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Playing within D/s: negotiated power exchange dynamic

In a committed relationship: mutual power & mutual respect.

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My submissive exploration has made me feeling the attraction/ lust chemicals i did when I was a much younger person. It's like I am crushing hard again. It's nice to feel alive like this again.

I just wish I could keep my mind off it. Im near 40 years old and been serving for ober a year. Why cant I just be chill about it?? Lmao

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I serve Ms. Fox on Monday. It's been 3 weeks, and has felt like years.

There's something very calming about feeling owned by Her. Looking in Her deep beautiful eyes, hearing her soft velvety voice, feeling Her entitled sadist sting is so dreamy and restorative that I can't help but float away.

Then She can dominate the fuck outta me within those lines.

As we build and strengthen O/our dynamic, W/we can explore more kinks *becuase* W/we have built that trust and connection.

This is it.

As a foot slave, I have wanted to say i have no limits, but I am saying that within the subjective context of my kink pallet. A Dominant's sadist pallets has a much wider range, much of which does nothing for me or is way out of bounds for me. It's up to me to define my pallet for Her.

Reform for me.
Reform for you.
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You can truly tell who does it to dabble, who does it to control, and who does it naturally and learns it in the process of discovering who they are NOT.

Likewise. An exceptional Domina is hard to find. People like You are very special. 💐

Thanks. I was actually worried over here 😆 😂

As a Domme/Woman, I don't base my worth on the opinions or beliefs of others.

Why? I grow without being told to. I am accountable without needing blame or shame. I am a healer without external incentive.
Wise enough to know that u may not yet be wise.

Wisdom is not equal to knowledge.

Oh my! Did someone punch you in the mouth!??

I love this comment. 🥹🥹🥹
Thank you for the recognition, understanding, and advocation. It's nice to see someone who identifies as a "sub", that gets it.

The Domme has control. we, submissives, give Them control. Managing risk and taking in that liability *is* being in control.

A good submissive gets it and respects it.

Thank You for all You do! ❤️

Saying we dont have them shows lack of understanding of what a Domme does, lack of self-awareness, and poor communication - three barriers lf building a dynamic that works.

D/s is a journey about exploring and expanding limits. Self-awareness and communication are required for this or it wont grow

There is always an urge to say "you can do anything you want to me" to a beautiful woman - especially in a D/s context.

However, that's not appropriate to say when forming a dynamic in the beginning. It's literally a lie. We all have limits.

This is beyond kinkily obeying your Dominant. D/s aside, there's a lot of liability in play. Within the fantasy, there are real world consequences. A good Dominant is managing this the entire time. We gotta defer to their judgment

Yall Dommes have so much responsibility/ manage so much risk.

A submissive can offer Yall to use them a certain way but "no" means "no." we need to hear it once and accept it respectfully.

Thanks Rahul!

I totally resonate with this.

When it comes to my pics, I dont want to subject people to visual content that they didnt consent to, ya know? That's my only thing.

MB!! Wow thanks man! Means a lot.

📸 @kristinmariehuss.bsky.social (she's a legend)

My posts with my pictures dont get love so I feel ugly and then I delete them lol 🙃🥴

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I biggest insecurity as a submissive 😆 🤣

I deeply want to be low maintenance. Between sessions, i feel like I get shelved , if my Mistress wanted to activate me, She'd reach out, right?? It's crickets so I stay silent. I dont want to be annoying.

We absolutely do NOT know. Lol.

How many times have I been bumping elbows with a Femme Domme in "the wild" and never knew???

Of course They probably knew i was a subby male - a predator can always smell their prey.

This train of thought brings me back to my Mistress.

So whenever I see a beautiful woman... I end up thinking about Ms. Fox lol. She now symbolizes beauty and elegance for me.

I just try to live my life between sessions and be a normal guy, i really do. I just cant escape Her. Lmao.

One funny thing that has happened to me during this kink journey is that because Dominas doll up so much to play, whenever i see an attractive woman all done up & in heels in public I think she wants to demolish men/ me. Obviously they dont. Nevertheless...

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Unfair! 😆 😩