K: The Practical Domme 🧰

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Humps in the road ahead?

a close up of a ball with the year 2022 on it Alt: a close up of a US 10¢ piece (colloquial dine) spinning on a tabletop

🚨 This is not a drill 🚨

ICE is alreadyfull-on fascist.

The rest of DHS (inc CBP & CG) could likewise turn on a *dime*.

¹ Start figuring out what kind of thing is going to be your bail trigger

² Make your plan

³ Build your go bag

From: https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/ Single men are more likely than their female counterparts to be searching for romantic experiences. Half of these men are looking for a committed relationship and/or casual dates, while 35% of single women say the same.

Men: Stop being all about YOURselves, YOUR desires, YOUR needs, YOUR dreams, YOUR goals, and YOUR genitals.

I will never again fight for my humanity within a romantic relationship, full fkn stop.

Every day that men speak/write is another brick in the #4B wall.

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​I was managing [a restaurant] but this couple came in and I got an odd vibe from them, my server confirmed they were.. interesting. It was clearly a dom/sub situation, she was the dom, he was the sub, and they brought my guy into their kink. When he asked what they wanted she announced the server would decide what the man would get, server tried to be professional offering suggestions but she was adamant the choice wasnt the guys. Everything was up to my guy, what that dude ate, if he could get another drink, etc. It ended with my server packing their leftovers and saying "I'm gonna put these in a bag" Her, "Yeah, shove it in the bag" Server *aggressively slams take out into bag Dude *soft moan They paid and left him a very nice tip.

Very uncool!

Don't involve others without their #consent.

#ConsentMatters

​A young woman with curly brown hair stands in front of a white door with her hands raised, palms out. The image has two lines of text on it. The first line, in quotes, says, “Why do you have such a high body count?” The second line reads, "God forbid I take the male loneliness epidemic seriously." The bottom of the image shows that it was posted to the r/SipsTea subreddit.

Great BDSM isn't one person doing stuff to or for the other person. Great BDSM is collaborative and mutual.

A screenshot of a post from an anonymous online forum. The title of the post reads: "I agreed to do a favor for my wife and know she is upset and now i want a divorce." The body of the post, written by a 33-year-old man, describes a disagreement he had with his 34-year-old wife. The conflict began when he said, "I guess i do still function when im sick," in response to her comment about him being "non functioning" when sick. The wife then texted him saying his comment hurt her feelings, leading to a screaming match and him hanging up on her. He concludes the post by saying he is seriously considering divorce, as "Eevreything is an issue" in their relationship.

First reply to previous post.... A screenshot of a comment from an anonymous online forum, written in white text on a light yellow background. The comment reads: "Growing psilocybin in a home with two children and a wife that you post nude photos of while soliciting sex from strangers and actively talking about ALL of this on Reddit is an absolute shit look. I feel bad for your wife and your kids, get bent, YTA in more ways than you can possibly conceive." The acronym YTA stands for "You're the Asshole."

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A tall, narrow banner hangs in a store window. It features a large, detailed close-up of a human eye with a vibrant green iris and a black pupil. Above the eye, in simple black text, the banner reads: "Free rectal photography with every Eye Test." Below the eye, the logo for "vision express" is visible. The text is likely a prank or a mistake in translation. The reflection of a person and another building are visible in the window glass.

Interesting Friday night activity just dropped

A screenshot of a Reddit post from the subreddit r/Serverlife. The post is titled "I never thought I would actually see this in person. Still cant believe it LMAO" and is made by the user u/Sudden_Brain_871. The post has a flair that says "FOH" (Front of House). The body of the post describes a server's interaction with a young couple at a restaurant. The couple appears to be around 20 years old. When the server asks if they want to split the bill, the man apparently jokingly asks his date if he's getting any that night, and says he will "split it" if she's not. The girlfriend is "FLABBERGASTED" and embarrassed, but the man actually goes through with splitting the bill. The server says it felt like being in a TikTok video. The post ends with the question, "You ever had anything like that?"

Too damn many men think that this↓ is dating. 🤦

What too damn many *actually* want is casual sex, and think that "dinner" is their audition. 🙄

Can anyone recommend any published resources for submissive men who are struggling to overcome their shame? Books, articles, blogs, etc.?

How many struggling finsubs could be "cured" by spending their money on in-person prodommes instead of online findommes? Serious question.

Iterations leave footprints.
Questing fulfillment,
Emotion echoes bear weight.

An auditory illustration:

-The Air That I Breathe (Hollies)
-Creep (Radiohead)
-Get Free (Del Ray)

Rarely do we replace. More often, we layer.

Remember: Layers wear, revealing what's beneath.

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guys i used to take tinder hookups to the middle of the texas boonies to have sex in an unmarked cemetery and i didn’t die somehow

Subby men who insist there are no dommes out there are taking a glass of water from the ocean and proclaiming there are no fish in it.

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That's what I thought, too! It was so performatively male-gaze I expected some dude to be watching a camera feed of it or something.

Most things would 😉

A screenshot of an NPR headline: "Give 'The Hunting Wives' 15 minutes - and you'll know whether it's right for you." To the right is a square thumbnail image showing two women smiling, one with her arm around the other, and both are holding a shotgun. Below the headline, the text says "2 days ago."

Y'all.

I saw this headline yesterday.

Today, 30 minutes in, I'm stunned, amazed, and abso triggered by how well it's captured the culture and vibe of *swank* enclave small-town Texas. 😱

It looks like it's gonna be a soapy rompy DL-queer (and maybe kinky) thing, but IDK if I can continue. 😬

A meme showing a soccer player, labeled "4chan," holding up a yellow card and an Uno reverse card to a referee, labeled "App designed to doxx men and ruin their lives." The score board in the top left corner shows "SDMN 6 - 4 YTAS 77:21". The meme implies that 4chan is countering attempts by by the Tea app (a women-only dating safety app) to doxx and ruin men's lives. (By, y'know, warning each other about WTF they've experienced with specific men.)

Suuuuuuure, the point of women-only dating safety app is to "doxx men and ruin their lives" [sic].

Not, IDK, trying to help give each other information to try to keep themselves safe. 🤷

#TeamBear

Reply or PM me if you're kinky ENM, bc I have .... Struggles.

Screenshot of headline and subhead from: https://www.nbcnews.com/tech/social-media/tea-app-hacked-13000-photos-leaked-4chan-call-action-rcna221139 Headline: Hackers leak 13,000 user photos and IDs from the Tea app, designed as a women's safe space Subhead: The viral app requires new users to take selfies, which it says it deletes after review.

The app has angered some men, and prompted a thread Thursday evening on the right-wing troll message board 4Chan, in which users called for a “hack and leak” campaign. The company became aware of the incident early Friday, the spokesperson said.

In a few online forums, men have floated the idea of creating their own men-only version of the app as payback for women’s use of Tea. One such app, called Teaborn, quickly ignited backlash after its creator called users out for posting revenge porn. The app is now removed from the App Store.

There's whole huge cadre of men who cannot abide women informing each other about...

Exactly the same type of men so damned butthurt about information sharing that they created an alternative men-only app for....

Revenge porn. 🤮

#WhyAreMen

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If you are a man
Your mother,sister,nièces
Daughters,stepdaughter
Wives,girlfriend
Friends,coworkers
Have either been raped or know someone who was
That s what statistics tell you
If they do not tell you
Ask yourself why is it that they will not trust you with this pain
Think of what you say and do

In case you think Canadian
men are better
5 hockey players were charged with gang raping a young woman who said she was drunk
And acquitted because trial judge thought she was not drunk enough so consented
Social media is full of fine men gloryfying gang raping girls as victory against metoo

When inspoporn sparks confusing conflict inside of you, remember that *no one* can:

- therapy out of a toxic job,
- meditate out of poverty,
- yoga up an entire support system,
- manifest out of a survival relationship.

It's not just you. You're not a failure. 🫂

#MentalHealthMatters

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Love the notion that incels discovering international pools of women that are easily exploited means it's definitely the women back home that's the problem.

Post something from the '60s:

I wonder why there's a "male loneliness epidemic", it's such a mystery... 🤔