BearlyMan

Feel better soon 💛

You look amazing 🤩

It really is amazing 🤩

Thanks for being out and a trend setter! 🩷 I remember seeing your profile on Twitter and thinking “THAT’S what I want!” 😀

Than you 🩷

Wow, you are looking great! 🤩

Thank you 😊 It’s been a long time coming for me but definitely worth the wait 🩷

Oh that’s wonderful to hear! ☀️ 🌈

That makes sense to me as all your emotional and physical energy is directed at healing and recovery. It was around 12-14 weeks post-op that I felt I could metaphorically breathe and settle into my new body. Then a sense of peace, calm and joy arrived 😀 Wishing you continued healing and wellbeing! 🩷

That’s fucking beautiful 🤩 😻

Thank you 😃😻

Glad you’re feeling like yourself again 💜

Thank you 😊

“Is that a carrot 🥕 in your pussy or are you happy to see me?” 😜🤣 Second day with the largest dilator. Not painful but definitely…um…stretchy.

Clam!😆🤣 Hadn’t heard it called that in a long time! LOL

I never regretted getting vaginoplasty, but the recovery is harsh and there would be days when I wondered if it was worth the pain and discomfort. Now I can honestly say YES! Totally worth it and it’s only getting better. ☀️

Realizing that I will be at 16 weeks postop this Friday. I turned a corner and gradually went from “oh no, what have I done” to, this week, “thank god I did this!” ❤️

It’s different for everyone but I started dilating the same day the packing was removed. Go slow with a bit more lube than you think will be necessary. The start was uncomfortable but not painful. I would use the word “pressure”. It does become easier pretty quick. Good luck and sending good vibes!

That’s great! I did hydromorphone for a couple of days but it was making me too loopy and disrupting my sleep so stuck with just the tylenol since. Its been 2.5 weeks for me since the surgery. My biggest complaint is just the tightness of the surgical site but that will ease over time.

Congratulations! Recovery will be tough at first but you got this! 💜

Hmmmm…..I’m not sure if watching vaginoplasty surgery videos right now is keeping me calm by desensitizing me or actually promoting a dissociative episode that shuts off the “WTF are you doing?!?!” thoughts. 😜😅 Anyway, 48 hours until surgery and I’m oddly serene. 😌

As a bigger person, I was anxious that I would be denied surgery because of my weight. I’m otherwise healthy but you never know. Well today I had my anesthesiology assessment and was approved for my surgery in just under 3 weeks. <SIGH. OF. RELIEF.> 😜😀

Boo! Fuck em! They clearly don’t know what hot looks like 😃

Glad things are back on track ❤️‍🩹

Thanks for your support ❤️😀

They are a relatively new program (2019) but have a great reputation locally. Its also a small program with 2 surgeons that work together on vaginoplasty. I did see examples of their work and liked what I saw, especially for my body type.

Dr Kavanaugh out of VGH/UBC (seems good but not like I have a ton of choice either).

Been waiting a couple of years after all the screenings etc. But now seems sooooo close I don’t want to jinx it! 😉

Full depth vaginoplasty here in Vancouver, BC on January 31st 🤞
Can’t wait but also it’s coming really fast 😳

I didn’t know why I felt this way and I knew damn well not to tell anyone else about these feelings. I already knew I was gay and assumed my dislike of my penis was part of that and all these feelings would “go away”. They did not 🙃