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Middle Aged Enby

@middleagedenby.bsky.social

Queer, ENM, SCUBA diver, transmasculine, nonbinary with side orders of cats and bunnies

201 Followers  |  186 Following  |  308 Posts  |  Joined: 03.08.2023  |  2.3951

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So far in Salinas, fave sign is β€œSmart people hate Trump and I’m a genius.” Five frogs and counting.

18.10.2025 19:42 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If you
See this and
You care if
I live or die
Please reskeet

12.10.2025 22:04 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 13    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

They will join a juvenile California sheephead, a Spanish shawl and an indigo hamlet. #nonbinary #transmasc

12.10.2025 21:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I first saw the former in the Galapagos this year and saw the latter in the Ionian Sea this year.

12.10.2025 20:58 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Male ornate wrasse

Male ornate wrasse

And then

12.10.2025 20:57 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Female Cortez rainbow wrasse

Female Cortez rainbow wrasse

My next tattoo

12.10.2025 20:57 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Cats! Not cattle!

12.10.2025 04:41 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Tortoiseshell cat next to my lt blue backpack

Tortoiseshell cat next to my lt blue backpack

Tabby and white kitten looking at the camera sitting on a chair

Tabby and white kitten looking at the camera sitting on a chair

Two kittens lying on a chair

Two kittens lying on a chair

Sunset over the Ionian Seaβ€” dark blue with orange and yellow and a scattering of clouds above

Sunset over the Ionian Seaβ€” dark blue with orange and yellow and a scattering of clouds above

Greece has many cattle and beautiful sunsets.

12.10.2025 04:40 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

My replies may have gotten out of order, but it was important to know that I was asked by a scuba shop owner about the scar across my chest

10.10.2025 22:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Yeah, I’m not really either of those, but I do tend towards colorful clothing

10.10.2025 22:01 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yes, wrasse are fish. Specifically fish that are all born female and some change as they age.

10.10.2025 18:56 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Preview
Inside billionaire Peter Thiel’s private lectures: Warnings of β€˜the Antichrist’ and U.S. destruction In leaked recordings of private lectures by tech billionaire Peter Thiel he argued that β€œthe Antichrist” is likely to take the form of a critic of technology.

hey @pecunium.bsky.social , have you seen www.washingtonpost.com/technology/2...?

10.10.2025 18:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

After we dived, I said I was a wrasse. And had to explain her u meant.

10.10.2025 13:01 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The second person to ask was a scuba dive guide, who I opted to not answerβ€” I said it was 8 years ago and did not impact my diving.

10.10.2025 13:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I asked her if she had had any guesses and she did not.

10.10.2025 12:59 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The first person who asked was someone that was in a group that I am traveling with. She saw me in my swimsuit and her way of asking was pretty respectful. She acknowledged that I didn’t need to answer and prefaced the question by letting me know that she was a surgical nurse.

10.10.2025 12:59 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I had top surgery 8 years ago last month and was not asked about my scars for 8 years. I have been asked twice in the first week.

10.10.2025 12:57 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

If I said I was a wrasse, what would you understand me to mean?

10.10.2025 12:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 0

Is β€œshitdown” a typo or a more accurate term?

09.10.2025 12:15 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Triton’s trumpet

Triton’s trumpet

Feather duster worms

Feather duster worms

Hermit crabs

Hermit crabs

It’s not just cats here

07.10.2025 19:03 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Tabby approaching my lap

Tabby approaching my lap

Me, a bald white human in glasses, sitting on a bench and being aggressively loved on my a tabby (his idea $

Me, a bald white human in glasses, sitting on a bench and being aggressively loved on my a tabby (his idea $

Today’s cats

03.10.2025 18:32 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Small fluffy black kitty with amber eyes, next to my purple hiking boot

Small fluffy black kitty with amber eyes, next to my purple hiking boot

Tree with a table of dirty dishes under it, with a tabby-and-white cat who is helping himself to dinner.  The Ionian Sea is in the background.

Tree with a table of dirty dishes under it, with a tabby-and-white cat who is helping himself to dinner. The Ionian Sea is in the background.

Grey and white cap and mantle kitty in a concrete box.

Grey and white cap and mantle kitty in a concrete box.

Tortoiseshell and tabby kittens on a cobblestone street.

Tortoiseshell and tabby kittens on a cobblestone street.

Have a timeline cleanse of Ionian cats.

01.10.2025 13:50 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A potato-shaped platypus stuffy, brown with grey feet and bill being held midair

A potato-shaped platypus stuffy, brown with grey feet and bill being held midair

I got my Covid vaccine which came with a $10 off a $20 purchase. I chose wisely.

12.09.2025 19:54 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Charisma is a real asset in public-facing roles.

22.08.2025 05:21 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I thought my phone had that problem but it turns out that 64 GB is just not enough storage

07.08.2025 03:16 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Self, you are not going to help a woman look more queer.

31.07.2025 21:40 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Two tabby cats on a catio with toys

Two tabby cats on a catio with toys

Tell people that you love them. Also tell the cats.

28.07.2025 04:40 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I think I’d be mostly the same person but with a lot of ability to change the lives of queer and trans youth and people who are unhappy to be pregnant. And ocean conservation.

25.07.2025 00:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

90 miles is too long of a commute. But it’s in Hwy 1 and it is sunny.

24.07.2025 23:27 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Are we eating cake yet?

14.07.2025 15:04 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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