The most challenging aspect of mindfulness practice is remembering to do it consistently. Itβs easy to approach it too narrowly or preciously.
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The most challenging aspect of mindfulness practice is remembering to do it consistently. Itβs easy to approach it too narrowly or preciously.
20.12.2024 00:43 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Feel Your Feelings 101
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In Episode 4 of Interfering Neurotic, Dr. Ash King and I discuss how to tease apart physical and emotional sensations and why rushing to make sense of our feelings gets in the way of us feeling them.
βIβve been on both sides of this problem: first, as a child; then later, as an adult with my own children. Do I encourage them to go down the path theyβre best suited for, or push them to step out of their comfort zone? Itβs hard to know which is more loving.β
Michael Jamin, from A Paper Orchestra
Right? Sometimes, our desire for people's suffering to end gets in the way of supporting them. Imagine telling someone recovering from a serious illness to heal faster.
My friend Ash and I chat about this in our new podcast.
"Predictions link the sensations in your body that give you these simple feelings with what's going on around you in the world so that you know what to do, and sometimes, those constructions are emotions."
Lisa Feldman Barrett
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βMoving on, in many ways, is grossly overrated.β
~Tilda Swinton
βWhat fun is a crime if you do it and nobody knows? And thatβs why people usually get caught.β
Jerry Clark
We can learn to notice more nuance in perceptions that convey feeling with practice. This involves noticing the differences between physical and emotional sensations.
10.12.2024 21:24 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0"We don't care about fame, but we believe everybody else cares about fame more than anything else. We have commercials, movies, and television shows telling us that a successful life is about being famous. The younger generation doesn't privately value fame, but they're internalizing the illusion."
10.12.2024 20:40 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I played a challenging piece by Debussy that I love. Afterward, someone told me she saw a woman who was an accomplished pianist moving her hands and fingers along as I played. When most of the others left the room, she sat down at the piano to play Clair de Lune from memory.
09.12.2024 14:48 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0My friend Ami and I performed for a very warm audience of residents at an assisted living and memory care facility last Friday. It was such a treat for us. My favorite part was hearing the audience sing along.
09.12.2024 14:46 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0There's nothing like losing electricity and WiFi for a day to remind you how amazing and useful they both are. Essential even.
I have a deeper appreciation today for the Columbus Metropolitan Library (didn't have to cancel my two scheduled webinars) and AEP (for addressing the problem so quickly).
Adam Mastroianni recently discussed the availability heuristic ("estimating how common something is by how easily it comes to mind") with Derek Thompson as part of a larger conversation about psychology's replicability challenges.
05.12.2024 15:24 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0"Far more learning could happen in this world if more people could remain interested and attentive to whatβs being said."
David Cain
"From trust and conformity to aspiration, this new series, hosted by Todd Rose, explores and decodes the worldβs greatest Collective Illusions."
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In the third conversation of Interfering Neurotic, Dr. Ash King and I discuss personalities who tend to attract more attention online.
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04.12.2024 20:06 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Join me for my Predictions 2025 live event with Section next Thursday 12/12, 12-1pm EST. RSVP here:
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04.12.2024 20:05 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0βIf you believe you need to have a specific feeling before you can do what matters to you, trying to chase that feeling consumes you and leaves nothing for what matters. When you cut out compulsions, you break that IF X THEN Y pattern.β
~ Mark Freeman, from You Are Not a Rock
βThe media, day and night, breathlessly focuses on the contours of whatβs achievable within the narrow band of options being discussed, so viewers never consider broader alternatives.β
@brianklaas.bsky.social
If you could practice spinning the straw of indifference into the gold of real care, would you do it? Where could you start?
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Could wisdom simply be the ability to follow oneβs own advice?
29.11.2024 11:26 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Healthy intimacy is counter-instinctual. Feeling close to another person isn't rooted in perfection or feeling worthy. It emerges from sharing our vulnerabilities. But making our private thoughts and feelings public is obviously fraught.
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Dr. Ash King and I discuss the art of oversharing online in the third conversation of Interfering Neurotic.
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βI am grateful for what I am and have.
My thanksgiving is perpetual.
It is surprising how contented one can be with nothing definiteβonly a sense of existence.β
~ Henry David Thoreau
βIf you think you are enlightened; go home for Thanksgiving.β
~ Ram Dass
Exercising my attention through mindfulness practice doesn't fix anything. It changes how I relate to everything.
I don't mean how I think about things. I mean the capacity to respond to moments without constantly micromanaging them as they unfold.
When we think about thinking, we usually describe our internal chatter and the specific types of content it generates, but mental activity also has a visual component. Observing it helps us untangle it from verbal thoughts and the related emotional components.
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