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We are a network of academics, mostly philosophers, exploring the social impact of dating apps. Find us at ethicaldatingonline.com and Instagram.

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‘I realised I’d been ChatGPT-ed into bed’: how ‘Chatfishing’ made finding love on dating apps even weirder Where once people were duped by soft-focus photos and borrowed chat-up lines, now they have to watch out for computer-generated charm. But it’s one thing to use a witty phrase – another thing…

‘I realised I’d been ChatGPT-ed into bed’: how ‘Chatfishing’ made finding love on dating apps even weirder www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle...

12.10.2025 10:32 — 👍 6    🔁 1    💬 1    📌 1

This is becoming a worrying trend as relationship advice is now marketised and monetised by big tech.

And difficult to foresee the longer term social impact of increased AI use in dating/relationships on how we trust, talk to, and relate to others.

@clsrleeds.bsky.social
@ethicaldating.bsky.social

04.10.2025 16:07 — 👍 5    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 1
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Dating in the Digital Sexual Sphere: How Apps Are Shaping Our Search for Intimacy  - Brook For Sexual Health Week 2025, we’re exploring the rise of dating apps and the role they now play in our intimate lives. In this blog, Dr Luke Brunning,

For Sexual Health Week
I wrote a blog for Brook encouraging more people think about online dating www.brook.org.uk/blog/dating-...

18.09.2025 10:22 — 👍 2    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0
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Couples who meet online may have lower relationship satisfaction Meeting online may be the norm in today's dating scene, but connecting offline initially may lead to better relationship outcomes

I shared some thoughts about a new academic study of dating apps in the @newscientist.com www.newscientist.com/article/2492...

15.08.2025 08:54 — 👍 4    🔁 1    💬 2    📌 0
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‘Are your dating apps encouraging sexual racism? I went up against the algorithm to find out’ When Serena Smith rejoined dating apps after a break-up, she got vanishingly few matches — that is, until she changed her race to ‘white’

Do dating apps perpetuate sexual racism? @nmckeever3.bsky.social and @lukebrunning.bsky.social contribute to this Cosmopolitan article exploring the issue www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/...

12.08.2025 08:57 — 👍 7    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0

This project is a key output of our network, and we are grateful for a grant from @britishacademy.bsky.social to make this project possible.
 
We hope to see the book on the shelves in 2027. Watch this space.

11.08.2025 13:48 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

This will be the first collection of book chapters exploring ethical issues associated with dating apps.
 
The book brings together leading scholars from philosophy and other disciplines to think about the impact of online dating as it shapes individuals, their politics, and wider society.

11.08.2025 13:48 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 1
A blue and purple poster reading ‘The ethics of online dating’ under contract, Bloomsbury’

A blue and purple poster reading ‘The ethics of online dating’ under contract, Bloomsbury’

Contracts signed! @nmckeever3.bsky.social Ruby Hornsby and @lukebrunning.bsky.social will be editing The Ethics of Online Dating for @bloomsburybooksuk.bsky.social

11.08.2025 13:48 — 👍 5    🔁 1    💬 1    📌 1
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More than just a bad date: Navigating harms on LGBTQ+ dating apps Queer and trans people can experience harm through dating apps. Here’s what they — and the apps themselves — can do to change that.

@cdietzel.bsky.social a new member of our network, recently published an article exploring the harms experienced by members of the LGBTQ+ community on dating apps.
theconversation.com/more-than-ju...

05.08.2025 11:01 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 1

One of our network @eirinimar.bsky.social will be talking about AI in dating messaging at the International Ethics of Artificial Intelligence Conference 👇🏻

24.07.2025 09:04 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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AI can be your wingman when online dating – but should you let it? Apps and users might be hopeful that Gen-AI can make dating apps fun again.

Natasha and Luke have a new article out in @theconversation.com exploring use of AI on dating apps theconversation.com/ai-can-be-yo...

17.07.2025 08:10 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
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Will AI Save Singles From Dating-App Burnout? | ELLE Canada Magazine | Beauty, Fashion and Lifestyle Trends & Celebrity News Will introducing AI to the daring app equation keep singles engaged or make them question who’s really behind their screen?

Featuring the letter from @ethicaldating.bsky.social

www.ellecanada.com/life-and-lov...

16.07.2025 20:17 — 👍 5    🔁 3    💬 0    📌 0
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Can You Really Have a Romantic Relationship With AI? Yes, you can. And it can be good for you. But the danger is seeing it as a substitute for a human connection. Three experts weigh in.

Did an interview with the @wsj.com and two other experts on AI companionship. Not all of the conversation made it in of course, but overall it was a pretty good discussion! Betteridge’s Law applies.

24.06.2025 21:43 — 👍 13    🔁 4    💬 2    📌 0

Listen to @lukebrunning.bsky.social discussing dating apps, in-person alternatives, and AI 👇🏻on Radio New Zealand.

15.06.2025 08:13 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Digital Futures of Diversity How can we design and implement digital systems that genuinely enhance diversity rather than simply digitising existing inequalities?

WOKE?! Come to our panel on Digital Futures of Diversity on 23 June at King's College London as part of @kings-dfi.bsky.social 'Living Well with Technology' series, with @birgitneunews.bsky.social , @lewisiwu.bsky.social, & @nessakeddo.bsky.social and Elisabeth Kelan.
www.kcl.ac.uk/events/digit...

11.06.2025 11:20 — 👍 22    🔁 18    💬 1    📌 2
Archive • Do we need AI in dating apps? Elle Michelle Yang

Check out this blog post on AI and dating apps by our nework member Elle Yang elleismatic.com/archive/do-w...

05.06.2025 12:09 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

“Innovators will no longer be limited by these standards [and regulations].”

Predictable but still heartbreaking. Buckle up folks, you’re on a ride with no brakes and no one behind the wheel who cares about your safety.

04.06.2025 08:32 — 👍 22    🔁 6    💬 2    📌 0
Team — ETHICAL DATING ONLINE

A few new people have joined our network. You can find more about all members here: www.ethicaldatingonline.com/team

29.05.2025 12:51 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

The talk on dating apps sounds great 👇🏻

25.04.2025 08:01 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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The rise of chatbot “friends” Wait, what is a friend anyway?

Several us shared our thoughts on the possibility of being friends with AI bots in this fantastic article for @vox.com by @chengela.bsky.social www.vox.com/future-perfe...

26.03.2025 13:58 — 👍 3    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0
A picture of Luke Brunning giving a talk in front of a slide showing logos of many different dating apps.

A picture of Luke Brunning giving a talk in front of a slide showing logos of many different dating apps.

Thank you to everyone who came to my #philfortnight2025 talk exploring some of the ethical dimensions of dating apps! The questions were interesting and challenging, and will help me develop my project further.

21.03.2025 08:39 — 👍 12    🔁 3    💬 2    📌 0
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🙎➡️ 🤖 "Personal avatars" are "digital duplicates" of real people. How might they be useful? What are their risks?

Paula Sweeney explains how philosophy can help us approach these questions #PhilosophyMatters #PhiloFortnight2025

20.03.2025 14:00 — 👍 16    🔁 9    💬 0    📌 0
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As part of British Philosophy Fortnight I’ll be talking about my project exploring the ethics of dating apps. #philosophymatters #philfortnight2025

19.03.2025 10:56 — 👍 30    🔁 10    💬 1    📌 1
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«TikTok» ieviesīs «komandantstundu» pusaudžiem, un mākslīgais intelekts palīdzēs flirtēt «Tinder». Tehnoloģiju ziņas Digitālajiem gardēžiem Latvijas Radio raidījums "#DigitālāsBrokastis" piedāvā iknedēļas tehnoloģiju TOP. Iepazīsties ar aizvadītās nedēļas spilgtākajiem tehnoloģiju pasaules notikumiem un produktiem!

The Latvian media also covered some of our concerns about AI and online dating: www.lsm.lv/raksts/dzive...

17.03.2025 13:40 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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“Es más fácil enamorarse así”: cómo los jóvenes están cambiando el mundo de las citas online Un año después de verse una vez e iniciar una relación online, Jess y Nate se comprometieron en una playa dorada, y deshabitada y asilada, dentro de un videojuego.

Our concerns about dating apps and AI were covered in this Prensa Libre article www.prensalibre.com/vida/bbc-new...

17.03.2025 13:40 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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AI in dating apps 'a threat to authentic intimacy' - BBC News Researchers into the ethics of online matchmaking urge caution over the use of AI on dating apps.

Our work on the ethics of AI and online dating features in this BBC news article. www.bbc.co.uk/news/article...

15.03.2025 10:38 — 👍 3    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0
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AI in dating apps 'a threat to authentic intimacy' - BBC News Researchers into the ethics of online matchmaking urge caution over the use of AI on dating apps.

Our work on the ethics of AI and online dating features in this BBC news article. www.bbc.co.uk/news/article...

15.03.2025 10:38 — 👍 3    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0
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Most Adults Unable To Spot AI Dating Profiles In Study - Global Dating Insights A recent study by fashion brand Pour Moi reveals that a significant number of adults struggle to distinguish between real and AI-generated dating profiles. The global survey, which involved 3,000 part...

This is one of the reasons why we wrote our open letter about AI in dating apps. www.globaldatinginsights.com/featured/mos...

13.03.2025 18:06 — 👍 2    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0
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Nieuwe AI-functie van Tinder maakt flirten makkelijker - Newsmonkey Match Group, het bedrijf achter Tinder, lanceert een AI-functie om gebruikers te helpen bij het communiceren met matches.

Our open letter about the risks of AI in online dating was covered in the Dutch media: newsmonkey.be/ai-coach-tin...

12.03.2025 16:40 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Aplicațiile de dating vor avea chatboți pentru utilizatorii care au nevoie. „Oamenii nu vor mai știi ce este real și ce e generat de A.I.” Viața ta amoroasă primește un boost virtual! Compania din spatele celor mai cunoscute aplicații de dating pariază pe A.I.

Our open letter is discussed in Romanian here: alephnews.ro/media/aplica...

11.03.2025 12:51 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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