Cozy Cat Cafe

If your partner does not live up to your hygiene standards please break up with them. It absolutely has health consequences. ☕️💜

As an attorney, yes it is possible, but it isn't likely. A man who is unwilling to take the simplest and most direct route to mitigate these issues is unlikely to take the more complicated steps to ensure your safety and security.

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I am 4B, but as an attorney, I need women to understand that marriage is NOT "just a piece of paper." There are legal ramifications to not being married to your partner when they become incapacitated, disabled, or die. ☕️💜

Probably an unpopular opinion but do know that when you agree that the partner who "works less" or "earns less" should do more housework, you are condemning the woman to more housework every time.

Female breadwinners do MORE chores, not less. This logic only applies to men. ☕️💜

TW: SA.

Not all men, but every man that says "not all men" is complicit in patriarchy. ☕️💜

99.9% of men could be convicted abusers, and if a woman said "Most men are abusive," a man would still be offended.

It does not matter how large or how accurate the number is, they will always be more offended that you treat them like the threat they are to your safety, then at the behavior. ☕️💜

How The "Broken Picker" Hurt Single Women Setting up a generation for self-blame.

Free and interesting read:
1982.substack.com/p/how-the-br... ☕️💜

Imagine blaming someone for not picking the winning lottery ticket. ☕️💜

TW: the opinion of a man. Please be aware that perfectly average looking men are capable of harboring the abhorrent opinion that you cease to be a person when you become a wife and mother. ☕️💜

I have never met a woman who regretted leaving at the first sign of disrespect. ☕️💜

Normalize sending screenshots of men’s rape comments to their family and employer.

Ask me anything about 4B. ☕️💜

Nothing angers a misogynistic man like meeting a non-misogynistic man. ☕️💜

Sometimes I agree with men just so they will leave women alone. If women initiating divorce is so awful, why do they keep marrying us? If child support is so bad, why not get a vasectomy? ☕️💜

It goes like this.

Man on the internet: Men are struggling.

Women on the internet: Go seek the resources available to all of us.

Man on the internet: OMG that is so dismissive!

Women on the internet: 🤷‍♀️

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Men need to learn to take care of themselves. The reason they can't do this now is because women are constantly coddling and handholding them through life. They believe men's mental health crisis is because women don't care enough. Women care more about this than the men themselves. ☕️💜

Just spent 2 hours arguing with a man that alimony is not a big issue. I asked him what harm women cause by thinking it is a small issue, he said the harm was that it wouldn't be "properly addressed." Not that men would die, or be abused, just that the issue would not be properly addressed. ☕️💜

Fair enough. This entirely possible. I'm deleting it for possible misinformation. I'm telling you so that you know why it has disappeared. ☕️💜

The oppressor never has to prepare for a fight when he has convinced the oppressed that fighting is pointless. ☕️💜

It upsets me when women say that if they stop having babies or sex, the men will just force them to anyway, so it's not worth trying. It's always worth trying. If you're doing either of those things because you are worried they will make you do it anyway, it was never consensual to begin with. ☕️💜

A not so cozy thread, but an important one. I am unapologetically prochoice. No matter how that fetus was conceived, a woman has a right to end her pregnancy. Prolifers can wait at the moon all night. I do not care. ☕️💜

My journalism major says no. We don't not "win" by out gunning Fox News. FOX News needs to be obliterated as an organization. Liberal media is not limited to news stations and there have been entertaining liberal news-adjacent shows for ages now.

Words cannot describe my heart break for straight women who believe the man at the top of this image is "attracted" to women. ☕️💜

I do believe women are often better leaders than men, but I also believe this is because women are raised in a way that fosters leadership skills that men often don't consider, and don't hone because they are "natural." ☕️💜

I know what this is about but feel the need to ramble. I write fiction in my spare time and one of my favorite storylines is a woman becoming powerful enough to overthrow patriarchy. The trouble is that my smart FMC's realize that most of the women they are freeing, don't want freedom, and give up.

Thou shalt arrest the damn president.