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Melinda Stoops

@melindastoops.bsky.social

Author | Psychologist | Coach & Consultant Firm believer in the power of relationships and community. https://www.melindastoops.com

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Superman is Overrated | Melinda Stoops Today's newsletter is all about superheroes. Not the ones in comic books and movies. This newsletter is about the everyday superheroes out there looking for that next job. Each of the superheroes in...

Check out today’s newsletter www.linkedin.com/posts/melind...

02.02.2026 13:20 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Happy Thanksgiving! In the spirit of the shopping frenzy that many of us will be embarking upon- I’ve reduced the price of the ebook version of my book- The Reluctant Free Agent: Navigating the Loss of a Job- to $0.99. This price is in effect through 11:59pm on Monday night.

Available on Amazon.

27.11.2025 14:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Reluctant Free Agents: The New Cool Kids | Melinda Stoops If you have ever felt embarrassed or ashamed of losing your job, that stops today. Look at these faces - every one of them has lost a job at some point. You are in great company. You may notice that...

If you lost your job, you are now officially one of the cool kids.
#layoff #laidoff

www.linkedin.com/posts/melind...

11.11.2025 02:51 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Evolution Losing your job can sometimes feel as if you have fallen down the rabbit hole, similar to Alice’s experience in Wonderland. For example: The pressure of finding a job parallels the White Rabbit’s inte...

Check out my latest newsletter issue- how does losing your job change you?
www.linkedin.com/pulse/evolut...

01.11.2025 21:52 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Okay- I saw the news that Amazon may lay off 30,000 employees. The book I wrote (below) helps people who have lost their jobs.

This book was self-published on Amazon.

Does that seem ironic to anyone else?

Amazon should give each of them a copy. And good severance $$.

28.10.2025 02:47 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A Conversation with Nathan Henton
YouTube video by The Reluctant Free Agent: Surviving a Job Loss A Conversation with Nathan Henton

My most recent newsletter features a conversation with Nathan Henton, who is working 3 jobs while searching for a permanent role.

youtu.be/zKUZMqiitPI?...

19.10.2025 03:15 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Fun news! I published a book today- it’s all about losing a job and moving forward from it. Here it is, if you want to take a peek. #booksky

The Reluctant Free Agent: Navigating the Loss of a Job a.co/d/4vpf1Jm

18.09.2025 02:10 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1
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Moving Forward In my most recent newsletter, I wrote about the beginning of September and the associated vibe as routines shift and we say good-bye to the glory of summer. One question we often find ourselves answer...

Today’s newsletter- jam packed with information about my career plans and more.

www.linkedin.com/pulse/moving...

16.09.2025 02:12 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Songs for Reluctant Free Agents

Hi all- I created a #spotify playlist of songs to help you deal with losing your job.

Give this playlist a listen: Songs for Reluctant Free Agents (if link below expires, search by playlist name).
Enjoy!

Here is the link: open.spotify.com/playlist/61v...

06.09.2025 05:18 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Voices of Experience: A Conversation with David Q. Hao
YouTube video by The Reluctant Free Agent: Surviving a Job Loss Voices of Experience: A Conversation with David Q. Hao

Check out this great interview with David Q Hao, General Counsel and Chief Compliance & Engagement Officer at Cove Wealth Management. We discuss how he used networking to land his current job and the role that values and mindset play in job searching
#unemployment #laidoff

youtu.be/YB3tGmkWGGI?...

19.08.2025 16:07 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Voices of Experience: A Conversation with Colleen DelVecchio When you lose your job, you experience a lot of different emotions. Those might include anger, sadness, anxiety, or embarrassment.

www.linkedin.com/pulse/curiou...
Check out my latest- the value of curiosity and turning the loss of a job into a successful coaching and leadership development business.
#unemployed

07.08.2025 02:07 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The Power of Gratitude I think we can all agree that losing one’s job is not a good thing. We did not choose this; it involves a negative emotional experience (or two or three); it greatly complicates our lives in many ways...

Check out my latest newsletter issue on #gratitude while #unemployed

www.linkedin.com/pulse/power-...

26.07.2025 03:59 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Voices of Experience: A Conversation with Nick Tatar I’m writing this newsletter from Southern Arizona, where I am spending a week visiting my mother and her husband. My journey here took a different path than expected, which is not unusual in air trave...

If you lost your job and are thinking this might be an opportunity for a career change, check out the most recent issue of my newsletter and attached video conversation, in which I interview someone who changed careers and started his own business- www.linkedin.com/pulse/voices...

10.07.2025 14:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Voices of Experience: A Conversation with Ian Slater
YouTube video by The Reluctant Free Agent: Voices of Experience Voices of Experience: A Conversation with Ian Slater

Check out this conversation with my colleague Ian Slater, about his experience of losing his job and staying positive during this difficult time. #laidoff
youtube.com/watch?v=xApJ...

25.06.2025 14:41 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Go for it. Just keep reposting with the next paragraph. Like mini chapters.
I love orange. It’s bold and doesn’t hide. It says β€œI’m here.”

11.06.2025 02:23 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Beautiful

11.06.2025 02:21 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I love your described intent to write β€œwriterly things”. It makes me ponder what types of things are writerly and what types of things are not at all writerly.

11.06.2025 02:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Voices of Experience: An Interview with John Denio | Melinda Stoops Greetings! I'm sharing the 9th issue of my newsletter, The Reluctant Free Agent. This issue expands the conversation beyond my personal reflections and is focused on the experience of a colleague ...

www.linkedin.com/posts/melind...

Check out the latest issue of my newsletter about dealing with #laidoff #unemployed. It’s a conversation with a colleague who shares his experience and strategies.

09.06.2025 22:28 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I agree- it feels cookbook-ish.

07.06.2025 19:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you-

07.06.2025 19:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Is it annoying that we are searching for answers or annoying that everything starts with β€˜how’? If it’s the latter, we could brainstorm alternative words. But I can’t think of any. How to… ??

07.06.2025 16:35 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Bravo

07.06.2025 16:27 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m working on a non-fiction book and used the index card method (well, post-it notes) to identify topics for each chapter. I agree with your observation that this nonlinear approach is good- I could move them around and they weren’t stuck in a fixed order

07.06.2025 16:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

So, did you start reading??

07.06.2025 16:22 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I love to hear people’s stories!

05.06.2025 17:41 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The Next Chapter Ninety-eight days ago today, I finished writing the first issue of this newsletter. I remember putting the text into LinkedIn, along with an image, and getting it ready to post.

Check out the latest issue of my newsletter- The Reluctant Free Agent. #laidoff #nonfiction #writing www.linkedin.com/pulse/next-c...

26.05.2025 16:38 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I hope this is true. If so, I would take it in the spirit of solidarity

25.05.2025 14:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I love him!

25.05.2025 14:24 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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