George Akolade Coker

I made a tool for processing conflictt. instageorgious.github.io/selfcompassi...

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So I've been posting on TikTok and occasionally I'll post the most successful content to IG to see what happens and I think I might be shadowbanned?

the supergirl in the source material is depressed sleazebal with a heart of gold, and it’s great. the people long for superbrat.

This sounds fantastic. My next DnD character.

Ok but Supergirl watched her entire world die literally and when she gets to Earth, her cousin that was a baby last she saw him is a grown ass man and the Earth's greatest hero. He doesn't understand her loss or his culture. She can have a couple years to grieve

The accountability horseshoe of people who have low and high agency must be studied

What I always hear: “We can’t afford to pay our workers more than $15 an hour.”

What I never hear: “We can’t afford to pay our CEO millions of dollars a year.”

Funny how that works.

Exploring BlueSky as a video platform. Self awareness v self-preoccupation video ✨🫶🏾.

ran 9 miles and for every mile, I shared one fact about my intersex body. Because education shouldn’t come from trauma—but mine did. 💛 Save + share if you learned something new. 🎙 More truths on The U... TikTok video by Jackie | Intersex Advocate

This should be required viewing for biology class. Like finding all of the different people with different chromosomes and having them put a human life to the experience that others are so hell bent on denying.

I can't convince myself to write... But I can yap on TikTok again which is kinda cool.

I'm so scared to educate myself on this. I'm gonna stay ignorant and play some BG3.

I don't know that I want to know anything about here. But here we are. I feel like I'm in a different timeline than the one I went to sleep in

Do we dislike Susan Powter? I thought she was just doing aerobics... Also her funds were mismanaged weren't they? On the other hand plenty of like, artists have altered the creative landscape they still exist within and never really had the ability to sustain themselves despite us loving their work

The other option is the rich experience climate change like Europe experienced the plague

It's interesting how the class consciousness of X is different than the class consciousness of Bsky. There, Ben Stiller is being roasted because he refuses as a wealthy person to think of criminals as garbage.

Here, no one seems to have to be reminded people are people.

If we can only have art from people who "aren't in it for the money" that means we can only have art from privileged middle-class dilettantes. Making art being a viable career is responsible for nearly all worthwhile art, and if it's not a viable career any more we will get drastically less of it.

Self actualization can be messy, confusing, painful, and costly. But it's hard to but it back in the box. Same with RA. Even if a person does drop it, it's harder not to recognize the dynamics at play and how relationship agreements and boundaries are actually structured.

I think the issue is a lot of people think of queerness's umbrella as demanding that whatever they perceive to be "right" or "good" is the thing that the queerest among us would be striving for. You're being stereotyped.

I'm RA myself, but mostly because it's a paradigm that fits all the others

I think that relationship anarchy is actually the next logical relationship paradigm. In part because monogamy and polyamory fit inside of it, but it doesn't quite fit inside of them while maintaining its true essence

Just went ham posting on tiktok and I'm kinda curious if I should even bother with trying to post on Bluesky in the same way?

I don't really get how people find each other on this platform

How does the Bluesky algorithm work? Cause I'm not really sure how it decides what I see or who sees me...

Is bluesky a worthwhile video application?

RFK Jr: "Two weeks ago we ended, under your leadership, a twenty year war on women".

Three out of five men in this shot have been accused of sexual misconduct, harassment or abusive behaviour towards women. A fourth signed into law a near-total abortion ban in his state as governor.

I gotta look this up because I’m so inundated with news I dont even know how to know what’s going on anymore

In a paradigm that trains us to expect control disguised as kindness-… to see jealousy and possessiveness as love… relationship anarchy asks us to see safety not as submission, but as reciprocity. Whe... TikTok video by instageorgious

Where’s the Bsky relationship anarchy / poly community? I wanna see your post. Comment if you talk about this stuff

Sometimes people can’t tell the difference between self-preoccupation and self-awareness.

Self preoccupation distorts reality through a lens of “me”
Self awareness is what happens when I honestly look at me.

Someone preordered it twice. I don’t realize people had been waiting that long

Wait that’s crazy. I’m so sorry fam