Nancy Friedman

Nancy Friedman

@fritinancy.bsky.social

Name developer, writer, lapsed journalist, bay swimmer. Born in Los Angeles, semi-rooted in Oakland, California. “Queen of retail rabbit holes.” https://fritinancy.substack.com/

2,994 Followers 1,182 Following 3,116 Posts Joined Jul 2023
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quiet descent into apathetic fascism this f*cking country Trump All the pretty shoes I didn't buy!!

From the big board of Post-Its in the theater's basement. The prompt was "Who or what are you haunted by?"

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Paranormal Activity

Inventive, jump-scary production of "Paranormal Activity" at ACT-SF. Encouraging to see lots of younger theatergoers hugely engaged with live theater. Extended through March 22. www.act-sf.org/whats-on/202...

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Vindicated At Last In My Years-Long Loathing Of Grammarly | Defector I first learned about the AI writing assistant Grammarly nearly a decade ago, when their YouTube ads suddenly sprang into ubiquity, clinging to my precious videos like a swarm of spotted lanternflies....

I wrote about a company that had bad vibes from the jump
defector.com/vindicated-a...

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5 hours ago

“I’ve been studying names for almost 25 years now, and I’ve definitely never seen it before" -- Laura Wattenberg, @babynames.bsky.social

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Wordmongers vs Warmongers The Iran excursion...

The commander-in-chief thinks war is an “excursion” because he doesn’t know the meaning of excursion. He also has no schema for war as a five-time draft dodger.

I am also positive that Trump is using the word “excursion” when he means “incursion.”

jesspiper.substack.com/p/wordmonger...

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Andrew O’Hagan · Stay Classy: Mummy’s Favourite With some people, money and sex are the only truths. It’s the ultimate delinquency to believe that gratification...

Farce, tragedy; Andrew, Virginia. (ht @nderringer.bsky.social)

"Trouble was, the Yorks couldn’t stop saying yes to the odd thousand quid here and there, because, like many addicts, they loved the hit of the low-rent encounter, the scaggy thrill of amping it up."
www.lrb.co.uk/the-paper/v4...

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3 days ago

A little offended Grammarly didn't make a sloppelganger of me

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2 days ago
Cardinal Blase J. Cupich, archbishop of Chicago, delivered a powerful “Call to Conscience” on March 7, well worth reading. After seeing an official White House post on Twitter — maybe this one? —  he wrote: “A real war with real death and real suffering being treated like it’s a video game — it’s sickening.” He concluded:

Our government is treating the suffering of the Iranian people as a backdrop for our own entertainment, as if it’s just another piece of content to be swiped through while we’re waiting in line at the grocery store. But, in the end, we lose our humanity when we are thrilled by the destructive power of our military. We become addicted to the “spectacle” of explosions. And the price of this habit is almost unnoticeable, as we become desensitized to the true costs of war. But the longer we remain blind to the terrible consequences of war, the more we are risking the most precious gift God gave us: our humanity.

I saw no coverage from major news organizations, not even the Chicago Tribune.

From the post:

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The war makes it more urgent for journalists to call out Trump’s derangement | Press Watch The commander-in-chief is unfit for duty.

Read @froomkin.bsky.social's important new post:
presswatchers.org/2026/03/the-...

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I see it even in published copy!

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Words of war From "Epic Fury" to "very complete, pretty much."

New from me: Words of war.

ht @joshmankiewicz.bsky.social @brandonfriedman.bsky.social @grantbarrett.com @atrupar.com @galbeckerman.bsky.social @jfallows.bsky.social @parkermolloy.com @carolecadwalla.bsky.social

fritinancy.substack.com/p/words-of-war

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Today alone I encountered:
Reaganmaxxing
Eyebrowmaxxing
Grouchomaxxing
Fibermaxxing

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@everywordmaxxing.bsky.social

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From The New Yorker: "American, or 'concise,' crosswords are typically exercises in trivia more so [sic] than sit."

Irritant of the day: the intrusion of "so" in constructions like this one. (Even more irritating when spelled "moreso.") Source: @newyorker.com

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A New Chapter for Bluesky - Bluesky After several intense and incredible years building Bluesky from the ground up, I've decided to step back as CEO and transition to a new role as Bluesky's Chief Innovation Officer.

Jay Graber is stepping down as CEO of Bluesky to “transition to a new role as Bluesky’s Chief Innovation Officer”. And they’re looking for a new permanent CEO. [bsky.social]

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Grammarly declined my request to interview CEO Shishir Mehrotra today. But it told me that in response to criticisms, it will allow experts to opt out of the feature by emailing expertoptout@superhuman.com.

The company gave me this statement over email:

We’ve heard the feedback about this tool and appreciate the engagement from those who have taken the time to raise thoughtful questions about the functionality and the experts surfaced. We agree that the product experience can be improved for both users and experts. The agent was designed to help users discover influential perspectives and scholarship that add value to their work. We want the people behind those perspectives to have greater control over whether their name is used, while providing new ways for influential voices to reach new audiences. Our goal is to improve Expert Review to deliver this outcome.

NEWS: Grammarly tells me it will let "experts" like me opt out of having their names used against their will and for no compensation as part of its "expert review" feature www.platformer.news/grammarly-ex...

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3 days ago

Mission Accompl—ish is right there.

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3 days ago

It's in Kings Canyon NP in case you want to pay your disrespects.

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Camels at beauty pageant disqualified after using hump-plumping injectables Camel owners had used injections to enhance the camel’s lips, dermal fillers around their noses and silicone wax to enlarge the humps

Humps: fake
Headline: real

(ht @paulisci.bsky.social)

www.the-independent.com/life-style/c...

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4 days ago
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What Do You Do and What Do You Make? Conversations with AI engineers, fashion Substackers, and weed clerks about what they brought in last year.

This is fascinating stuff. I wish someone -- @sfstandard.com? -- would replicate it for San Francisco/Bay Area.

(The "fashion Substacker" who makes $127K/year from subscriptions? I clearly picked the wrong specialty.)

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4 days ago

A song for the ages, and for all of us Nancys.

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America built the greatest cultural machine in history. Then quit. Here's what filled the vacuum. How America built the most powerful cultural influence operation in history, proved it worked, and handed the syllabus to Korea, Japan, and China.

"America sent Dizzy Gillespie to Iran in 1956 because a diplomat figured out that a jazz musician did more than a tank. Korea sent BTS to the UN 65 years later for exactly the same reason." - @rbrancatelli.bsky.social

readfoundobject.substack.com/p/the-war-no...

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Word of the week: Guess A presidential shrug. A surprisingly potent brand name.

"No one wants to hear 'I guess' from a surgeon, a wilderness guide, or anyone with the power to inflict widespread death and destruction. It is uncertain at best, uncaring at worst."

fritinancy.substack.com/p/word-of-th...

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6 days ago

This is the Platonic ideal of a social media exchange, never again to be equaled or even attempted:

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Boston Ballet's Response to Timothée Chalamet YouTube video by Boston Ballet

Love this. Now do it for Opera!
m.youtube.com/shorts/Urc5p...

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6 days ago

It's a great car, so of course Honda discontinued it.

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2018 Honda Clarity plug-in hybrid. ~52 miles on electric. ~350 miles total.

I last bought gas in October 2025, when I drove from the Bay Area to L.A. and back.

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This is a real video from the official White House account on a war that is currently killing people. I don’t know how the US is going to come back from this.
The post was “JUSTICE THE AMERICAN WAY. 🇺🇸 🔥”

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a man in a top hat stands next to a child and says " goggles on please " Alt: Mike TV from Willy Wonka and the chocolate factory

It makes so much sense to put ALL these villains on TV, non-stop, for ongoing viral-video interrogations—to get them to slip up, to say something that pisses him off, to look weak— because the only thing that matters to this guy is what happens on the tube

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