This is true, but also, I think what people don't understand is how informing on kids who are trying out a nickname and a pronoun raises the stakes in way that could drive the inappropriate transitions and regret, the thing we're supposed to be so scared of.
Let me explain.
every you every me
hollanov, 6.1k 🔞
ilya starts enjoying butt plugs a little too much. it's driving shane insane in a very good way.
archiveofourown.org/works/79087911
written for
@/shanetopsilya
💛
misery business
#hudcon rpf
3440 w.
Hudson laughed but it hurt to laugh. His chest was already burning with jealousy and rage and hurt. He needed to take Connor home and personally clean François' load out of his hole himself.
archiveofourown.org/works/77519256
she eyes me like a pisces when i'm weak
#hudcon rpf
Connor shudders. "Greedy little thing, aren't ya, Huddie? Already got one pretty girl by your side."
"Yeah, and I want one more," Hudson says, trying to sound playful and failing.
archiveofourown.org/works/76915896
A/N: polyam! hudson
this is not fair
#hollanov canon compliant
"It's not fair," Ilya says, low and angry. "Women can give the men they love babies. I wish I was born with uterus so I could become pregnant and give you babies."
Shane does not blink for a long time. Eyes wide.
archiveofourown.org/works/76307196
secrets of her past
ilya & irina, 3k
background married hollanov
Irina has secrets from her past. Decades later, Ilya is still learning what they are.
archiveofourown.org/works/79288231
part 3 of my survivor! ilya series
archiveofourown.org/works/80808916 staying alive, hollanov, 3.7k, ilya and shane get called in by their toddler's homeroom teacher to come in for a discussion about something concerning.
Roses for Ilya
Hollanov, 2470 w.
“Now you're even with Rose,” Shane said, quiet amusement seeped in every single part of his tone. “I got her roses. Roses for Rose. I got you lilies. Lilies for Lily.”
archiveofourown.org/works/80484541
three of us have found a local pub where we try to meet up after work once in a while and bitch a bit it helps
real. id like to change that but in our line of work, i got no energy to be trying to have a social life after clocking out
archiveofourown.org/works/80808916 staying alive, hollanov, 3.7k, ilya and shane get called in by their toddler's homeroom teacher to come in for a discussion about something concerning.
The pipeline from "this makes me uncomfy" to "this is not allowed to exist" is dangerous and REAL. There is value in sitting with discomfort and confronting/unpacking your own biases. People are so afraid of their own "icky" feelings that they would destroy art and other people to remain "safe."
This absolutely leads into a larger conversation surrounding this pervasive inability to tolerate discomfort that leads many people to demand that art be defanged, censored, or otherwise eradicated to cater to their sensibilities. First it's art, then it's real people who are not allowed to exist.
I think too many people are too comfortable with demanding that others monitor and cater to their own discomfort. Your unhealed trauma and personal discomfort, especially regarding others' bodies, is for you to sit with and unpack, not for others to censor themselves and their own personhoods for.
Roses for Ilya
Hollanov, 2470 w.
“Now you're even with Rose,” Shane said, quiet amusement seeped in every single part of his tone. “I got her roses. Roses for Rose. I got you lilies. Lilies for Lily.”
archiveofourown.org/works/80484541
cw: weight, fatphobia
ok now that I've said that, I would like to gently push back on posts critiquing NJ's and others' weight-related comments + posts. not because I like them (I don't!) or because I'm pro-dieting (I'm not!). I have lived in a fat Black body my entire life.
putting this here aswell bcs ive been wanting to get it off my chest for years now
Hudson via his instagram story 🩵
secrets of her past
ilya & irina, 3k
background married hollanov
Irina has secrets from her past. Decades later, Ilya is still learning what they are.
archiveofourown.org/works/79288231
part 3 of my survivor! ilya series
never let me down
#hollanov canon divergent au
Ilya has a surprise for Shane the whole time Shane drives them down to his cottage. A sexy surprise.
archiveofourown.org/works/77057236
A/N: femme dom ilya / sub shane, ilya rozanov wears lingerie, top ilya / bottom shane
i'm fine, and you?
hollanov au
shane and yuna shut down whenever ilya tries to ask anything about japanese culture. so ilya keeps trying.
a/n: diaspora angst, shane-centric, ilya loves shane very much
archiveofourown.org/works/78134201
and where do i sleep?
hudcon
"Anyone who's not good to you," Hudson said, running the backs of his fingers along Connor's bare waist-skin. "Should die."
The way he said it frightened Connor. He swallowed. He sniffled. Hudson's eyes were dangerous to meet.
archiveofourown.org/works/78695901
is it ever gonna be enough?
ilya-centric, 5.9k words
“Ilya, we are not bad people. We just come from a bad place.”
OR
Ilya, through the eyes of all the men and women he has sex with throughout the years, including Svetlana.
archiveofourown.org/works/79159101
a/n: read the warnings ⚠️
every you every me
hollanov, 6.1k 🔞
ilya starts enjoying butt plugs a little too much. it's driving shane insane in a very good way.
archiveofourown.org/works/79087911
written for
@/shanetopsilya
💛
every you every me
hollanov, 6.1k 🔞
top shane / bottom ilya
ilya starts enjoying butt plugs a little too much. it's driving shane insane in a very good way.
archiveofourown.org/works/79087911
written for
@/shanetopsilya fest
💛
is it ever gonna be enough?
ilya-centric, 5.9k words
“Ilya, we are not bad people. We just come from a bad place.”
OR
Ilya, through the eyes of all the men and women he has sex with throughout the years, including Svetlana.
archiveofourown.org/works/79159101
a/n: read the warnings ⚠️
The Director of BTS’ Netflix documentary, “BTS: The Return” shared this message on Instagram stories.
The last two sentences. 🥺💜
and where do i sleep?
hudcon
"Anyone who's not good to you," Hudson said, running the backs of his fingers along Connor's bare waist-skin. "Should die."
The way he said it frightened Connor. He swallowed. He sniffled. Hudson's eyes were dangerous to meet.
archiveofourown.org/works/78695901
what do you mean 🧍🏽♀️
such a relief, i can't imagine spending an hour and half trying to get to work and wasting gas and risking my life.
