Caitlin Poffenbarger

The one downside to having cameras is that I'm paranoid as fuck that someone is gonna hack into them.

So if it randomly shows up again, then it's gotta be something on spectrum. I hope.

And all of my devices disconnected until I deleted them in my app and reconnected them again, so I know that's the case.

ALRIGHT. I have changed my wifi password & gone around & paired all of my devices to reconnect them again. After I finished, I saw the suspicious device connected after I had removed it. I removed it again. There is a new password, so it shouldn't be able to reconnect without it & only I know it.

And like, I don't know, this bitch is just crazy and doing crazy shit that I think warrants at least SOME type of surprised response. They're all just making me think I'm overreacting and I'm being incredibly irrational or something. Am I?

And any time I ever try to vent to my family about it, they provide absolutely no responses of substance. It's usually just grunts or an "uh huh" or "no way."

And I only responded because it was about her losing blood and she was freaking out that she was gonna die. 🙄 Exaggeration, no doubt, because she seemed totally fine once I responded to her. Now I'm wondering if she lied just to get me to respond.

And do you know how many times she messaged me and sat in my message requests inbox on messenger? Lemme count: 18. She sent me 18 individual messages over messenger with absolutely no way of knowing if I even saw them. *18!* Over a period of FIVE DAYS. Five days she dedicated to this.

She messaged me on her Facebook & her mom's, texted me on her number & her mom's, & when I still didn't respond to those FOUR METHODS OF CONTACT, she made a brand new one. You can't tell me that she didn't know she was blocked. You just can't. Why'd she make a new one at all if she didn't know?

Like when I blocked her on everything, and her mom, after I asked for space and she couldn't manage to respect that on her own. So she went and made a whole new phone number in an app to text me asking if I got her fucking messages and that she thinks there's something wrong with Facebook. GIRL. 😤

But she is SO DENSE that she doesn't even consider that people might not want to help her anymore. She just assumes that just because you wanted to do all you could to help her at some point that you'll always be like that, but her manipulative behavior changes that.

I'm gonna change my password at some point in the near future so I don't have to fuck with it anymore because she's gotta have my wifi password saved somewhere so she can always reconnect to it, which is some diabolical shit. You're being removed for a fucking reason.

I'm pretty sure I removed her latest device last night. The thing is named Henry something so that makes me think she could have stolen it. Or someone did for her.

And obviously she didn't actually need to connect to my wifi. She just wanted to because "it's faster." Bitch, pay for your own fast wifi because you slow my shit down and make it block so many threats.

She's spinning a very poorly built web of lies that is easier than easy to see through now that I've exhausted myself with trying to see the good in her. I've offered ample help and resources to change her situation and she actively chooses to stay in it and do absolutely nothing to change it.

Ffs she could record one of the many times her mom threatened to kick her out. Her father I guess has a pedo record, so that wouldn't be hard to eliminate as dependable housing for risk of abuse. None of her excuses check out. She's a fucking liar. Flat out.

She put down in her application that she did not have a permanent place to stay, so her moving locations would make absolutely no difference. That's the entire reason she would definitely get help - because she's literally homeless. She has no dependable shelter. She could get kicked out any time.

How these people that she sucks dry of empathy, money, patience, trust, etc. aren't doing enough for her because she still wants for things. And she STILL hasn't finished her state assistance applications bc she "went to her dad's and that messed it all up." Fucking lies.

That's not me being rude either. She is quite literally a leech. She is at least 20 years old, turning 21 this year, and she has never had a job or supported herself in any actual way. She has quite literally been living off of others for the last half decade while complaining how it's not enough.

So yeah, I do need to be rude about it. Because you can't manage to understand any other kind of language but mean and hostile, apparently. And I am at my wits fucking end with her. She's like a leech that's glued on.

The girl literally said "I understand and respect that" when I told her she can't be reaching out to me with her daily bullshit "emergencies" and to only reach out for a true - TRUE - emergency. And literally not 24 hours later it's like I never said a fucking thing. The DISRESPECT.

I-don't-care-what-it-fucking-takes,-you-WILL-get-it-or-fuck-right-off phase. No doubt she'll comment about how I didn't need to be rude and I'm gonna call her out on it. Because I DO need to be rude about it. Because she can't manage to understand anything else, apparently. I've tried being nice.2/2

So I said back, "Doesn't sound like a true emergency to me. This is abusing this open form of contact. Seriously. I will not go through this again with you. Learn some boundaries." 🤷🏽‍♀️ I am so fucking done. She has plowed right through the tact, respect, and tiptoeing phase. She has now entered the 1/

Oh wow. Color me unsurprised that this boundary-incapable fool just messaged me, WHILE IM SITTING IN THE ICU WITH MY GRANDMA, some stupid ass question about getting a ride for a friend or some bs. I told this girl just yesterday to only contact me for a t-r-u-e e-m-e-r-g-e-n-c-y. I fucking can't.

additional people there to care for her so that's not a concern at all, then she'd get more and better care. She'd probably be willing to bathe and get changed more often. 2/2

They do the little things that really make a difference in the long run, but just aren't enough of a priority for my grandpa to get done. Like putting lotion over her whole body. Brushing her hair. Changing her clothes daily. And she will refuse care to not inconvenience my grandpa. So having 1/

And he just can't keep up with it all and take care of my grandma at the same time. There just aren't enough hours in the day. And so he barely sleeps. So he legitimately needs the help. Plus, my grandma would benefit from tip top care from nurses.

Everything around the house. Everything getting paid for. Caring for himself. Caring for my grandma. Looking after their cat. Keeping the house clean. And this is a man that has regular deep cleans scheduled every few months or so.

I cannot begin to understand why in the fuck my rich ass aunts and uncles don't find a decent home nursing agency and pay for her to get care at home. Just to help my grandpa some and to keep her entirely taken care of. Because it's hard for my grandpa to do EVERYTHING.

Dropped one of my earrings down my bathroom sink drain and submitted a maintenance order for it. My place is such a mess right now and they just got there. So glad I'm not there to witness how embarrassing it is.