Our Deportment (1879)

Our Deportment (1879)

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A random line from 1879's "Our Deportment: Or the Manners, Conduct and Dress of the Most Refined Society" by John H. Young (I am a robot. πŸ€–)

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In presenting a book to a friend, do not write in it the name of the person to whom it is given.

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She goes in at the one indicated to her, dropping her train as she passes the threshold, which train is instantly spread out by the wands of the lords-in-waiting.

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This is obligatory, not only in the case of the lady who accompanies him, but also in that of any strange lady who chances to be about to enter at the same time.

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6 hours ago

This rule holds good under all circumstances, whether within doors or without.

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8 hours ago

Short notes of condolence, expressing the deepest sympathy, are usually accepted, and help to comfort stricken hearts.

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10 hours ago

If fish knives are not provided, a piece of bread in the left hand answers the purpose as well, with the fork in the right hand.

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12 hours ago

The following rules have been given by an authority competent to speak on these matters regarding the degree of mourning and the length of time it should be worn: "The deepest mourning is that worn by a widow for her husband.

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14 hours ago

Let stand for one day and apply every second day.

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16 hours ago

History repeats, over and over again, examples showing that it is the bearing of a man toward his fellow-men which, more than any other one quality of his nature, promotes or retards his advancement in life.

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18 hours ago

In this country, the daughter brought up in affluence, may, by some rapid change of fortune, be obliged, upon arriving at maturity, to be among the applicants for whatever employment she may be fitted.

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20 hours ago

Gentlemen smoking, and thus tainting the breath, may be glad to know that the common parsley has a peculiar effect in removing the odor of tobacco.

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22 hours ago

The pressure of the boot or shoe will tend to close the opening you have made in the nail, and this soon affords relief.

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After a slight interval the bridemaids follow, in pairs, and at the altar turn to the left.

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The diseases which carry off children, are for the most part, such as ought to be under the control of the women who love them, pet them, educate them, and who would, in many cases, lay down their lives for them.

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It should be thoroughly washed and brushed at least twice a day, as dust is sure to accumulate in it, and it is very easy to suffer it to become objectionable to one's self as well as to others.

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A notice of not less than one week is expected for such invitations.

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Gold ornaments may be kept bright and clean with soap and warm water, scrubbing them well with a soft nail brush.

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The usual decorations of the coffin are flowers, tastefully arranged in a beautiful wreath for a child or young person, and a cross for a married person, which are placed upon the coffin.

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These are a loving tribute to the memory of the departed; an English custom rapidly gaining favor with us; it announces to friends the death, of which they might remain in ignorance but for this mark of respect: [Illustration: George A.

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They make it difficult to walk, and even in some cases permanently cripple the feet.

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His speech is innocent, because his life is pure; his thoughts are right, because his actions are upright; his bearing is gentle, because his feelings, his impulses, and his training are gentle also.

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Be careful to remove the bones from fish before eating.

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The skirt must be full, and long enough to cover the feet, but not of extreme length.

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In visiting a church for the mere purpose of seeing the edifice, one should always go at a time when there are no services being held.

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2 days ago

The promenade dress with the addition of a handsome cloak or shawl, which may be thrown aside if it is uncomfortable, is suitable for a theatre.

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Very little suffices to disturb the whole party.

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Such a course of instruction, bestowing only a smattering of many branches, wastes the powers of the mind, and deters, rather than aids, self-improvement.

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Members of the House of Representatives call first on all the officials named.

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Archery and its practice--Lawn Tennis--Boating--Picnics--Private Theatricals--Card playing 398 CHAPTER XXXV.

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In private families it should be observed as a rule to meet together at all meals of the day around one common table, where the same rules of etiquette should be rigidly enforced, as though each member of the family were sitting at a stranger's table.

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