Julie Beck

Julie Beck

@julieebeck.bsky.social

staff writer covering relationships @theatlantic.com / writing book on friendship in the age of hyperindividualism / creator of The Friendship Files / newsletter: https://julieebeck.beehiiv.com

964 Followers 149 Following 138 Posts Joined Jul 2023
1 week ago

the Christian-devens-Emily-aubry axis is truly something

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1 week ago

I don't know how to get on SurvivorSky, or where my Survivorheads are at, but let me just say I am having the BEST time with season 50 and I am all-in on Christian, my pants-pooping king.

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1 week ago
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The Impossible Predicament of the Uninsured My aunt couldn’t afford to go to the hospital. She ended up there anyway.

"All she could afford to be was grateful." a heartbreaking, personal look at what happens when you're uninsured, by @jenishawo.bsky.social

www.theatlantic.com/magazine/202...

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3 weeks ago

the new snail mail songs are that rare and precious genre of “makes me believe spring will actually come”

they are vitamin d, they are an ssri, they are fixing my brain chemistry

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1 month ago
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A ‘Survivor’ Contestant’s Empathetic Reality-TV Novel Stephen Fishbach mines the drama of competition shows to write a cautionary tale about trying to edit down the mess of life.

I really enjoyed Stephen Fishbach’s novel Escape!—as a Survivor fan, and as someone who thinks way too much about how the desire for narrative shapes our lives
www.theatlantic.com/books/2026/0...

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1 month ago
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Americans Love Their Neighbors Statistics say this is a time of disconnection. Minnesota’s response to ICE shows otherwise.

a tribute to everyone who hasn’t forgotten how to love their neighbors 💙

www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/...

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1 month ago

two journalists arrested for practicing journalism—Don Lemon and independent journalist Georgia Fort

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1 month ago

essential essential essential life-giving, hopeful piece of writing

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1 month ago
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Can We Just Let Teens Exist in Public? When malls ban unaccompanied minors and when cities enact curfews, they restrict adolescents’ ability to participate in society.

legalize teens!!!
www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/...

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1 month ago
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'Fuck You, 2016' On blaming a year for the things that happen in it

the funny thing about everyone memorializing 2016 on social media is that at the time, people famously hated that year, to the point that everyone was constantly posting "Fuck you 2016" on social media and John Oliver burned the numerals in effigy on TV

www.theatlantic.com/technology/a...

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2 months ago

"“They specifically asked me if I knew where the Hmong families lived on my street & in the neighborhood.” Lugert-Thom responded, “I don’t know anything about that” & she said they then asked, “Well, what about the Asian families?”"

"“I was a bit shaken & a bit shocked of what I was asked to do.”"

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2 months ago
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Elon Musk Cannot Get Away With This If there is no red line around AI-generated sex abuse, then no line exists.

We are not letting this go

If there is no red line around AI-generated sex abuse, then no line exists.

by @cwarzel.bsky.social and @matteowong.bsky.social

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2 months ago
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how your email has been finding much of the staff of the atlantic dot com this week

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2 months ago
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A Romance That Actually Takes Sex Seriously Heated Rivalry understands how relationships develop through physicality.

thank GOD @faith-hill.bsky.social wrote about heated rivalry www.theatlantic.com/culture/2026...

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2 months ago
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First the Shooting. Then the Lies. The Trump administration has perfected the smear campaign.

Renee Nicole Good was killed by an ICE officer in Minneapolis—now her family has to cope not only with their loss “but with a campaign designed to justify her killing,” Adam Serwer argues:

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2 months ago

I just verbally said "all the best, Julie" while leaving a voicemail for my pharmacy.... send help

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2 months ago

first of all being a hater has gotten me so many friends. secondly, the newly common idea that venting means one friend bellyaching and the other being drained of their life force ignores the ideal, superior form of venting: mutual venting! sometimes we are mad together, nothing more energizing <3

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2 months ago
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The Common Friendship Behavior That Has Become Strangely Fraught A theme keeps popping up in relationship advice: Don’t vent so much.

when did people become so weird about friends venting to each other?

www.theatlantic.com/family/2026/...

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1 year ago

You alright man? I keep seeing small damage numbers coming off you

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2 months ago
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She’s taken physical form for edits

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3 months ago

Caught Stealing is A Simple Favor for men

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3 months ago
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The 67 Most Stylish People of 2025

seeing a few fashion diapers on this list, I'm just saying... www.nytimes.com/2025/12/07/s...

www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...

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3 months ago

waxahatchee
the mountain goats
bleachers
death cab for cutie
taylor swift

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3 months ago
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Green Card Interviews End in Handcuffs for Spouses of U.S. Citizens

I need everybody to read this and understand what’s going on. These are spouses of US citizens in the country legally. They have entry clearance and green cards, they’ve passed background checks and have no criminal records. ICE is taking them anyway.

Gift link:

www.nytimes.com/2025/11/26/u...

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3 months ago
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How to Cheat at Conversation A new AI tool promises to improve social interactions but instead makes them worse.

How do you cheat at a conversation? That is the question behind a new AI tool called Cluely, which promises to augment all kinds of communication. But when @julieebeck tried it out, she found that it just makes interactions worse:

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3 months ago

sometimes I think about the day Apple announced the iPad, and everyone in my college dorm laughed and laughed, and said things like "what's next, iTampon?", certain this waystation between phone and computer with a silly name would never be a meaningful cultural force

anyway now we have iPad kids

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3 months ago
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President Piggy This is what consequence-free misogyny looks like.

tough to live to see such times, but at least we still have @sophiegilbert.bsky.social to say the plain simple truth so I feel slightly less insane

www.theatlantic.com/culture/2025...

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3 months ago
meme of Walter fro The Big Lebowski cocking his gun. Text reads: Am I the only one around here who still believes in the value of struggling through the awkwardness of human connection

TLDR:

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3 months ago
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How to Cheat at Conversation A new AI tool promises to improve social interactions but instead makes them worse.

I tried out AI that augments conversation, whose founders want you to "cheat on everything." (If this takes off, one expert told me, "everyone who we meet could be a kind of deepfake")

I can confidently say: when it comes to connection, effort is all there is.

www.theatlantic.com/family/2025/...

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3 months ago
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ginkgo on ginkgo

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