Endorsed.
24.11.2025 16:14 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0@kfadams.bsky.social
Parent | Wife | PhD | Oregonian | Trans | Computer Scientist | Systems | Early 40s. TL a mess of tech, science, politics, defense, humor, trans stuff, and games. Iโm awkward AF. she/her. Posts not endorsed or representative of my employer(s).
Endorsed.
24.11.2025 16:14 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0help me get the word out about how this cis man is preying on trans peopleโs vocal dysphoria! ๐
tiktok post live now:
I super support this message but Iโm genuinely am curious if I have a single follower who believes vaccines cause autism.
Because like. Out. Go away, you are not wanted here. You know whoโs welcome? Folks with autism.
YOU, AN ABSOLUTE NOBODY: "Funkytown" is a pretty great song
ME, A NEW YORK TIMES-BESTSELLING AUTHOR: Lipps, Inc. unleashed "Funkytown" into a disco post-apocalypse; it goes so hard because it is an elegy, a threnody, a deathsong for the queer utopiae that might have been. "Funkytown" is hauntology
Errr high fiveโฆ. Fuck
23.11.2025 03:05 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Food idiots of the world unite! Hugh five!
23.11.2025 03:05 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0achievement unlocked:
I cut my tongue on Rice Chex?
I admire your optimism! ๐
23.11.2025 02:25 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0My wife is on board with this and โoperation needle-the-shit-out-of-my-82-year-old-Auntโ.
In actual fairness to her, sheโs handled my transition remarkably well. Sheโs just very old school and has random ass expectations on how people should look and act.
I will continue to defy those.
Or maybe just full on.
Time will tell, Aunt.
Time will tell.
Good news! My aunt liked my professionally done makeup!
Then used it as a way to make a passive aggressive remark about one of my goth looks.
Guess whoโs gonna go soft goth for Christmas now?
I always loved listening to โwait wait donโt tell meโ on long drives, and so glad to have an ally in Peter.
21.11.2025 23:44 โ ๐ 8 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0If you use GMail, AI (Gemini) was turned on yesterday by default and now scans all of your content for machine learning. To turn off, go to Settings>General and scroll down. Uncheck the box for "Smart features."
There's other "Smart" add-ons as well, but that's the one that reads your content.
Turns out the hot stove half the nation decided wasnโt hot, needed to be tested by faceplanting straight onto it.
20.11.2025 22:06 โ ๐ 8 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I cried a lot early on, but the past few months have been just an insane rollercoaster and so many realizations on so many fronts Iโm just a mess.
Lots, even most, is growth and opportunity and positive change and itโs still overwhelming and terrifying.
Tl:dr; so much crying.
Ohhh, my 2 OG ones were indifference and irritation.
20.11.2025 17:24 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I was vaguely functional due to heavy duty repression but unpacking decades of it has been a journey. Not even just gender feels, but so many aspects of my life.
20.11.2025 16:39 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Look, Iโm not saying I made it 4 days without an ugly cry.
I made it 3.
Apparently spending 39 years and some change just kinda ignoring them then loading up on hormones for 18 months isโฆ. A Thing.
20.11.2025 16:36 โ ๐ 7 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Upside of transition?
Actually feeling things!
Oh god so many feelings.
Alllllll the feelings.
Uh-oh.
A screenshot from Celeste. Madeline stands by a memorial dedicated to those who perished on the climb up Celeste Mountain.
happy transgender day of remembrance
thank you for sticking around in the hardest of times. if you haven't, you are missed dearly
please live ๐
While I don't condone violence, a convicted J6er getting punch in the mouth is well...is what it is MFer
19.11.2025 14:13 โ ๐ 14 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 2 ๐ 1I sometimes wear nylon dress socks that show my ankles and now I don't know my gender. This is very confusing.
19.11.2025 01:22 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Fuck, is wearing socks giving me gender dysphoria?!?
19.11.2025 01:21 โ ๐ 4 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0I've never felt the need to mark a historic event by framing a newspaper front page, but I think I'll make an exception when That Day comes.
19.11.2025 01:17 โ ๐ 27 ๐ 2 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0For the storage systems nerds out there....
A very slow moving project based off of some of my old research.
I should say fines and settlements.
18.11.2025 21:41 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0A former employer if mine was slapped with truly titanic anticompetitive practices fines (hundreds of millions).
They seem to have shrugged, saw it as cost of doing business and got on with their day by making us all take extra anti-corruption training and promptly forgetting about it.