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Dr Emma Clare

@dremmaclare.bsky.social

Chartered Psychologist & End of Life Doula | Death Wired Differently (neuro-affirming end-of-life support) | PhD/MSc on death competency & death anxiety | Founding member EoL Doula International Research Group | AuDHD | Taphophile | October Drift super-fan

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We were pleased to share evidence with the Independent Expert Panel’s new review of palliative and end of life care. The report highlights gaps in commissioning, workforce pressures, and persistent inequalities. We’ll continue championing the voices of those we support.

#EOLDUK #PalliativeCare

29.11.2025 09:06 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Very pleased with this! 😊

16.10.2025 22:55 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thanks so much!

12.10.2025 18:13 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you for sharing 😊 And yes, absolutely, and our colleagues!

12.10.2025 18:12 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Death Wired Differently | Death Doula & Inclusive End-of-Life Support Compassionate, inclusive end-of-life care and death doula services across the UK. Dr. Emma Clare provides neurodivergent-friendly guidance, training, and resources to support individuals, families, an...

I’ve been writing about neurodivergence in end-of-life care and advance planning and hearing from people who want to do better but don’t know where to start.

This work means a lot to me. I’ve gathered it all in one place - my new site is live: www.deathwireddifferently.co.uk

#DeathWiredDifferently

07.10.2025 14:45 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 2
A black square with orange underline which reads: Your autistic friends are watching your reaction to the 'autism cure' talk in the news

Not only to see whether you believe the lies, but to see whether you believe autism is something to be 'removed' rather than who we are

To know whether you prop up the language of eugenics which targets us

Now is the time to be a loud ally

A black square with orange underline which reads: Your autistic friends are watching your reaction to the 'autism cure' talk in the news Not only to see whether you believe the lies, but to see whether you believe autism is something to be 'removed' rather than who we are To know whether you prop up the language of eugenics which targets us Now is the time to be a loud ally

22.09.2025 21:29 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I am very new to it all myself, but have been finding the Visual Snow Initiative and VSS groups on Facebook very helpful/normalising

19.09.2025 20:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Coloured screen filters, coloured lense glasses, minimising stress wherever possible, work on acceptance (including through therapy), connecting with others with VSS have all been helpful

15.09.2025 15:11 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

RFK Jr. is not a vaccine skeptic. He's a vaccine denier whose anti-science extremist views and actions are destroying one of humanity's greatest scientific achievements. He's going to kill a lot of people, and those deaths are on the 52 Republican senators who confirmed him and those enabling him.

31.08.2025 19:45 β€” πŸ‘ 308    πŸ” 62    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 1
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Experience: I see the world through a layer of snow My condition has a name – visual snow syndrome – and it could be with me for the rest of my life

Good to see VSS being covered, this is very similar to my own experience

www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle...

#VisualSnowSyndrome #Neuroaffirming

30.08.2025 09:23 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Anytime! Let me know if you want to arrange 😊

30.08.2025 09:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Special interest grief is a disenfranchised grief. When a special interest becomes inaccessible it can feel like losing part of yourself. For many neurodivergent ppl these aren’t hobbies they’re ways of making sense of the world,regulating overwhelm,finding joy,expressing identity.It's valid & real.

25.08.2025 17:55 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I’ve been screaming from the rooftops that life under authoritarianism feels mostly normal most of the time for most people. Rights get stripped away and minorities get targeted and most people keep going to work and dealing with the minutia of life. It’s hard to know how to fight or when to flee.

14.08.2025 21:24 β€” πŸ‘ 27    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you! And of course 😊

10.08.2025 18:27 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I've got another #buyastrangerabook day offer to tell you about!

@raytom81.bsky.social will buy someone the book of their choice, up to Β£20.

That's any book at all.

So, if you have something in mind, let us know what it is.

UK only

10.08.2025 13:05 β€” πŸ‘ 16    πŸ” 17    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

More #buyastrangerabook (Sunday Special) magic!

@sarahalba.bsky.social is offering to buy one lucky person the book of their choice, up to Β£15!

So, if there's a particular book you're after, get in touch.

UK only.

10.08.2025 12:49 β€” πŸ‘ 21    πŸ” 24    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
The Truth About Life & Death From a Death Doula (Dr Emma Clare)
YouTube video by DACI The Truth About Life & Death From a Death Doula (Dr Emma Clare)

If anyone is interested in 50 minutes of me talking about end of life doulas, death, dying, and grief (as usual) you can watch/listen to the latest DACI podcast episode below. Pleased to include two @drkathrynmannix.bsky.social mentions

youtu.be/jUhy2J5qZKA?...

#EndofLifeDoula #DeathDoula

10.08.2025 07:59 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
The Luddenden Shroud Film Screening An online screening of The Luddenden Shroud film followed by a Q&A with the producer

My brilliant EoL doula colleague Rachel Hawthorn is hosting an online screening of The Luddenden Shroud – a 30-min film about a hand-felted shroud, nature, grief, and place. Followed by a Q&A. All welcome. Book here:
www.eventbrite.com/e/the-ludden...

07.07.2025 18:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Leeds became the first city in the UK to commission end-of-life doula support through the NHS in May 2022.

Explore the learnings to date from this pilot project ‡️

#EndOfLife #PersonCentredCare

27.06.2025 09:14 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Leeds NHS Commissioned Project - End of Life Doula UK Our Leeds NHS pilot project concluded in September 2024. You can download and read our full service evaluation report here. In a pioneering step for end of life care, Leeds became the first city in th...

Interested in how #EndofLifeDoulas can collaborate with and complement NHS services? Our evaluation report for our Leeds EoL Doula Pilot Project is now available to read/download here 😊
eol-doula.uk/leeds-nhs-co...

26.06.2025 18:04 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1
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MPs have personal beliefs, but also solemn duties: that’s why they must reject the assisted dying bill this week | Gordon Brown Our obligations to each other are ill served if laws focus unduly on those who want assisted dying. The priority should be the best palliative care, says former prime minister Gordon Brown

Sharing this on the eve of tomorrow's vote.

I am a palliative care doctor who is not opposed to AD. But enshrining in law a state-funded right to die, while not enshrine a similar right to the palliative care that might make life worth living, is so very wrong.

www.theguardian.com/commentisfre...

19.06.2025 13:02 β€” πŸ‘ 174    πŸ” 52    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 6

Oh thank you very much! This is beautiful, such a human inscription. I recognise the name too. Is this in York? πŸ™‚

19.06.2025 08:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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UK air pollution killing more than 500 people a week, doctors say Royal College of Physicians also says poor air quality costs country more than Β£500m a week

So important to see RCP make this statement about the preventable deaths and diseases poor air quality causes. We know it worsens infections , allergy,asthma and COPD severity too πŸ§ͺ

19.06.2025 07:02 β€” πŸ‘ 42    πŸ” 14    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 2
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Good morning! A friendly wee reminder that The Algorithms + Miscarriage Project is now seeking participants for interview. See poster for details...

@tommyscharity.bsky.social @cendeathsociety.bsky.social @asdsdeath.bsky.social @bsatheory.bsky.social

#miscarriage #algorithms #onlinesafety

18.06.2025 10:22 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

Very pleased to be announcing this! A huge amount of work and real team effort. Excited to see what is next! 😊πŸ₯³
#EndofLifeDoula

17.06.2025 11:09 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

RFK Jr. has just removed every member of the Advisory Committee on Immunization Practices (ACIP).

These members review vaccine data and make approval recommendations. This is completely horrifying and will likely delay vaccine approvals.

RFK Jr. must be removed from office IMMEDIATELY.

09.06.2025 21:09 β€” πŸ‘ 694    πŸ” 240    πŸ’¬ 30    πŸ“Œ 17

Save the date!

The fourth annual End of Life Doula International Research Group symposium is September 5-6 with the theme Research is a verb: Sharing knowledge as collaboration.

Online Sept 5-6, tickets and full programme live soon.

#EOLDIRG #research #event #EOLD #DeathLiteracy

03.06.2025 23:51 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
A faceless figure of a person surrounded by ribbons of different colours and white text showing aspects of work, and with like coloured sections forming two semi-circles around the person showing goals for work. Top title banner reads " Key intersecting tensions for end of life doulas " Bottom centre circle reads " EOLDs "

A faceless figure of a person surrounded by ribbons of different colours and white text showing aspects of work, and with like coloured sections forming two semi-circles around the person showing goals for work. Top title banner reads " Key intersecting tensions for end of life doulas " Bottom centre circle reads " EOLDs "

Opportunities for self-awareness, reflection and honest evaluation are always important - this goes for end of life doulas, too. How we work with opportunities and realities in the workplace, in tandem with our highest goals for work are shown in this graphic.

#EOLDIRG
#research
#resources

05.06.2025 04:05 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Hello world of #research - we are new here!

The End-of-Life Doula International Research Group (EOLD-IRG) is a collective of diverse individuals interested in developing a collaborative approach to research relevant to end-of-life doulas across national and international boundaries.

#EOLDIRG

03.06.2025 09:18 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1
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A quote from the brilliant Alexandra Derwen, shared during our end of life doula panel at last year’s Lifting the Lid Festival. Now on my wall as a daily reminder of why I’m here and how I want to show up.

#EndofLifeDoula #DeathDoula

30.05.2025 19:24 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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