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Melissa Nightingale

@shappy.bsky.social

I’d like to thank all my terrible bosses for helping me get where I am today. worldsbestnewsletter.com

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Today.

15.10.2025 14:03 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
A poster that says “where are the people pleasers” behind a window, with Melissa in the background

A poster that says “where are the people pleasers” behind a window, with Melissa in the background

A poster that says “where are the people pleasers” behind a window with Johnathan making a face in the background

A poster that says “where are the people pleasers” behind a window with Johnathan making a face in the background

Pictured: @shappy.bsky.social trying to get out of the way of the photo.

Also pictured: @johnathan.bsky.social well, uh, doing the exact opposite.

Also also pictured: new window art at the bank (our HQ is a restored bank if you’re new here hi 👋)

01.10.2025 22:00 — 👍 2    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

Today’s.

03.09.2025 18:15 — 👍 5    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

Training the bosses as fast as we can but haven’t yet figured out how to do management training at Scotiabank arena. Would be cool tho. Get like 20,000 managers giving better feedback in a day. Someday. Someday.

(And thank you)

20.08.2025 23:22 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

hey this is so nice. thank you!

20.08.2025 16:25 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Appreciate you helping to get the word out. So many amazing folks going to work in jobs they hate for bosses they can’t stand. I refuse to believe this is as good as it gets. We can do better. We can collectively sail right over this low bar. ⛵️

06.08.2025 22:55 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

This is so very lovely and thank you 🫶🏻

06.08.2025 22:34 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
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None of this is real and it doesn't matter - Raw Signal Group The difference between the theater of work and actual work.

The difference between the theater of work and actual work.

www.rawsignal.ca/newsletter-a...

06.08.2025 14:00 — 👍 6    🔁 3    💬 0    📌 0

hello and thank you!

06.08.2025 15:51 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Yeah, I've had a strong return to reading long fiction in the evenings. Very relaxing to slowly read words that were carefully and lovingly crafted.

23.07.2025 16:37 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
How did they not know?

"It's fair to ask why one should have to compel people to use a tool if it's so obviously incredible." @rawsignal.ca on the AI boomlet and the hazards to their own workers many tech CEOs are ignoring.

23.07.2025 11:32 — 👍 10    🔁 3    💬 1    📌 0

Thanks, Rob! I was rocking my Taber 🍓 tee just yesterday!

23.07.2025 15:49 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
Today, over in CEO-club, all the cool kids are forcing their employees to use AI. They write bombastic internal emails, and then post those publicly for their CEO friends to admire and riff on. They tie AI usage to performance evaluation and compensation. They tie it to promotions and headcount requests. These CEOs, many of whom have woefully incomplete policies on hate speech and harassment, are clear-as-day that failing to use this or that LLM is an immediately fireable offence.

It's fair to ask why one should have to compel people to use a tool if it's so obviously incredible, but the CEOs are prepared for that question. Of course the tools are incredible, and many of their team members are already using them. But the pace of adoption needs to be faster. CEO social circles are often full of AI investors who assure them that even more powerful AI is just around the corner. And if their teams need some tough love in order to get with the program and see the vision, so be it.

Today, over in CEO-club, all the cool kids are forcing their employees to use AI. They write bombastic internal emails, and then post those publicly for their CEO friends to admire and riff on. They tie AI usage to performance evaluation and compensation. They tie it to promotions and headcount requests. These CEOs, many of whom have woefully incomplete policies on hate speech and harassment, are clear-as-day that failing to use this or that LLM is an immediately fireable offence. It's fair to ask why one should have to compel people to use a tool if it's so obviously incredible, but the CEOs are prepared for that question. Of course the tools are incredible, and many of their team members are already using them. But the pace of adoption needs to be faster. CEO social circles are often full of AI investors who assure them that even more powerful AI is just around the corner. And if their teams need some tough love in order to get with the program and see the vision, so be it.

reading this week's @rawsignal.ca email on the bus, almost missed my stop

23.07.2025 12:56 — 👍 7    🔁 3    💬 2    📌 0

not at all sorry and thank you

23.07.2025 15:48 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

<3

23.07.2025 15:47 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
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How did they not know? - Raw Signal Group We're still in the early days, this is still mostly anecdotes, but the anecdotes are multiplying fast. And they're haunting.

"Sorta like Napster, just post-DMCA."

IYKYK

www.rawsignal.ca/newsletter-a...

23.07.2025 15:44 — 👍 5    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0

we do aim to offend you <3

23.07.2025 15:42 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Bring your slop to work day - Raw Signal Group It's definitely giving some low-key asbestos vibes.

Do you really hate the work that much?
www.rawsignal.ca/newsletter-a...

28.05.2025 13:16 — 👍 3    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 1

Oh man. This is super well timed. It wasn't what @johnathan.bsky.social and I were talking about as we wrote tomorrow's newsletter, but we literally unstaged the thing to add a link to @dansinker.com's piece. <3 🎩

28.05.2025 01:26 — 👍 6    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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All of the managers rn

30.04.2025 14:30 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

While they’re doing that,
while they are out there on the edge of what’s possible,

stop

fucking

with

the

seating

chart.

30.04.2025 13:28 — 👍 5    🔁 2    💬 1    📌 0

OH @rawsignal.ca HQ on Newsletter Tuesday:

"I don't think we can add in the Fraggle Rock thing cause it's gonna take at least 150 words to explain what we're talking about"

15.04.2025 17:03 — 👍 8    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 1

Need people around you who can and do push back. In my lazier moments where I want to use strawmen @johnathan.bsky.social will say “what’s the best version of the counter argument?” Such a helpful shove.

05.04.2025 13:33 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Bianca Wylie – Medium Read writing from Bianca Wylie on Medium. Every day, Bianca Wylie and thousands of other voices read, write, and share important stories on Medium.

Yeah this piece would never juice an algo reaction. Cause at no point reading it did my cortisol spike. Reminds me of @biancawylie.com’s recent writing on slowing down and disagreement biancawylie.medium.com

05.04.2025 13:30 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0

Yes. Lots of folks write as though if you disagree, you must be stupid. But Andy anticipates your disagreement and nods to it as he continues to lay out his own reasoning. So even if you’re reading it and haven’t come over to his side, you still make it to the bottom of the piece.

05.04.2025 13:18 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Just read with my morning coffee and was reminded of why I enjoy Grove’s writing. It always sounds like he’s sitting across from you, explaining the thing. Even when he’s dismantling counter arguments, it’s got the same steady, inviting pace.

05.04.2025 13:00 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

"Forcing dedicated and decorated staff to resign based on their gender identity is not good fucking management. Eliminating a program literally focused on elevating great management is…well it’s not great."

See? 🔥🔥🔥

05.04.2025 01:22 — 👍 4    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0

"Midnight layoffs of gold-standard teams finding hundreds of millions in savings is not good management. Eliminating policies that drive transparency and accountability is not good management. Double-counting and faking your metrics is not good management."

05.04.2025 01:22 — 👍 4    🔁 2    💬 1    📌 0

"Intentionally putting teams into chronic stress is not good management, it’s ideology. Sending conflicting orders within the same management chain is not good management, it’s incompetence. Understaffing critical roles is not good management, it’s poor impulse control."

05.04.2025 01:22 — 👍 3    🔁 2    💬 1    📌 0

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