DameDarling

Hello
I am bad at social media
Merry Christmas.

December is creeping up quick... And my Mods and I have some PLANS we're making happen.

Cheap Chills with a new spin... A Charity Spin! @stjudeplaylive.bsky.social style.

To mix it up even more the incentives are "creative" themed.

Look forward to horror, art, and an Anime themed Holiday party!

Tonight.
@metalmealmeltdown.com from 9pm to 1am Pacific.

And yall... We're throwing a Sausage Party.

Supporting is free (just open the stream!)

Can I, with the help of a Papa and a Knight, make the most metal of Sausages?
Can Chat destroy it?

Why do I need Safety glasses?

Tune in. Find out.

Advertising for a Charity event called Metal Meal Meltdown that says "Join us Thursday 11/20 9pm to 1am Pacific time for a Very Metal Sausage Party raising money for St. Jude Play Live. Where Dame and Company play with meat. Www.twitch.tv/DameDarling

Please please please come on in and blow the Tiltify link up. There will be Metal Music, Meat, and chaos... And potentially even me eating Heart...

Soon... Too soon. Am panicking a touch.

Please stop by as many of these as you can... But maybe save a few dollars to throw at the campaign during my time slot Thursday night ❤️

Next step... Order gloves 😂

🤘🔥 1 WEEK UNTIL #MetalMealMelt2025 🔥🤘

Starting Saturday 11/15 5PM PACIFIC TIME, we start a full week of streams to raise money for @StJudePLAYLIVE!

Keep an eye on the schedule for every melter that will be bringing the food, metal, and hype until 11/22!

#MetalMealMelt2025

Boyface is home and healing.

This face is eepy.

My guy just got brought back for surgery (crushed foot getting Un smashed) anxiety is high. So is my hope.

Annoyed with myself for forgetting my headphones...

This week... With me!
Movie night is in my Discord (message me for invite if you'd like)

Not me clinging to my Ritual Gloves...but they're getting stretched out and losing efficiency.

Best sub we've found were arthritis support gloves or I will sometimes just put some sport tape on my hand and wrist.

The background is art in shades of pink, purple, and orange of a lone figure with a sword standing on floating ruins. The text reads: "OTHERSIDE: Queer. Fantastic. Coming 2026. www.othersidespec.com www.patreon/com/othersidespec"

Our intro thread has been going around again, but we've been busy since March... so, it's time for a new pinned thread! We are OTHERSIDE, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit magazine of speculative fiction and poetry by 2SLGBTQIA+ writers! We open for submissions in January 2026.

See thread for more! 🪐🗡️🌈 (1/5)

I don't think it's the garden... You're simply very good looking.

I base this off of... I've seen you not in a garden and you are quite frankly Hot AF.

I feel like we only were asked to pay for sports uniforms, my ugly ass chorus dress, and big field trips.
My kids it felt like they asked for money once a month...And I had to fill out the forms "still a single Mom working 2+ jobs.Still don't have a spare $150.Don't even have spare 50¢" every time.

I grew up the one whos family couldn't afford things like that. We learned relatively late to ask the school to waive fees... They very often will.

Only the best kind of friend says something like "but you wouldn't even accept [money] Dame, you can't even accept that you're disabled." as a goodnight.
In her defense I asked her to be "less hard to love" yesterday... So we're both assholes.
Love you @helloeryn.bsky.social

Friends with disabilities. When did you grasp that you're "disabled"?
Do you say it?
At what moment did it click that you could, and should, access the aids that may help you through the day?
It's just all kinda clicking for me lately and I'm wondering about others stories.

Good morning. I hope you have a smooth and fulfilling day.
That all.

Sometimes I go to unrelated concerts and send " I found Larry's Hairbrush!" to my bestie afterwards...

Do you have any idea how absolutely amazing you are?

I value you. I see you. I appreciate you.

August may be better, it might not be (some things we can't control) but no matter what - you're awesome and I hope the universe returns that to you soon.

OMG I just saw this! Thanks team yall are awesome!

So this is a thing.
I'm bad at self promotion.
I'm bad at Birthdays.
I'm doing this anyways.
Come for the fun, or to enter giveaways, or both.

Even if you're meeting me that night, I would love to have you in chat.

I learn new things every day. I love it.

Vacation Bible School is more like a day camp instead of keeping the kids for the overnights. They usually have a theme throughout a week and run it on a similar schedule to a school day.

I keep seeing this... And I keep seeing it while sitting next to my partner... A man. Who likes my piercings... Also why would the dislike of a piercing be gendered?

My ankles are almost as big as my calf.
I'm sunburnt AF (with 4 applications of sunscreen)
My hip seems to have forgotten where it belongs.
I fell while "alone" but a stranger caught me before I full faceplanted.
We spent over 3 hours waiting to be able to leave the parking lot...

STILL A GOOD DAY

I feel this SOUL DEEP

I am in enough pain that in my dreams I was also in pain.

I plan on spending the next 2 days doing a lot on my feet (at a music festival) and I'm honestly very anxious about this...

Won't stop me. This is life with chronic pain... But I'm still anxious and upset about it.

See he's not interested in women. He's looking for bitches... I'm not sure why he's so focused on height and not the whole difference in species.