Tam With The Yams

Salute the real b*tches

We both know these four walls cannot talk 🗣️

And I hope my words fit like the perfect size shoe

The ones heavily influenced by respectability politics, toxic conservatism, and internalized misogyny….

Most pick mes are gen x women and/or hyper-Christian.

Someone said Cynthia gave no emotion in No Good Deed and that it wasn’t touching Idina Menzel’s…..😒😒 the delusion of yt people is really insane

FIYEEEEEEEEERRRROOOOOOOO 🗣️

Yeah a lot of people dragged it, but I agree with you!

Boq, the Cowardly Lion, and especially Nessarose going straight to the gates of fire

Unpopular Opinion: The Fantastic Four movie by Marvel Enterprises, Inc. from 2005 wasn’t bad. I will live an eternity on this hill.

😊🤍

Ain’t none of these hoes got shit on me 🤸🏾‍♀️

I feel like SpongeBob that time he was supposed to have the best day ever and people kept hijacking his 💩

Next time I have the day off, I’m putting my phone on DND

Like I genuinely want nothing to do with a person that cannot maintain inner peace 😭

I can’t stand chaotic ass people. Like please get the helliontay away from me with that

Timeline drive by ✨

Megan Pete is one of the few celebrities that I genuinely feel deeply for. The amount of hate she gets for no reason is just a reminder how the world views and treats African American women. It’s scary and disheartening.

If you’re avoidant and afraid of treating your lady softly, leave me tf alone lol. I’m tired of you niggas that have the “kid with a crush on the playground mentality”.

If joking and teasing is your only play, GET TF.

My man, my man, my man, my baby, my babehhh

Know thyself lol

Lacking accountability will always be a lose-lose situation. You’re avoidant because you fear the outcome, but your refusal to move in honesty and truth perpetuates the very aspects of your life that you hate (e.g., imbalanced or disingenuous connections, stagnation, etc.).

**This isn’t referencing cases of abuse or where intervention would need to be outsourced due to the severity of the situation.

News Flash: Even if you’re the person investing more into the connection, you’re JUST as responsible for the imbalance and co-dependent nature of the relationship. By not setting boundaries, you’re an active participant in the dynamic.

Inability to set boundaries is indicative of a deeper issue.

Everyday I realize that the bar for self-awareness is in the deepest pits of hell. Why are you not regularly assessing your reactions and responses to things?

People can understand the concept of studying for a test to get a passing score, but not self-reflection to become a better person.

Shame and guilt are not inherently “bad” emotions; they’re indicators of your capacity to feel and empathize. But responding with deflection and avoidance over accountability and truth indicates a lack of emotional and mental intelligence.

Channeling the restraint of my ancestors because chile…..

No one should have to face that. It's a respect thing. Happy Birthday to you. Never forget what they show you...

You’re right. Thank you 🤍

Especially when it’s someone you’ve showed up for several times. You might as well tell me you don’t fw me at all