@coffeeandkink.bsky.social
Sex & relationships writer. Specialist topics: polyamory, pleasure products, sapphic sex, kink and BDSM, pleasure & love after abuse. Homoflexible, polyamorous, femme. "A bit weird but in a nice way!" Writing: https://coffeeandkink.me
Yeah, I think you're probably right! Which is a shame in a way, I would have liked them to tackle the issue of redemption and forgiveness (or at least the question of whether it's possible) without going there, but I suspect a lot of viewers wouldn't accept that.
I know this is an unpopular opinion but I didn't like BBC's #Unforgivable.
It's a moving and well-acted piece of drama, but it perpetuates the narrative that sexual abuse causes sexual abuse (e.g. survivors are more likely to go on to become perpetrators.) Which is *not evidence-based.*
Sticking to your principles is expensive sometimes. I've turned down three paid gigs in two days because I will not promote AI.
I don’t want your AI designed toys.
I don’t want your AI written reviews.
I don’t want your AI generated images.
I don’t want your AI ever, at all, anywhere.
Same.
Praise the Great Moomin!
That's beautiful!
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I need the methodology behind this "fact" because, no. One in three people is not doing that.
Of course yes!
Omg 😂🤦♀️
Sat-EYE-uh-tee
Kinda cool to see Lovehoney toys being sold openly in Boots! #normalisepleasure #normalisesextoys
This is sinister beyond belief.
More Than Two Second Edition, by @everickert.bsky.social and @andreazanin.bsky.social, is so so so good!
I'm soon going to write about being an s-type (submissive) with two D-types (Dominants.)
What do you want to know, and if you have experience of this dynamic from either side, what are your thoughts?
Uberlube contains tocopheryl, a form of Vitamin E:
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Look I know everything seems to be written by fucking AI these days but there are actually still human content writers out there, and when you're rude to us about work we poured our skills and hearts into it still hurts.
I really like the Lovehoney one too!
I tried "vibrating" orgasm gel and I regret all my life choices. That shit BURNS.
Cosy, secure polyam life: your partners gently making fun of you in the group chat (which is named for an obscure in-joke, obvs) 🥰🥰🥰
My exclusive interview with Nour Hifaoui Fakhoury about her graphic novel, "Titties," has been published by Coffee & Kink (@coffeeandkink.bsky.social)!
It's available to read for free here: coffeeandkink.me/2025/04/15/n...
#comics #graphicnovels #publishingnews #writingcommunity #comicbooks
(Also I moved a washing machine yesterday. Those things are heavy.)
I often wonder why I'm usually some level of sore/stiff. Then I remember that I'm over 30, I work at a desk, and I like to sleep in the most unhinged positions imaginable.
I meant to launch this last month, but better late than never!
TIME FOR ANOTHER GIVEAWAY!
Read the whole thread to find out how to enter our Double Rainbow Giveaway to win either an XL/Super Soft Philco or a Small/Super Soft Philco!
Be sure to comment on THIS POST after you read over the rules 🌈💖
So pretty! Would love to win either 🏳️🌈
Pro relationship tip: date people whose tone when they pick up the phone sounds like you've made their entire day by calling. 💜
I need to know - is it called ethical monogamy or consensual monogamy?
Almost snorted coffee out of my nose @ "woo cuntstones" 😂
🚨 New post! 🚨
Ready to get deinfluenced? Here are six pleasure products and sexual wellness things you DO NOT NEED.
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