Pup Rupert

It's just the best, Huh?

That collar though 🥵

Perfect choice! I'd love to know how you get on with it

Oh yes! Oxballs or another brand?

I'm so glad it went well!

Yeah when I've worn some gear out I feel self conscious, but you look soo great in it, you can't not go out in it sometimes 🥰

Oh wow! Good on you! 🥰
Let me know how it goes.

(Roughly translated as, I wish I had your confidence 😅)

If you do, let me know I'm curious what you'll actually get... I'm half expecting some awful AliExpress/temu knock off... But you never know

I can definitely see why you thought that 😂

I'm amazed the online reboot is selling fairly niche kink stuff in 2025 with all that's going on in the world... Not sad about it though 😈

Finally, I think you've done the right thing in your response. Leave it at that for now, allow there to be space between you.

If she reaches out, only fully engage if you feel safe and she's respectful.

Please don't feel like you need to make it right, I know I would in this situation.

4/4

(this goes for anyone) Just because they don't like the boundary you set, doesn't ever excuse their reaction, and they need to own and be responsible for it rather than outsourcing their responsibilities.

(Sorry for this being a thread)

3/4

Obviously without additional info it's hard to comment directly, but I would say that setting boundaries is not just reasonable, it's *essential* for healing and that you've done exactly the right thing here.

You are responsible for you, you are NEVER responsible for their reaction.

2/4

Oh wow! I'm so sorry you experienced this.

Im also on a boundary setting journey, and the frequency which people pretend they understand, and want to respect them until they benefit from crossing it is gastly! Also, unfortunately, the reaction you've experienced here seems all too common.

1/4

It could stop any time, but it just feels so right to continue doesn't it drone?

🫠🥵🫠 Yessir! Pleasure is better this way 🥵

Whoa! Just listened to this one, I've been struggling with staying locked and not playing but oh boy!

I feel like this file is going to be super effective 🫠🫠🫠

That's totally fair! 🥰

I personally would love to see you being able to be your full self.

And when it comes to the pup hood, it's not about getting the right look, it's about getting yourself in a headspace to enjoy it.

For me pup play is way more about letting go then anything kinky, you need to be fully you 🥰

I did not see this post lol!

Sadly all my previous advice about speed goes out the window.

I'm so sorry, I hope it improves over night. 🥺

But the fact your download is so bad, looking at your upload unless your connection is getting hammered I'd expect your download to be around 28/30mbps.

Definitely try the restart of the router/WiFi, failing that you might need to report the fault with your provider I'm afraid.

Good luck fren!

Speedtest, download = 72.5mbps upload = 19.5mbps Ping = 41ms Download ping = 331ms Upload ping = 209ms Jitter = 2ms

Whoa! Yeah, definitely, I missed that entirely.

That said... I just tested mine, and although better, not as good as I was expecting.

Could be due to WiFi to be fair.

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Eeewwww!
Dare I say it, have you tried turning the router off/on again?

Also if you're on WiFi and can plug your device in via network cable that's worth a go.

It's particularly interesting that your upload is higher than the download though.

Cute as heck

It kinda looks like I have one when I'm in my behind barz belt 😈

Something that might benefit the LGBTQ+ community, and the government refusing to help with that... I'm shocked! Shocked I tell you!! SHOCKED!

Let's face it, we were used to get them into power now we've been tossed out and shunned. Disgusting behaviour!

Normalizing wearing collars is definitely something I can support 😇

Thank you 🥰🥰🥰

Surely this should be *on* you, not just in your hand? 😈

🥵🥵🥵 *drops to knees*

Hehe yeah, that's why I held off for so long as well. But after saving for a while and getting back pay from work I thought "screw it! I'm doing it" I think considering the price if it's not something I'll wear daily, I certainly still couldn't justify it

Ikr?! They're now cheap, so I've struggled to justify the cost for a long time, but I finally decided to just go for it