families of queer people, meanwhile: www.them.us/story/lgbtq-...
11.11.2025 08:37 โ ๐ 197 ๐ 70 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0@garbotrash3d.bsky.social
Sculptor and idiot She/Her | 31 ๐ @witnesstheabsurd ๐ฉโโค๏ธโ๐ฉ
families of queer people, meanwhile: www.them.us/story/lgbtq-...
11.11.2025 08:37 โ ๐ 197 ๐ 70 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0"Take the phone away" is the first item on the list of action recommended by anti-trans parents' orgs.
11.11.2025 07:56 โ ๐ 391 ๐ 121 ๐ฌ 3 ๐ 4There's a tendency in trans people's parents, when they are accepting, to still want an exaggerate amount of control on their kid's life. I'm not talking about the regular amount of oversight any young person requires, in fact most of the cases I am thinking about right now concern people over 20.
11.11.2025 08:00 โ ๐ 162 ๐ 28 ๐ฌ 3 ๐ 2People also take offence when told that their child has a right to privacy, and in some cases, that their child's carer, in the case of a therapist or a doctor for instance, has a confidentiality duty with their patients. You can't go about demanding summaries of your kid's therapy sessions.
11.11.2025 08:05 โ ๐ 126 ๐ 21 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 1Accepting parents are great, better than non-accepting ones for sure, but they are still themselves and they can very easily slip into a "Let's tolerate minimal change until my child wakes up from this delusion" mentality.
11.11.2025 08:06 โ ๐ 133 ๐ 21 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0they are able to peel back the ACA because its a shitty half measure but if we had gotten real universal healthcare instead no one would dare touch it because literally everybody on all sides would flip out. one more reason why Democratic incrementalism and "pragmatism" is fucking stupid !!!!!
11.11.2025 00:14 โ ๐ 1010 ๐ 152 ๐ฌ 3 ๐ 6SNAP benefits and health insurance wouldn't even need to exist at all if people got paid livable wages and health care was 100% free. They're functionally duct tape for holding a broken system in place and the GOP wants to peel off said tape.
10.11.2025 15:16 โ ๐ 73 ๐ 32 ๐ฌ 2 ๐ 0Brianna Ghey was not murdered for being Esther Ghey's daughter, and Esther locating the problem of her daughter being murdered by radicalised cis kids in her daughter being trans is a result of her class loyalty. She simply wants to prevent kids from being trans. She gets no more grace from me.
11.11.2025 11:42 โ ๐ 183 ๐ 36 ๐ฌ 5 ๐ 1The parents of trans people are notoriously unreliable figures in our lives. The phrase "deadname" arises from our communal knowledge that our own parents will erase our transition and very lives for their own narrative convenience when the world conspired to kill us before our own parents die.
11.11.2025 11:46 โ ๐ 129 ๐ 22 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Esther Ghey is of this parental decision, and her decision to bemoan her daughter's ability to be trans, befriend the family of her murderers, and deadname her throughout a book is because she's a fucking ghoul of a transphobe. She grieved the loss of her son, not daughter, let's be real.
11.11.2025 11:46 โ ๐ 129 ๐ 19 ๐ฌ 3 ๐ 0Anti trans radicals have long targeted parents because they know parents are the most potent figures of authoritarian violence against queer kids. Esther Ghey is merely their latest weapon.
11.11.2025 11:50 โ ๐ 123 ๐ 25 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0tbh, the US supreme court not budging on gay marriage is great, but also this happening while codifying anti-abortion and anti-trans laws is either strategic in the face of opposition or an example of the project of homonationalist integration, at a time where fascist parties have cis LGB leaders
11.11.2025 02:20 โ ๐ 401 ๐ 103 ๐ฌ 4 ๐ 5The disparities are controlled by hormone levels and not puberty.
Current evidence suggests any physical performance advantages trans women have do not fall outside the range observed among cis women after 1-2 years of testosterone suppression.
www.transresearch.org.au/post/trans-w...
The International Olympic Committee is set to ban trans and intersex women from competition. This is despite the fact that for 20 years, the IOC has allowed trans athletes to compete and only 1 has ever competed and none have ever won a medal.
www.the-independent.com/sport/olympi...
Itโs wild to suggest this is a circular firing squad or something when itโs millions of citizen Democrats who hate it versus 47 elected Democrats who conspired to surrender for nothing.
Weโre not fighting โeach other,โ weโre fighting you. Thereโs only a few dozen of you, but you hold all the power.
how much of this is legal weed states pissed about it cutting into official dispensaries, i wonder
regardless: fucking lmao. firmly committed to not giving you the bread OR the circuses
[an electoral map from 2024 showing like a ton of red in the middle of the country and blue only in cities] robbybobby271: remember kids, the areas in red provide about 85% of the food you eat. and we're required to share it with the blue parts. we just do it to be nice.
remember kids, the areas in red provide about 85% of all federally-owned land that we put oil pipelines on
11.11.2025 02:05 โ ๐ 34 ๐ 3 ๐ฌ 6 ๐ 1Lol Labour toooooooo
10.11.2025 22:52 โ ๐ 53 ๐ 7 ๐ฌ 2 ๐ 0this is literally never not accurate
10.11.2025 18:32 โ ๐ 17260 ๐ 4296 ๐ฌ 72 ๐ 69interesting to note that the only ppl desperate to save the bbc are 'centrists' and absolutely nobody else cares bcos they made this bed themselves
it's the same with the labour party. both abandoned the left to pander to the right and now the right is eating them they have very few supporters left
anyway
10.11.2025 17:10 โ ๐ 759 ๐ 150 ๐ฌ 6 ๐ 0As a parent, I know the unbearable pain of losing a child - so this is hard to say
But truth matters
Brianna's mother had the opportunity and the moral authority
to stand up for young Trans+ people, in her daughterโs memory
Public evidence suggests sheโs chosen not to
Itโs deeply upsetting
Anton Chigurh in No Country For Old Men: โIf the rule you followed brought you to this... you to this...of what use was the rule?โ
10.11.2025 06:19 โ ๐ 2320 ๐ 422 ๐ฌ 9 ๐ 11The point of transition isnโt to become an uwu beautiful uwu lady or hunk of a man (itโs nice if that happens tho). The life of an ugly and Whole woman is worth living. It is misogyny to believe that only the life of a beautiful woman is worth living. You have to become Whole.
09.11.2025 19:59 โ ๐ 387 ๐ 72 ๐ฌ 8 ๐ 7pls donate? NO health care!! ONLY donate
no money for politicians
10.11.2025 15:52 โ ๐ 4098 ๐ 922 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 18Iโve been working since 15. Iโve been lucky enough to not have had to go to the hospital for anything but one blood pressure issue in my 30s. It was minor. Went to urgent care at 42, that alone wouldโve hit me for thousands even with my ACA health plan. They found cancer. Thatโs close to $500k.
10.11.2025 19:00 โ ๐ 114 ๐ 22 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0As others have said, we all need to be clear on the fact that what is happening in Chicago is a preview of what they are planning for all blue cities.
Especially as midterms approach.
They will tear gas us at the polls and say, oh, this isn't voter suppression. It's just business as usual.
The Democratic Party is so committed to mistrusting and de-emphasizing grassroots swells of support that they legitimately believe โissuesโ are a thing that they direct and control, rather than things that they respond to and capitalize on. It makes me feel insane.
10.11.2025 15:26 โ ๐ 26 ๐ 4 ๐ฌ 2 ๐ 0The last few years of getting a zillion "great" offers for "we know what's holding you back on youtube book a meeting now" or "do a video and we'll give you $2 every time someone installs raid shadow legends" has led me to a single finding: anyone with a .gg domain is probably running scams.
10.11.2025 17:08 โ ๐ 365 ๐ 32 ๐ฌ 18 ๐ 3