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Burlesque Artist•Dancer•Event Strategist•Creator 🍰Dance, theatre, art nerd, time traveller🏳️‍🌈🍉 Owner @mayflycreates Instructor/GM @rougestudiotoronto

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Watching Ryan Reynold’s decent from public favour is like watching your high school bully finally learn that those high school manipulations don’t work in the real world and be forced to face the consequences from people who don’t owe you anything and who don’t want anything from you.

10.09.2025 15:53 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Welp it’s time.
Adobe is now so far out of my budget I’m cancelling my subscription in favour of free/lower cost options.

On the plus over the past few years of editing I’m feeling confident I can pick up a new software interface relatively quickly.

26.06.2025 19:04 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Burnout’s a bitch especially when you financially can’t afford to take time off to rest properly.

I’m not the only one.

The system is collapsing and we need UBI and/or a proper living wage ASAP!

18.06.2025 01:42 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I don’t think Americans understand that Canada separating itself from trade and basic alignment with the US is a massive global canary in the coal mine. Other nations will follow quickly. I can foresee the rest of the world isolating themselves from the US, and it falling into civil war.

28.03.2025 14:54 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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My best investment advice

20.02.2025 14:37 — 👍 12091    🔁 1651    💬 626    📌 118

As we navigate a new upheaval in western society, I’ve been doing my best to give anyone I talk to hope and perspective - that historically we will see two good things emerge:
- large strides in innovation
- really cool art

Kendrick’s half time show is just the beginning! I’m so excited!

10.02.2025 13:22 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

At McDicks after a gig and they def have a Disney playlist on - and I am singing every song to myself

09.02.2025 06:19 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Forever my fave birthday photo.
39 and feeling not terrible! 🎉🎈

05.02.2025 05:06 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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a man with glasses and a mustache is wearing a white polo shirt and saying yes . ALT: a man with glasses and a mustache is wearing a white polo shirt and saying yes .

Today is one of those days where I felt so driven and focused I actually got through my entire to do list!

04.02.2025 00:10 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Big show days always make me so excited!!!
Come see The Menagerie: Sub-Zero!
Tickets are available for $35 online and at the door!
mayflycreates.com

31.01.2025 16:40 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 1

I’m editing music for the next Menagerie and once again I accidentally bump into my own brilliance. I should never question myself - ever!

30.01.2025 15:25 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Happy Birthday!!! 💖💖💖

30.01.2025 13:26 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I (like most people), am struggling financially. Last night I had a dream I got an intern job with my financial advisor at my bank branch. Somehow she was buddy-buddy with the CEO, who just waved me away and said my debt was cleared.

Is this called manifesting?

30.01.2025 13:25 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Rebuilding my life has been hard.
It’s been a perpetual revisiting of past “traumatic” experiences and rewriting narratives. It’s been really scary and overwhelming, but also has allowed me to rebuild trust and confidence with myself.

It’s been a trip!

29.01.2025 15:29 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Ohhhhhh! THAT’S why you were crinkly when you got home!

26.01.2025 12:32 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
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If you need a strategy: I got you.

22.01.2025 16:52 — 👍 5    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0

Going to start *very* gradually moving away from Meta. I already barely use my FB except to promote shows. IG feels like a harder breakaway.

It’s been said for years, but it’s feeling real now: our dependency on social media as artists is a necessary evil - but there NEEDS or be other methods!

22.01.2025 15:57 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

😮‍💨 Like, in business speak, especially around planning, “buyer” and “shareholder” can arguably be interchangeable, but I find it disturbing using it in a space of service or commerce. It places an unrealistic and imaginary power dynamic.

22.01.2025 15:46 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I’m getting SO many videos on my TikTok of people saying that they are “autofollowing” POTUS and VP when they never would! There are some massive and scary shifts that are going to happen over the next 90 days - we need to move accordingly, pay attention, and stay vigilant.

22.01.2025 15:44 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

JD Vance keeps showing up as “recommended follow” on all my IG feeds 🤢

Social media is changing. I don’t foresee it serving the people. It’s time to reassess how we connect and communicate - especial as we survive the final act of the American Empire/Capitalism.

21.01.2025 22:15 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0

It’s been SUPER interesting this the past week to watch the average American realize they’re in the Bad Place.

21.01.2025 02:50 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Mayfly Creative Productions Mayfly Creative Productions creates unique and interactive theatrical and burlesque experiences designed for both conventional and unconventional spaces. We defy the status quo with inclusive casting,...

Experience the adventure for yourself! One week left for early bird tickets! Save when you buy before Jan 24th!

✨The Menagerie: Sub-Zero✨ January 31st at @superwondergallery Tix at mayflycreates.com

Photo by @bunnyboudoirr
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17.01.2025 16:45 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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The Madame is returning in a new adventure as she follows her husband’s journal entries to freezing temperatures! 🥶

Creating this show series & discovering this story with the audience has been immensely challenging & rewarding, & unlike anything I’ve done before!
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17.01.2025 16:45 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
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Burlesque is the art of the tease; how a performer plays with an audience with humour & suggestion while removing clothing! This art form celebrates connection & sensuality! 💋

✨Experience it for yourself with All That Glitters at @myhouseinthejunction EVERY THURSDAY!✨

Photo by @kahlilheslop

16.01.2025 14:28 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Just your daily reminder - support and engage with local artists! ✌🏻

15.01.2025 17:05 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

So… I guess it’s a good thing I never really got into anything by Neil Gaiman 😬

14.01.2025 12:59 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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This week at My House I’m so pumped to share the limelight with Belle Jumelles and Paige Turner!
Make sure you follow @mayflycreates.bsky.social

13.01.2025 16:56 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

This is the year I step fully into my power.
I can create the life I’ve always wanted to live. I can generate my own success and stability.
Most importantly, I am going to attract the people who will become my community, and the soft place to land when I stumble.

13.01.2025 16:54 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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If you’ve never seen burlesque before, let us be the first!
I promise we’ll be gentle! 💖
mayflycreates.com

09.01.2025 14:24 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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We’re back baby!
I can’t wait to be kicking off a new year of All That Glitters at My House!
A new burlesque show every week with some of my fave performers in the city! Exclusive tickets include a $30 voucher for your food and drink plus priority seating!
Mayflycreates.com

Photo by @kahlilheslop

09.01.2025 14:23 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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