(Pt.5) The lesson(s) for me:
* Focus on kindness and lifting people up
* Even if an artistic idea isn't my first choice (as long as it's harmless), I aim to be encouraging, because everyone has different styles and that makes life interesting and fun
* Working to be less bothered by rude people
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(Pt.4) I feel like even if you don't like the plant or the idea, there are so many ways to share that or even suggest other ideas in ways that are kind and encouraging.
I'm still considering my idea and thinking of other potential plants to sub in, purely because that interaction diminished joy.
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(Pt.3) Their immediate response was to make a sour face and exclaim that they felt triggered because they don't like that plant, then proceeded to complain about it, turning the focus to them.
This made me feel small and had me rethink my idea, which is silly. I keep mulling over this interaction.
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(Pt.2) This is an individual who I am obligated to interact with and am choosing to view this as a lesson.
Recently I shared a concept for an artistic project with a group in which they were present. I was pretty excited about the idea, which involved painting a botanical mural on furniture.
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(Pt.1) Do you ever come across people who feign kindness while simultaneously trying to "top" every story shared and actively dismisses/diminishes other people to elevate themselves?
I'm dealing with an individual who behaves this way regularly and am struggling with holding kindness towards them.
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Posting flattering photos? Nah. That moment when you're checked all the way out, caught on camera π€£
Thinking about the lesson? Maybe.
Wondering if I forgot something? Possibly.
Away with the fairies? Probably.
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When you accidentally put two stickers too close together and it just works
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Trail signs
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Times aren't great right now, and I've really been focusing on my circles of influence and control. So with that in mind, my first few posts are just going to be cats.
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