refried brains

Medical emergency, please help out.

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Would creating a wishlist also count against you?

this is so sad I’m so sorry :( I’m also asking for this!!

this is the kind of encouragement I need ty

I’m so so tired

Turned 30 and now feeling pressure to top texting “ur” and “u” to acquaintances. I don’t want to lose my sparrkleeeeeee

r u really an infp or is that a trauma response? 😐

website: reparentingnick.xyz/PDA-skills-g...

screenshot from my website linked in the next thread reads: PDA SKILLS GROUP Mondays 5:30-7:30pm PST/ 8:30-10:30 EST A skills support group for PDA’ers readyto learn new frameworks and functional/social skills during burnout or unmasking. We talk about and practice these skills in a group setting.

another screenshot from my website linked below. GROUP FOCUSES: being functional w PDA: routines and systems for doing stuff Learning unmasked social skills Practicing conflict repair Showing up imperfectly Choosing liberation over shame Deepening friendship + communal connections Creating more capacity in burnout *Using the following frameworks: restorative justice, disability justice, relationship anarchy, polyvagal theory, collective care, liberation, “Characteristics of White Supremacy Culture,” undoing binary thinking.

Another screenshot from my website that reads: NOTAFLOL This group is funded through your donations, but it is important to me to provide this space for people who need it most and experiencing financial hardship. No one is turned away for lack of funds. You may donate here; suggested donations are $10-25 per meeting.

A screenshot of the form on my website to sign up for my group + access the link to the PowerPoint w access link and group information.

finally actioning my dream and goals of making social emotional learning for PDA/neurodivergent adults accessible and creating an educational space!!! Will be doing a skills and community support group for ppl who are unmasking/dealing with burnout. Starting 3/2

“why do you lock replies” people don’t realize that the kind of entitlement they have towards interacting with a stranger is a new phenomenon and the internet incentivizes a certain level of anti social behavior one should have the agency to spare oneself from

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most of the special education work I did was with hs/ms students who had been incarcerated. this is so so sad to see. Many of the kids who become felons in middle school are so excited to start a career in rehabilitation by the time they graduate hs when they’re able to get help/resources they need

PDA adults in general bc kids who don’t learn skills become adults who don’t know skills. And there is no structural support for adults to learn these things!!

I’m going to start a (social and functional) skills support group for PDA’ers unmasking starting 2/26! Every Monday evening.

NOTAFLOF - pls let me know if ur interested :)

I was a behavior SPED teacher and now teach emotional regulation skills to parents, but I’ve been wanting to share skills w/

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Please help us survive the hellscape and monthly witch hunts that I have to endure for simply existing

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doing a very romantic thing for myself: buying lots of strawberries and making fresas con crema all weekend

thinking about the time HEB sold vegan leche condensada and evaporated milk :(

drink alcohol, don't drink alcohol, quit caffeine, don't quit caffeine, but do it because it makes you happy, not because its going to like tweak productivity by 2%. you're allowed to be messy and have friction and vices!

Know who needs to be shamed? All people shaming people who have to beg for their survival online. Oh that fucks up your viewing experience? They're leeches who need to get a job? Glad life's a piece of cake for you. You sound every bit the rancid selfish capitalist who's the reason folks need help.

They don't get that it's political because they don't get that existence is political for marginalized people.

if anyone reads this and wants to understand more I remember this interaction w @wolvendamien.bsky.social and it reminded me of how MLK and Bob Marley/reggae/ska’s legacies have been flattened due to this misunderstanding of hope + resilience. A political purpose for hope/love/joy under oppression!

he’s so liberation/hope heavy too which straight up goes over the heads of most white people, even the ones who are supporting :(

new music monday is my favorite day, here are my weirdly specific playlists to check out: https://f.mtr.cool/vngwfypupm

Racism is keeping Britt unhoused. Fight racism. Send funds to keep Britt sheltered and off ICY streets.

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Benito is a threat b/c he makes art so alluring and enjoyable you want to understand everything about it and then you end up learning about sugar and slavery and colonialism and the Taínos and Hawaii and then you probably have some thoughts of your own, and that's why art is powerful and dangerous

Still image from the Super Bowl halftime show of Bad Bunny looking serious, talking directly to the camera, pointing at us.

“If I’m here at Super Bowl LX, it’s because I never stopped believing in myself. You should never stop believing in yourself either. It’s worth more than you think.” —Bad Bunny

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