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Host of the Savage Lovecast, author of Savage Love. "A deviant of the highest order!" — The Daily Caller

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On today's "After Action Report" we heard from a lesbian who tried Dollification for the first time with her partner at a sex party.

Curious to know more? Listen to her paint the whole vivid picture at Savage.Love!

20.02.2026 20:59 — 👍 22    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

@matildabrindle.bsky.social just been listening to your fascinating interview with the Doctors van Tulleken & I’m keen to learn more.

A quick search on Apple Podcasts shows you’ve done multiple pods - are there any of them you would particularly recommend for an inquisitive novice like myself?

17.02.2026 14:18 — 👍 2    🔁 1    💬 1    📌 0
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Monkeys be wankin’. With Dr. Matilda Brindle. Podcast Episode · Savage Lovecast · July 25, 2023 · 55m

I also had an awesome time talking with @dansavage.bsky.social about my research (a little while ago now!):
podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/m...

20.02.2026 10:55 — 👍 9    🔁 1    💬 1    📌 0
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Revisiting 'Babygirl' (2024) in response to a caller who was experiencing some shame and frustration around how she achieves an orgasm.

Hear the full question on this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast.

#babygirlmovie

19.02.2026 21:27 — 👍 27    🔁 3    💬 2    📌 1
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Florida Pastor Charged With Molesting Teen At Church - Joe.My.God. Miami’s NBC affiliate reports: A pastor at a Miami-Dade church was arrested after he allegedly inappropriately touched a 15-year-old victim, according to the Miami-Dade Sheriff’s Office. Elco Vallier,...

If kids got raped at Denny's as often as they get raped in churches every Denny's in the country would've been burned to the ground decades ago.

www.joemygod.com/2026/02/flor...

18.02.2026 21:42 — 👍 192    🔁 25    💬 7    📌 0

What

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A photo of an ice cream machine with a sign reading, "Anything is possible with ice cream." Beneath that is a hand lettered sign reading, "No ice cream".

A photo of an ice cream machine with a sign reading, "Anything is possible with ice cream." Beneath that is a hand lettered sign reading, "No ice cream".

2026 basically

18.02.2026 16:23 — 👍 39735    🔁 10560    💬 308    📌 334
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Have you been politically catfished on dating apps? You're not alone! Listen to the response to this caller on this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast!

18.02.2026 17:51 — 👍 51    🔁 1    💬 3    📌 3

Forgive me.

18.02.2026 16:31 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

There must be trials. Not as an emotive aspiration, rhetorical meme, or empty threat. A concrete plan. A dedicated special court for it. Structural legislation and prosecutors and funding and all the rest of it. Everything necessary for it can be done constitutionally. All it takes is the will.

18.02.2026 03:35 — 👍 2810    🔁 820    💬 58    📌 21
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New FOMO unlocked as news outlets are reporting a record breaking shortage in the supply of condoms as Olympians ripped through the 10K condoms in 3 days! It's a beautiful thing when athletes from around the world come together like this. 🥲

Listen for more on this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast!

17.02.2026 17:55 — 👍 82    🔁 5    💬 7    📌 0
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Jesse Jackson, Charismatic Champion of Civil Rights, Dies at 84

Not the obituary I wanted to read today.

www.nytimes.com/2026/02/17/u...

17.02.2026 16:05 — 👍 140    🔁 9    💬 6    📌 1
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Do the pizza rules apply to sex? 🍕 Even when it's bad, is it good? We had Dr. Nicole McNichols on the program to discuss her new book "You Could Be Having Better Sex" and she spoke of the value of less-than-optimal sexual experiences on this week's Magnum Savage.Love/Lovecast!

16.02.2026 20:53 — 👍 28    🔁 4    💬 3    📌 0
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Opinions are like beards, everybody's got 'em! Let's hear yours: sound off in the comments if you agree with this caller and you are ANTI-Beard or if you are PRO-beard and you think they are just misunderstood.🧔

Hear the reply to this caller on this week's Savage.Love/Lovecast Magnum Edition!

13.02.2026 22:00 — 👍 26    🔁 1    💬 13    📌 3
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Well, this is a little awkward.

We asked for breakup stories for our Valentine's Day edition of the show, and you answered! But this caller's story hit a little closer to home than expected. 😬

More breakup stories on this week's Savage.love/Lovecast!

12.02.2026 18:17 — 👍 58    🔁 4    💬 0    📌 0
Buy tickets to FUCK ICE FEST: an all-day multi-genre local music fest in Chicago on February 15, 2026 TICKET EVENT INFORMATION:This event is 17+All sales final, NO refunds or exchanges, events are rain or shine.Door times are subject to change without notice.Tickets purchased at box office will be inc

Chicago is holding a Fuck ICE Fest on Sunday at the Beat Kitchen.

wl.eventim.us/event/fuck-i...

11.02.2026 22:19 — 👍 694    🔁 264    💬 12    📌 10
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This caller had us reaching for the kleenex, but not to wipe away our tears! He's been suffering from post-sex-sneeze-fits for over 10 years! Gesundheit! Is this a thing??

Hear Dan's response to his question on Savage.Love/Lovecast!

11.02.2026 21:56 — 👍 26    🔁 1    💬 1    📌 0
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James Van Der Beek, ‘Dawson’s Creek’ Star, Dies at 48 James Van Der Beek, who was known for playing Dawson Leary on "Dawson's Creek" and for numerous other TV and film roles, has died. He was 48.

Not the obituary I wanted to read today.

variety.com/2026/tv/news...

11.02.2026 20:06 — 👍 157    🔁 11    💬 11    📌 1
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What are we supposed to do with our old dildos? The great people of Minnesota are showing us a hot new use for our "expired dicks" - as a tool for resistance!

Listen for more at Savage.Love/Lovecast!

10.02.2026 21:32 — 👍 98    🔁 19    💬 2    📌 2

Building this in some places doesn't mean building only this everywhere. In Europe, there are dense neighborhoods like this that many people prefer to live in. But get on a train or a bike and ride out of the center of the city... and you'll find lots of single-family homes on big lots.

10.02.2026 18:40 — 👍 97    🔁 6    💬 5    📌 0

YOOOOO @smittenkittenmn.bsky.social shout out on the new episode of Lovecast

Good shit @dansavage.bsky.social

10.02.2026 16:57 — 👍 11    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0
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Pumpkin Spice Poppers anyone 🎃? We brought the foremost expert on all things poppers, "Deep Sniff" Author Adam Zmith, to answer a caller's question about how to shop for quality poppers.

All this and much more on tomorrow's episode of Savage Lovecast!
Available at Savage.Love/Lovecast!

09.02.2026 21:39 — 👍 25    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0

Will there be a moment of silence before the #SuperBowl in memory of those kiIIed by lCE?

08.02.2026 19:18 — 👍 145    🔁 46    💬 1    📌 0

It was PIV my first time and… I’m corrupting your data

08.02.2026 05:42 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

on the balance i think partisan gerrymandering is bad but the only way it ends is if democrats weaponize it against republicans everywhere they can. wiping out republican lawmakers in blue states might bring the GOP to the table to end the practice.

07.02.2026 14:35 — 👍 10451    🔁 1747    💬 224    📌 166

Hey, hive mind: best options for "travel, health, and accident insurance (coverage of at least €30,000, including repatriation for medical reasons) valid for the Schengen Area"? Reading reviews of different providers online isn't helpful. So, asking strangers instead.

07.02.2026 21:45 — 👍 28    🔁 4    💬 14    📌 0

who called it Heated Rivalry and not Fuck Ice

06.02.2026 15:08 — 👍 5119    🔁 1033    💬 30    📌 27
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Heated Rivalry is still on everyone's brain as this Lovecast caller poses this question: how many secs does it take to have gay sex?

Hear Dan's response at Savage.Love/Lovecast!

#heatedrivalry

06.02.2026 19:51 — 👍 41    🔁 1    💬 4    📌 0

Feasting on it now, thanks to you!

06.02.2026 02:04 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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