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OnePlusOne is a relationship research charity. We create digital courses, apps, and professional training programmes which empower people to learn skills that help them get on better. Find out more at www.oneplusone.org.uk or get in touch!

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How children see their parents get on – whether they are together or separated – directly impacts a child’s development. This is why it’s important to focus on supporting parents to have good quality relationships with each other as well as with their children.

#ChildrensMentalHealthWeek

10.02.2026 10:02 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Separation doesn't have to end in conflict and court. Try our app whilst funding lasts to see for yourself.

#separatingbetter #separationsupport #coparenting

04.02.2026 08:51 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Our Separating better app is free to download and designed to support families at one of the most challenging moments in life. By using and sharing it, you're helping us keep this resource funded for the families who need it most.

04.02.2026 08:51 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
OnePlusOne – homepage Equipping people to build and maintain healthy relationships.

Visit our website: www.oneplusone.org.uk

02.02.2026 13:07 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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With increasing expectations on local authorities, our support matters more than ever. Contact us or visit our website to explore how our tools can offer you and your family a helping hand.

#strengtheningrelationships #relationshipsupport #earlyhelp

02.02.2026 13:06 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Evidence-based, digital support isn’t about replacing services, it’s about helping them go further. By working in partnership, we can reduce pressure on services while helping families build the relational skills they need to thrive.

02.02.2026 13:06 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

#separatingbetter #coparenting #separationsupport

14.01.2026 16:11 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Our Separating Better app, created to help separating parents coparent better and build emotional readiness, is only funded to be freely available for all until 31st January.

Every download and share about Separating Better helps shine a light on why keeping this accessible is so crucial.

14.01.2026 16:11 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
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Christmas is the season for giving, but it doesn’t have to be gifts. You can give your time and kindness. Check in on neighbours or volunteer locally. Building these connections strengthens community bonds and brings joy to everyone involved.

#christmas #connection #community

19.12.2025 09:01 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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If this your first Christmas as a co-parent, you may feel unsure of what to expect or how to handle your new family setup. These tips might help.
https://www.oneplusone.org.uk/news/how-to-make-your-first-christmas-as-a-co-parent-a-success

#coparenting #christmas #relationships

18.12.2025 09:03 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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The government’s Child Poverty Strategy fails to address the importance of parental relationships. 

Read our full response here: https://www.oneplusone.org.uk/news/child-poverty-strategy-fails-to-address-the-importance-of-parental-relationships

#EndChildPoverty #ChildPoverty #relationships

17.12.2025 15:02 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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If you can’t be with loved ones this Christmas, try staying connected in other ways, such as a video call, text, or handwritten card. Letting someone know you’re thinking of them can keep you close, even when you’re apart.

#christmas #connection #relationships

17.12.2025 09:01 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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True love doesn’t need five golden rings this Christmas. Try replacing it with five compliments or positive comments instead.
Research shows this is how many are needed to balance out just one negative remark, and help to build trust in relationships.

#magicratio #positivity #relationships

15.12.2025 09:01 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Our operations manager, Sara, is another brave team member taking on the #LondonLandmarksHalfMarathon!

Donate to our JustGiving page to encourage Sara to keep running like she's titanium! www.justgiving.com/campaign/one...

#LLHM2026

12.12.2025 11:34 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Arguments can flare over Christmas, but you can stop them from escalating. Think of a disagreement like a log fire: the logs you argue about, the match that starts it, the fuel that worsens it, and the water that calms things down. Pause, listen and respond calmly to keep your relationship strong.

11.12.2025 09:02 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Everyday actions such as making a cup of tea or saying 'thank you' can strengthen relationships more than big, grand gestures. With Christmas near, remember that gratitude is the most valued gift. Be sure to show your appreciation.

#christmas #gratitude #christmasgiftideas

#gratitude

09.12.2025 09:03 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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It's great to see the enthusiasm from our friends about relationships and why they are so important. We are happy to introduce Leisa, one of our volunteer runners for the #LondonLandmarksHalfMarathon2026!

Donate to our JustGiving page to support our runners: www.justgiving.com/campaign/one...

08.12.2025 09:14 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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The Christmas rush can be hectic, but the holiday is a great chance to enjoy fun, quality time with family. A change of routine can help to build togetherness and strengthen relationships. Your family is your foundation. Make time to connect.

#christmasactivities #togetherness

07.12.2025 09:01 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Choosing the perfect gift for a loved on can feel like an ideal way to show your love. Studies show spending money on others can make you happier too! But remember, gifts don’t have to be expensive. It’s often the little things that count.

#christmasgiftideas

05.12.2025 09:01 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Her Royal Highness the Princess of Wales’ Christmas message highlighting the importance of small acts of kindness is something we can all take on board. In fact, it’s so important we even put it on a cup! 

#connection #relationships #actsofkindness

03.12.2025 14:20 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Whether it’s your first Christmas or your 50th, celebrating milestones can strengthen your relationship by creating new memories and recalling why you fell in love. If things are tough, remembering happier times can help you reset. This Christmas, enjoy making and sharing memories.

#celebrate

03.12.2025 09:02 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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It’s #GivingTuesday! 💙 Help children and families affected by separation. Please support our London Landmarks Half Marathon team if you can:

https://www.justgiving.com/campaign/oneplusonelandmarks

Every penny helps build stronger relationships & brighter futures.

#LLHM #fundraising #separation

02.12.2025 09:02 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Research shows that having good social connections can help you live longer in the same way as avoiding smoking and more so than tackling obesity.
So, this Christmas, let good relationships be the gift you give yourself and others.

#christmas #connection #relationships

01.12.2025 09:02 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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We're proud to share that our 2024-25 Impact Report has been published!

Thank you to everyone who has engaged with our content and supported our mission to build healthier and resilient relationships.

Read the full Impact Report here: www.oneplusone.org.uk/about/charit...

#ImpactReport

25.11.2025 12:48 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Introducing... our very own Dr Shannon Hirst running the #LondonLandmarksHalfMarathon2026!

If you'd like to support Shannon and OnePlusOne in our fundraising, please donate to our JustGiving page: www.justgiving.com/campaign/one...

Any amount, big or small, is greatly appreciated.

#LLHM2026

10.11.2025 12:06 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
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This week is #TrusteesWeek, an opportunity for us to say thank you to all of the trustees on our board at OnePlusOne. We are fortunate to have a dedicated team of volunteer trustees who each give their time and expertise to help support our work. Thank you for everything you do.

06.11.2025 11:31 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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This #GlobalDiversityMonth, we're exploring how barriers like stigma, lack of representation, and cultural misunderstanding can make reaching out for relationship support feel unsafe or irrelevant - https://www.oneplusone.org.uk/news/global-diversity-month-spotlight-barriers-in-relationship-services

22.10.2025 12:03 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Our Research lead, Dr Shannon Hirst, has been appointed visiting lecturer at the University of Surrey. Sharing her expertise in turning research into resources that make a difference to people's lives will help shape future psychologists. Congrats!
#Psychology #Research #HigherEd #Relationships

15.10.2025 10:02 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Our FREE app is packed with expert advice and practical tools to help you navigate the separation process and learn how to build an effective co-parenting relationship with your ex. Search for 'Separating better' in your app store, or visit www.oneplusone.org.uk/separating-better

#divorce

29.09.2025 09:23 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Empathy is the ability to recognise what another person is going through and ensure they feel heard and understood. This article is worth a read to understand why empathy at work is important. 

https://www.cpduk.co.uk/news/curiosity-resilience-and-relational-working-role-empathy-social-care

23.09.2025 07:02 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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