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Fine Artist๐จ๐ผ๏ธ/Lifelong Beatles nerd (I met Paul, George & Ringo๐ฅฐ)/Rock&Roll๐ธ/Science๐งฌ/All Creatures๐๐ฆ๐/BLMโ๐พ/๐ณ๏ธโ๐Ally/Anglophile๐ฌ๐ง/Proudly Liberal๐๐บ๐ธ
Ruthie the cow is fine. Squirrelwood is a sanctuary. This is about the beautiful Diane ๐ฉท, who passed suddenly a few months ago. (Also Mojo the donkey passed of old age since)
14.05.2025 03:05 โ ๐ 7 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Soft purrs ๐
14.05.2025 02:53 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Yup ๐
21.04.2025 22:45 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Smart Palo Alto folks putting their tech skills to good use ๐๐๐ป
Gotta love it!
A solidly acurrate assessment
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๐๐๐ป Yes, you do! And way bigger balls than JD despite being a lovely cow ๐ฎ
01.04.2025 04:04 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0๐๐ป Excellent use of frantic grief energy โค๏ธโ๐ฉน
29.03.2025 02:21 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Oh holy WOW ๐ฒ ๐คฉ
24.03.2025 00:53 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Ah, you got me ๐ข
While it may be small comfort when youโre longing for them to be near you, on a cosmic level itโs a beautiful recognition.
You are a gift to Diane forever.
I just loved the spring peepers when I lived in Boston ๐ฅฐ. We are entirely too frog-free here in San Diego ๐ธ
15.03.2025 01:40 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0We donโt want this!
WE DONโT WANT THIS!!! ๐ฑ
For real. It was stuck in my throat every day - like someone was physically strangling me - when Iโd wake knowing I had to face another day without him. Feeling it is AWFUL, but pushing grief away is more damaging in the long run.
Okay is ok. Keep going for D.
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A song for our timesโฆ๐ฅบ
We love seeing her ๐ฅน
05.03.2025 09:52 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0You canโt do anything but feel all the feelings. What youโre going through now is so, so hard. Iโm so sorry for your pain๐
05.03.2025 09:51 โ ๐ 4 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0www.instagram.com/reel/DGwpMlx...
Social Security is on the verge of being abolished by the Trump administration! Like, NOW!!! This video is your call to action
Well examined!
Thanks so much๐๐ป๐ฉท
Of course!!!
01.03.2025 02:37 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Finding others who genuinely, personally understand what youโre going through can be so helpful. You donโt have to edit or candy coat your feelings โ they get it. Even โI donโt want to be here anymoreโ feelings are really common with partner loss, and you can say that to them w/o fear but w/support
28.02.2025 00:40 โ ๐ 4 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I canNOT watch that scene ๐ซ๐ทwithout choking up and singing along. And I have never passed up watching Casablanca when itโs on.
๐ Now it has serious relevance
Jfc
24.02.2025 02:48 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I know a seventies reference when I see one ๐
24.02.2025 02:42 โ ๐ 5 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Yโknow, all I can say about your post isโฆYes ๐ฅ
And we appreciate you checking in since weโre gonna keep checking in on you ๐ซถ๐ป
Really well delineated. And terrifying.
16.02.2025 10:36 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Understood. Loss of a partner is enormously challenging under any circumstances ๐. I hope you find a helpful combination of meds & therapy. And thanks for taking the time to keep us updated about yourself and the Squirrelwood crew, even when itโs hard to do๐ป
16.02.2025 10:11 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Heโs utterly humiliating in the lowest, basest way possible. How *this* is what America presents to the world now is truly beyond comprehension ๐
15.02.2025 10:42 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Oh, Iโm so sorry โน๏ธ! I ran out of characters but wanted to add that youโll need to find the right ppl (not religious!) to connect with. Youโll probably go thru a few before you find real helpโค๏ธโ๐ฉน. I tried & quit some right away b/c they were all wrong for me. Same w/counselors. Maybe an online group?๐ค๐ป
13.02.2025 01:34 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0I remember. The real answer - which I never gave to anyone - was โyou donโt f*ckinโ wanna knowโ ๐ฃ
Iโm really, really sorry you have to walk this dark road. It helped me to find some other widows to talk to (online or in-person support groups).
Youโll make it. You will. But itโs so hard ๐