Tsukikage… READ BIO & PINNED!!!

CW : mentions of SA

Just my thoughts as always I’ll always believe victims

if you’ve seen that dose of shite John and his fatphobia, and you want to eliminate his and other people’s bullshit from your feed, here’s a great block list!!(remember, these crathyur travel in packs: they don’t separate their forms o bigotry)

Any apologists to these abusers should see themselves out, good fucking riddance

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Intoxicated people cannot consent. It's a super fucking simple concept. If you don't understand consent, you shouldn't be allowed in our communities. And if you make excuses and enable abusers, you shouldn't be allowed in our communities.

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Don't be like this whiskey dick ass @johnwgant.bsky.social Because if you are like him, you'll get tagged in a post like this saying that his momma should be ashamed she raised a bitch ass son.

Important info! If you’re used to Twitter, BSky treats blocking a bit differently

I need you to know that his bio says he’s a black belt and literally all I can think of is Mac from it’s always sunny in Philadelphia because that’s the level of pathetic we’re dealing with here

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Sooooo we believe victims until it's your boy? We publicly condemn fucked up actions until it's your friend? We'll talk about consent until it's time to show real support?

im sorry but unless you were the drunk victim that got assaulted by that man that night you have no right to interpret his behavior and dismiss the severity of his actions. you’re weird ass fuck if you thought typing that five post thread was gonna sway the public opinion.

Once again reposting Rana’s statement. Read it. Repost it. Centre the truth.

Silence is not consent. Inebriation is not consent. Anything short of an enthusiastic, informed, explicit “yes,” is not consent.

pretending you don’t understand consent is another form of weaponised incompetence.

No because I'm tired of this. "We had a whole night where I could've asked what they were okay with doing while they were sober and we had a lot of over the waist touching and being flirty but I decided I would wait until it's nighttime and we're sharing a bed and I'm sober and they're not to try1/3

"she didn't say no" WELL DID SHE FUCKING SAY YES?? Did you even ASK?? Did you ASK HER AT ALL?? NO?? THEN ITS NOT A YES. YOU FUCKING DICKHEAD.

To all the women and femmes racing to the defence of a man who assaulted a woman: I hope you never have to go through it yourself, and if you do, I hope the women around you are better than you are. I hope they fight for you, even when you chose not to fight for them.

I've mostly been boosting what everyone else has been saying about this situation.

Not because I have nothing to say but because it cuts a little too close to home.

But that 'apology' was fucking pathetic.
You *KNEW* she was too drunk to consent, and you did it anyway.

Do you know what I like to do when I’m with a Partner before I touch them intimately? Ask a very simple question: ‘can I touch you?’. Do you know what I then do when I’m touching them? Again, I ask a very simple question: ‘is this okay?’.

IT’S NOT FUCKING DIFFICULT

Stop fucking defending male VAs in this space when victims have come forward about their abuse and mistreatment.

Of course they’re going to claim it was consensual. Of course they’re not going to take the blame. Of course they’re going to manipulate the situation and put the victims in a bad spot.

if you’re going to continue to work with or support Touch, please unfollow me.

Men using other men’s bullshit to try and sweep their own assholery under the rug will never cease to be both amusing and ridiculous.

We see you, you fucking dimwits. Sit your asses back down and crawl back into the cesspools you came from.

If it is not a clear, and un-inebriated, "Yes", then it is automatically a "No".

You DO NOT "take consent seriously" if they never gave a clear "yes" and you sure as hell don't take it seriously if you say some stupid shit like "Well, they never express discomfort or asked me to stop."

DID THEY ASK YOUR ASS TO DO IT IN THE FIRST PLACE FUCKWIT? NO???? THEN YOU. DON'T. DO. IT!

CLEAR AND ENTHUSIASTIC AND CONTINUING YES, OTHERWISE IT IS A NO

Touch’s half assed apology suggests silence = consent. That is false.

He emphasizes his hurt, his feelings, his reputation, never once acknowledging the impact of his actions. This is PR.

True accountability recognizes and holds the victim’s pain. It does not dilute with the pretense of

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SILENCE IS NOT CONSENT.

people aren’t in their correct state of mind to consent to anything when they’re drunk & it’s fucking common sense to know that.

he was sober. he knew better.

freezing up/disassociating are normal responses to stressful & uncomfortable situations. cut the bullshit.

Sharing to amplify Rana’s experience, community safety, and in case any of my followers are currently involved with this person.

in apologies, you are to acknowledge the hurt you’ve caused and explain the steps you’re going to take towards accountability.

they’re not so you can campaign for your innocence or defend your reputation.

The way I wanna crash out SO BAD on you enabling fucks!

Y'all make a space, which should be safe for people to explore their kinks and sexuality, and then fuck it all up because either y'all try to be predators or are too busy trying to cover for them cause y'all are moots.

Fucking make me SICK!

Also, fyi

If you froze in the moment, if you didn't fight back or yell, it was still a violation and you are still the victiim

like why is it so FUCKING hard for men in this space to respect people and their fucking boundaries???? are your brains made of foreskin, what the fuck is your problem??????