Big Daddy Kiki

Calm is a superpower.

"I'm a firm believer that you can't control what happens to you in this life. But you can control how you respond to it."

For your own sanity, always take mixed signals as a no.

Other peoples’ opinion of you is their problem, not yours.

Don't you ever get the feeling that all your life is passing by and you're not taking advantage of it?

You deserve a life that doesn’t revolve around what hurt you.

Sometimes you meet a person and you click - you're comfortable with them, and you don't have to pretend to be anyone or anything.

Distance yourself from the people that you don't want to become.

This summer will be a love letter to myself.

For your own sanity, always take mixed signals as a no.

I don’t understand why respecting people’s boundaries is so hard.

I choose myself. There's nothing worth losing myself again.

Let it end. Don't force the connection.

Don't lose yourself. Know your worth. Leave what isn't for you. Save space for people who matter.

If you’re struggling and your people are just sitting there watching you struggle, they’re not your people.

Don’t think. It complicates things. Just feel, and if it feels like home, then follow its path.

I’m off next Sunday! 🙌🏾🙌🏾

Ahhhhhhh!!!

The moment you feel like you have to prove your worth to someone is the moment you absolutely and utterly have to walk away.

One of my best friends puts these signs in front of her house.

We need to be brave

Enjoi alittle Sailor Moon! 🎀🌙

The smartest thing that I’ve done is say nothing.

If you cannot control your emotions, you cannot be trusted with my time, energy, or collaboration. Emotional intelligence is not just a skill—it's a necessity. I will not tolerate any form of abuse.

There’s some real shitty people out there in the world.

Maybe I don’t have anxiety. Maybe I’m so scared all the time on account of it all being so scary.

One day you'll look back and realize you worried about things that didn't really matter.

"Philip, do you think I'm old?"

"Of course not."

"Do you think I'm pretty?"

"Woman, look in that mirror and tell me what you see."

"I don't know."

"Well, let me tell you."

Hot cross buns went platinum at my house