I'll end this resentful rant into the void with this, making connections, meaningful ones, happens when it extends beyond temporary validations of sex/gear. Care about the person, ask about their life, lend a shoulder, find/make time to cultivate something with THEM, not what they wear, skin or gear
If you have comments of "you can make good connections from sex/kink" or "not everyone" I'd take it elsewhere. It works for some, I'm just tired of seeing the opposite & then lending a shoulder/ear when I've been struggling to find my place/person in/for kink for years. Otherwise my rates are 60/hr.
A lot of resentment, frustrations, rejection, and too much "you're a good friend, I need your support! But I'm just not interested in you or only interested when you're the only choice available & I'm lonely"
I'm burnt TF out on people/the kink world. It's not fun like it was in the beginning.
You are worth all of the good moments life has to share and you're more than strong and capable enough to tolerate the bullshit it throws for as long as you want/need to.
Sorry work has been ass but I'm proud of you for finding the good moments in life to enjoy. π
Oh my dog you're so hot π₯΅
I think I should wear this more often. Got any balls for me to fetch?
π₯π₯π₯ Absolutely wear it more often, looks sexy AF on you.
You've got this bud, everything will work out π
Don't need aram when that body and dick causes so much mayhem in my pants. π₯΄
Such a stud and you're such a good dog.
π so pretty
Good boy. Show off those muscle, stud. π€€π€€
π₯΄ such a good dog, so pretty in that lighting.
π₯΅ How am I supposed to get W's in games when such a sexy dog is wagging and waiting to show off what a good boy he is.
Also soft dick is underappreciated. Now, be a good boy, mount, and get that dog dick nice and hard.
Dear Domβs, Perverts and Bondage Lovers,
Your friendly neighborhood mutt here to give you a helpful tip on how to make better ties :)
Study up on some basic anatomy for your next bondage session! Itβs simple, effective, safer and goes a long way towards your growth as a kinkster.
Game night with the puppies!
My paws are definitely distracting @lumen757.bsky.social and @alpha-pup-loki.bsky.social, not getting ready to flip table cuz Lumen whooped our tails
πΈ @boundboyneo.bsky.social
Not Pictured: @pupzipper.bsky.social & @meowskies.bsky.social
I was tired as balls but this was such a nice night. Good company, games, and some of the best dogs around. π
As soon as I have a normal body I'm going to be unstoppable. π€
It's hard not to feel stuck and left behind while seeing everyone go to conventions with mutual friends and their reciprocated Interests. I miss having someone to do that stuff with. π«€
I just want to be wanted in those spaces instead of just being emotional support until other better options appear
You're so pretty π
Dipping my toes back into the kink scene and having to say this again reminds me why I stepped away. I'm not a middleman for you to get w/ my friends, don't insert yourself into my convos b/c you want their attention, & if I'm vibing w/ them fuck off if I don't know you like that.
Safe travels, hope the move goes smoothe, let the feelings come and befriend them, and I can't wait to see all of your new adventures. π
"I don't want to think about that right now" is a perfectly valid response to something upsetting or stressful, but only if eventually you actually do find an appropriate "right now." You have to feel bad about something before you can move on from it. Compartmentalizing forever is just repression.
Love
Brains can be jerks. Just remember that while it might be slamming you with thoughts/feelings that's all they are. You're a great person, handsome, you're navigating life, you're doing things right. You'll always be wonderful in/out of diapers, do it when -you- want to & keep pushing forward. π
If everyone is effectively communicating and saying they're happy with how things are my question would be more aimed towards what do you need to see/hear from them to help quiet down the noise of guilt? Verbal reassurance helps me get out of my head. You're doing what works for you as are they.
You helped me realize the error in my hedonistic ways. Hopefully my other post makes amends for a moment lost in sin. π
Cute guys in thongs is a very nice combo π€€
Lewd thoughts aside, as someone who has also had some very blah months I just wanted to toss you a reminder that things work out how they need to and everything will be okay. You've got this. π