not you. Remember. Remember.

and like its just SO obvious this is what they always wanted. a perfect little clique of glazers who would fully enable and encourage their abuse and support them being the absolute worst versions of themselves. and honestly im happy for them! im glad ur dream came true <3

Illustration of a litteral dragon fruit. They are in the shape of wyverns. There are baby dragons and a large dragon. They have a red and green color palete. The bellies and wings are made of dragon fruit

dragon fruit #art

No behavior of yours can "make" someone abuse you. "If you didn't want it, why did you..." is one of the stupidest, most illogical statements that get shoved at trauma survivors.

Recognize it for the bullsh*t that it is, every time someone tries to invoke it.

like shoutout to ppl whose cognitive function isnt completely fried from trauma i just cant relate 👌

girl i could never play satisfactory that shit would melt my brain

like its so funny how they whipped themselves into such a frenzy they forgot they were supposed to be pretending they Weren't complete pieces of shit

like genuinely laughing about how i didnt even have to do anything at ALL for these ppl to go completely mask off for literally no reason