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I actually gasped when I read what you wrote about the aunt who passed away during your visit. I am profoundly sorry that that happened. Cannot imagine how you must have felt.

The guilt almost killed me. Been in adoption trauma therapy for almost 3 yrs. The guilt was what made me reach out for help. Happy to say I'm a much more emotionally healthy person than I was when I started. But there are days when that guilt creeps back in. I will always wish I could do it over.

Unless you're me. I'm the worst cook on the planet! A foreign language would probably be easier for me. 😂

Now that all four of them have passed away, I realize how I cheated myself out of what I needed, and what my birth parents needed as well. I would do it so much differently today. If only I had the chance. That's why I said people should listen to what you wrote. You know what you're talking about.

The reunions actually went well. My parents weren't married to each other either. It was what to do after I met them that was the hard part. All of the parents were still alive, so it was like trying to walk a tightrope of not hurting anybody else's feelings, while totally ignoring my own.

Firstly, that was a beautiful article. Thank you for sharing it. Learn whatever it takes for you to feel more connected to your Homeland. Whether it be language, learning to cook the foods of your country, cultural celebrations, wrap yourself in the things that were taken away from you.

Great advice! Wish you had been around 40 years ago when I had my reunion. I had no one but myself to lean on, no advice, no one to talk to. I can highly recommend your tips to anyone who is heading towards reunion. Honestly, reading this helped me to understand some things all these years later.

Laura, I don't have the answer. Moses Farrow, who is on Blue Sky would have a lot more information. These charts came from him. California has a very large population in general, so you could be on the right track.

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'Allies in Justice' is building an alliance of parents, families, and allies in the fight for justice. Children have been taken, trafficked, and killed for decades. It’s time to make them our priority.

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All parents, families, and allies are welcome to join this alliance. When our children are at risk, all of us are affected. We are stronger together to meet their cries.

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Lawyers, Investigators

Researchers, Journalists

Community activists

Event planners

Writers, Content creators

Neighbors, Friends & Relatives

Planners and Strategists

Coordinators and Networkers

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Parents and families whose child has been killed in foster care or permanent placement, “loving forever home” in the U.S.

Allies are welcome and needed! Everyone can be an ally in this fight for justice and prevent these crimes against children.

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Allies in Justice Community Meeting

Date: Sep 13th

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Town Hall - this Saturday, September 13th at 9:00 a.m. PST, 12:00 noon EST.
Free event, will last about one and a half hours.
Hosted by Moses Farrow.
All are welcome.
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It hit hard, but it is so true. Congratulations on having it published. And thank you for sharing it with us.

🥚 Must read article. Also, must share article! Especially with your doctors. They aren't trained to know anything about us. So we have to do the educating.

🥚 THANK YOU for posting this! Sharing far and wide.
Suggestion to anyone who reads this and other articles like it. Print it out and share it with family, friends, and most of all, your doctors. WE have to educate doctors, because their schooling does not tell them/teach them about us.

A Flower Traveled in My Blood NATIONAL BESTSELLER • “[An] astonishing story…Powerful…Harrowing…Absorbing and lucid…You would have to harden your heart to be unmoved by the Abuel...

🥚 I heard the author describe her book today and now have to read it:

"A Flower Traveled in My Blood: The Incredible True Story of the Grandmothers Who Fought to Find a Stolen Generation of Children" by Haley Cohen Gilliland (2025) 512 pages +
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Thank you for the reminder. This is on my must-read list. I think a trip to the local bookstore is in order this week.

🥚 Thanks for passing on the petition. I've signed it. It's something that we can do.
I hope to see trafficking via adoption wiped off the face of the Earth. It won't happen in my lifetime, but I can sure work towards it while I'm still breathing.

🥚💔 Another, in a horribly long line of children, who are being murdered. From Foster Care to adoption, it keeps happening. She was 4 ft tall, 45 lbs, at 9 years of age when murdered. Imagine the hell that was her life. I look at her face and I can't help but to start crying. This has to stop.