refried brains

refried brains

@tastedestroyer.bsky.social

im nicky; I make weirdly specific playlists + teach social skills car based + fundraising for EDS treatment genderfluid and brain injured 🏳️‍⚧️♿️😷

457 Followers 321 Following 1,084 Posts Joined Oct 2024
14 hours ago

this is so funny

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15 hours ago

ugh that last sentence 😭😭

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15 hours ago
image contains two connected posts from Twitter by user named kay ★ @C0SMICDUSTS
"this is just your reminder that crowdfunding is dehumanizing and difficult. people in your life look at you differently, strangers judge you harshly, and all this while your world is falling apart. i don’t wish it on anyone.. but you are ONE wrong thing away from needing +"

"help and community support. your life can flip upside down. at. any. time. anything can happen.

be kind and empathetic to others and share their stories. i hope you never have to be in a position where you have to beg to stay alive... but consider being kind to those who do 🥲"

Ditto

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2 days ago

🥹

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2 days ago

*F.C.P.’s your R.E.M.I.X.*

Are you mad at me?? 🥺

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2 days ago

It’s so scary 😭 I wish there were instructions or at least easy paths to providers who are knowledgeable. Hope u get some help 🫶🏼

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3 days ago

I have been thinking lately about a thread I saw last year of ppl saying if you’re asking for something in mutual aid that’s going to 2 hours of hard labor and all you can do in return is tarot that’s a scam and not “mutual” 😭😭😭 like babe ur expecting 1:1 transactional that’s not mutual aid

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4 days ago

The thing about mutual aid is that it requires you to get out of a hierarchical mindset where those in need are below you, not your peers, & you can't assist because they're not worthy humans. If you're privileged get out of only hanging with the privileged & meet some social scum eye to eye.

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5 days ago

Finally finished the traitors and tbh I was so stoked to watch Donna kelce but the actually of her run/cut was so awful I wish we got to see more from her :( I’m trying not to spoil but I do think the situation she was put in made it so much harder

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6 days ago

So real. They need to be better at things

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1 week ago

When someone says „Scientists do not want you to know“ you can dismiss everything from there on. Scientists want you to know. They are desperate that you know. They can’t shut up about what they found out and want you to know.

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1 week ago

gofundme takes out a lot in fees and that’s why I’m not putting the link but that’s where I receive the most donations. I guess I have no choice.

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1 week ago

it’s so annoying!! :(

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1 week ago

Medical emergency, please help out.

ko-fi.com/theevixxxen
throne.com/empressvixxxen

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2 weeks ago

Would creating a wishlist also count against you?

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2 weeks ago

this is so sad I’m so sorry :( I’m also asking for this!!

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2 weeks ago

this is the kind of encouragement I need ty

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2 weeks ago

I’m so so tired

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2 weeks ago

Turned 30 and now feeling pressure to top texting “ur” and “u” to acquaintances. I don’t want to lose my sparrkleeeeeee

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2 weeks ago

r u really an infp or is that a trauma response? 😐

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2 weeks ago
Nicky Tate

website: reparentingnick.xyz/PDA-skills-g...

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2 weeks ago
screenshot from my website linked in the next thread reads: 
PDA SKILLS GROUP 
Mondays 5:30-7:30pm PST/ 8:30-10:30 EST
A skills support group for PDA’ers readyto learn new frameworks and functional/social skills during burnout or unmasking. We talk about and practice these skills in a group setting. another screenshot from my website linked below. 

GROUP FOCUSES: 
being functional w PDA: routines and systems for doing stuff
Learning unmasked social skills
Practicing conflict repair
Showing up imperfectly
Choosing liberation over shame
Deepening friendship + communal connections
Creating more capacity in burnout

*Using the following frameworks: restorative justice, disability justice, relationship anarchy, polyvagal theory, collective care, liberation, “Characteristics of White Supremacy Culture,” undoing binary thinking. Another screenshot from my website that reads: 

NOTAFLOL

This group is funded through your donations, but it is important to me to provide this space for people who need it most and experiencing financial hardship. No one is turned away for lack of funds.

You may donate here; suggested donations are $10-25 per meeting. A screenshot of the form on my website to sign up for my group + access the link to the PowerPoint w access link and group information.

finally actioning my dream and goals of making social emotional learning for PDA/neurodivergent adults accessible and creating an educational space!!! Will be doing a skills and community support group for ppl who are unmasking/dealing with burnout. Starting 3/2

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2 weeks ago

“why do you lock replies” people don’t realize that the kind of entitlement they have towards interacting with a stranger is a new phenomenon and the internet incentivizes a certain level of anti social behavior one should have the agency to spare oneself from

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3 weeks ago
Help Disabled Family Survive Homelessness

Sabi is a Disabled, Latina Multidisciplinary Artist & Full Time Caretaker for her elderly mother they are mourning their Emotional Support Bunny Sansón

Sabi used to have income by creating and freelancing but is now Homeless & lost access to everything she had to work

She needs help to stay off the street, away from dangerous heat as care is unmet they cannot eat or pay bills easily

Save two lives

kofi: sabilewsounds

PPal: SabiLewSounds

Linktree: sabilewsounds

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*Add note* "Sabi

For Sabi & mom

Hotel 3wks past due

As of 02-19-26 11AM ET
$2,757 Needed
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$1,571 min to avoid fees
$675 more Due Tues

KOFI/PYPL SABILEWSOUNDS
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#HelpFolksLive2026 #MutualAid #Traumasurvivor #Cptsd #MentalHealthAdvocate #LatinaMusician #DisabledArtist

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2 weeks ago

most of the special education work I did was with hs/ms students who had been incarcerated. this is so so sad to see. Many of the kids who become felons in middle school are so excited to start a career in rehabilitation by the time they graduate hs when they’re able to get help/resources they need

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3 weeks ago

PDA adults in general bc kids who don’t learn skills become adults who don’t know skills. And there is no structural support for adults to learn these things!!

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3 weeks ago
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I’m going to start a (social and functional) skills support group for PDA’ers unmasking starting 2/26! Every Monday evening.

NOTAFLOF - pls let me know if ur interested :)

I was a behavior SPED teacher and now teach emotional regulation skills to parents, but I’ve been wanting to share skills w/

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3 weeks ago

<3

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1 month ago

Please help us survive the hellscape and monthly witch hunts that I have to endure for simply existing

linktr.ee/hiitsbritt

#MutualAid
#HelpFolksLive #HelpSky
#BIPOCMA #FundSky #MutualAidVoid
#PWD 💸💕💸💕
#BHM
#MARequest

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3 weeks ago

doing a very romantic thing for myself: buying lots of strawberries and making fresas con crema all weekend

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