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Nick Bognar (he/him)

@nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social

#LMFT in private practice in CA / Helping #therapists build their dream practices / Lover of #cats, baker of pies, rewriter of #networking rules. A Meta-refugee, here to make genuine connections. www.nickbognarcoaching.com

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People change jobs, insurance, citiesโ€ฆ or just capacity. My job is to make the transition kind: name options, offer solid referrals, and bless the next step. Clients remember how you handle the handoff. That part really matters.

#therapistsky

28.01.2026 18:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Honestly, my consult calls with therapy clients arenโ€™t fancy. We just talk. I tell folks how I work, what it costs, how scheduling works, and we see if it feels right. If it doesnโ€™t, I help them find someone who will. Thatโ€™s the whole thing.

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21.01.2026 16:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You donโ€™t have to bend to build a full practice. Set a clear fee, a clear schedule, and a clear fit. Be kind, not contortionist. Say what you do best, who youโ€™re for, and hold the line.

The right clients find you.

#therapistsky #therapistsconnect

14.01.2026 17:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

That might mean saying no to a decent-but-off referral, tightening your consult script, or emailing 3 colleagues with โ€œwho Iโ€™m best for (and who Iโ€™m not).โ€

Whatโ€™s one small boundary youโ€™ll set this week?

#therapistsky #therapistsconnect

07.01.2026 18:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

A calmer 2026 starts with one choice: make room for clients who actually fit you.

07.01.2026 18:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I donโ€™t think January needs to be a sprint.
I think it needs to be honest.

02.01.2026 16:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Year-end pep talk, minus the hype:
You CAN build the version of private practice you actually want.
Not overnight and not by force, but by alignment + repetition.

31.12.2025 16:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Nothing magical happens at midnight.
The therapists who end up with practices they actually like didnโ€™t wait for a reset.ย 
They made small, aligned moves and just kept going.

#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists

29.12.2025 16:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You donโ€™t have to out-tech the world. You have to be you, on purpose.

26.12.2025 17:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

AI can assist but it canโ€™t replace you.
If youโ€™re wondering how to โ€œstand outโ€: be findable, be referable, be human.
Whatโ€™s one human thing youโ€™re proud of this year?

#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists

24.12.2025 16:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hot take: your most powerful โ€œtoolโ€ isnโ€™t a tool. Itโ€™s you.
Real presence still wins in therapy, and as we head into 2026, donโ€™t try to out-robot the robots.
It's time to double down on relationship, trust, and clarity.

22.12.2025 18:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Best choices Iโ€™ve made came from quiet clarity, not panic.
Conversations with trusted colleagues > chasing trends.
Whoโ€™s your โ€œcall before you pivotโ€ person?

19.12.2025 17:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

โ€œI have to or Iโ€™ll fall behindโ€ vs. โ€œI want to because it aligns.โ€
Same action, totally different energy.
Whatโ€™s one aligned move youโ€™ll make before yearโ€™s end?

17.12.2025 16:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

End-of-year buzz can sound like: โ€œdo more, be everywhere.โ€
Quick check: is this move fueled by fearโ€”or by vision?
Write down 3 business decisions you made lately and label each one.
No shame, just clarity. What did you notice?

#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists

15.12.2025 18:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Networking โ‰  โ€œget clients now.โ€
Itโ€™s relationships, trust, and long-game impact.
Even if youโ€™re full, you can still be the person who connects people well.
Whatโ€™s a low-pressure way you stay in the game?

12.12.2025 16:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Burned out and still want to grow? Try the 60-second move:
Forward a kind note to a colleague you admire.
One sentence about what they do brilliantly.
Thatโ€™s it.

#therapistsky #blueskytherapists

10.12.2025 16:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You donโ€™t need your dream job to start building your dream practice.
If youโ€™re tired, keep the moves small: connect, refer well, be generous.
That kind of generosity has a way of coming back around.
Whoโ€™s one colleague you can lift up today?

08.12.2025 18:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Therapy practices grow on trust + time and December is great for both.ย What if you sent a 2-line โ€œthinking of youโ€ to a colleague you value today?

#therapistsconnect

05.12.2025 18:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Not rewriting your whole website this month? Same.
But you can still:
โ€ข check in with 1 colleague
โ€ข clarify what you want more of
โ€ข post a short โ€œhereโ€™s my best-fit workโ€ note
Quiet moves still count!

#therapistsconnect #therapistsky

03.12.2025 17:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Therapists, If nothing changed between now and Jan 1, how would you feel about your practice?
If that stings, youโ€™re not alone...and you still have time.
What โ€œsmall, honestโ€ step feels right this week?

#therapysky #therapistsconnect

01.12.2025 17:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Sometimes the most โ€œbusiness-savvyโ€ thing you can do is go to bed.
You canโ€™t out-hustle burnout.
You canโ€™t market your way out of exhaustion.
Therapists โ€” whatโ€™s your go-to move when your tank is empty?

#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists

28.11.2025 16:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Everyone wants the โ€œ3 easy stepsโ€ to a full practice.
Hereโ€™s mine:
1. Talk to people.
2. Build trust.
3. Repeat.
(Sorry, no crazier answer.)
What would you add to this list?

#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists

26.11.2025 16:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Therapists: stop feeling bad about enforcing your cancellation policy.
If a client cancels 2 minutes into session, thatโ€™s not your problem โ€” thatโ€™s the policy.
Otherwise, youโ€™re trading in your sleep and sanity.
Do you enforce your policy? Why or why not?

#therapistsky #therapistsconnect

24.11.2025 16:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Almost 100% of my caseload comes from referrals.
Not SEO, not socials, not even my podcast.
Just other clinicians who know me.
Networking is the unsexy secret nobody wants to hear.
Whatโ€™s been your best referral source?

#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #therapists

21.11.2025 16:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

A therapist once told me they wanted to combine therapy, cooking, and retreats into one offering.
My take? If youโ€™ve got the ingredients, cook the damn recipe.
Therapists โ€” whatโ€™s your wild dream for your practice that youโ€™ve been too scared to say out loud?

#therapistsky #therapistsconnect

17.11.2025 16:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Being โ€œsquishyโ€ with your schedule doesnโ€™t make you more accommodating.
It makes you resentful.
And your clients can feel that.
Whatโ€™s the hardest boundary for you to hold in private practice?

#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #therapistsofbluesky

14.11.2025 16:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Another therapist once told me: โ€œI feel like Iโ€™m not fully recognized anywhere.โ€
That line gutted me โ€” and also nailed the experience of so many high-achieving, burned-out therapists.
Do you resonate with that?

#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists

12.11.2025 16:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Totally fair! This was more of a poetic exaggeration, not a scheduling recommendation! Whether itโ€™s 3 clients or 10, the emotional load can be intense, and peer support matters.

11.11.2025 21:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My old business card said: Depression Destroyer.
My next one might just say: Not the ketchup guy. Not the guitar amp guy.
(There are at least two other โ€œNick Bognarsโ€ out there so I have to clarify.)
Should therapists lean into humor with their branding, or keep it buttoned-up?

#therapistsconnect

10.11.2025 16:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

PSA: Feeling fried โ‰  โ€˜not cut out for it.โ€™ It usually means โ€˜under-resourced and isolated.โ€™ Find one colleague. Start with โ€˜I thought of you today.โ€™

#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists

07.11.2025 16:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0