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BLM. Teaching Prof., Northeastern. Reviewer @nytbooks @washpost @BostonGlobe, elsewhere. he/him Newsletter at https://sebastianstockman.substack.com/

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This would be funny if it wasn't posted by the only Democrat governor who works with ICE

04.03.2026 20:24 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m sorry for your loss. And I agree

04.03.2026 20:26 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

At #AWP26, I’m most looking forward to brutally framemogging @tmcallister.bsky.social at the @barrelhouse.bsky.social booth.

04.03.2026 20:19 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Why I Go to AWP An Apologia, Part I

On the train to #AWP26 in Baltimore. Wrote last year about why, despite its silliness, overwhelm, and blind spots, I love this dumb, beautiful gathering.

open.substack.com/pub/sebastia...

04.03.2026 20:17 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

My friend's husband died unexpectedly last year and he said something that struck me. I wished I could ease his pain and he said, basically, "no thank you, that pain is *mine* and i want it as a memento of our love".

Not even something as abstract as being human. That grief is the mark of love.

04.03.2026 18:01 β€” πŸ‘ 26    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

He never saw the guy coming from his right

04.03.2026 17:10 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

So many issues with this.
First: What do these people get out of being alive? You can't have a meaningful experience with someone you loved like this. It's monstrous to suggest otherwise.
It's inhuman; tech's emotional predation on grief and separation anxiety is a best case scenario here.

04.03.2026 15:53 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

acknowledging that this oversimplifies things a bit, but:

Barack Obama would not have become president if not for the fact that he opposed Bush's reckless war and Hillary Clinton supported it. That simple fact was important enough to enough people to swing the primary.

03.03.2026 16:18 β€” πŸ‘ 168    πŸ” 24    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

Enshittification of a wake??

04.03.2026 15:18 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

*Betteridge's Law bursts into flames*

04.03.2026 13:45 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The possible price of loving someone is having to grieve them eventually and AI cannot stop that. It cannot soften the blow or fill a void and it is quite frankly disrespectful and weird to try

03.03.2026 17:17 β€” πŸ‘ 590    πŸ” 135    πŸ’¬ 25    πŸ“Œ 5

As I was saying: A great night to consider running for office.

04.03.2026 02:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1261    πŸ” 265    πŸ’¬ 23    πŸ“Œ 23

No John, that’s what he wants!

04.03.2026 04:07 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

When we talk about Baby Boomers not getting off the stage: In 1997, the US president was born in 1946.

In 2007, the US president was born in 1946.

In 2017, the US president was born in 1946.

And next year in 2027? The US president will have been born in 1946.

03.03.2026 20:10 β€” πŸ‘ 10268    πŸ” 3125    πŸ’¬ 190    πŸ“Œ 238

Maybe incumbent Dems will look at the primary results tonight and actually … say no to the Pentagon?

Maybe I’ll win the Powerball.

04.03.2026 04:01 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

NOT JUST THIS:

Two other Democratic lawmakers in North Carolina who sided with the GOP to overturn vetoes of major bills (e.g. anti-trans legislation) are also losing in their primaries so far to progressive challengers.

This could be a major night in NC.

04.03.2026 01:48 β€” πŸ‘ 5007    πŸ” 798    πŸ’¬ 33    πŸ“Œ 136
Can AI ’cure’ grief?  - BBC
YouTube video by BBC Can AI ’cure’ grief? - BBC

A) No, and more importantly, B) β€œcuring” grief isn’t a goal if you’re interested in what it means to be human.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmQt...

03.03.2026 15:21 β€” πŸ‘ 114    πŸ” 18    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 40

orson welles was told that he should give his father an ultimatum: stop drinking or i won't see you anymore. he did. his father died soon after. he went to his grave thinking it was his fault. i guess i'm saying, grief is a part of life. you can't avoid it any more than you can dodge raindrops.

04.03.2026 02:01 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm grieving for my son & I miss him so very much, but I love him & I don't want it 'cured' (like bacon is cured, or leather?), I want it respected. Grief is sacred, it's deep, personal & truly human. You can't fight it, or wall if off, or pretend it away without cutting out your own heart

04.03.2026 01:24 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

There's a quote I adore (and know too well) that goes: "What is grief, if not love persevering". If you grieve, you loved! Why would you want to "cure" love? You'd only cure it by lobotomizing yourself until you feel nothing at all anymore, and at that point, why even be alive? It's so ghoulish.

04.03.2026 01:01 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Thom Tillis is threatening to use procedural moves to shut down every Senate committe he's involved in if Kristi Noem does not respond to his inquiry

This is something the Democrats could have done at any point during the last 14 months, but chose not to

03.03.2026 23:38 β€” πŸ‘ 1237    πŸ” 294    πŸ’¬ 25    πŸ“Œ 10

Can Microwaves solve race relations? Can a panini press fix my marriage?

04.03.2026 00:53 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Why are people so afraid of experiencing the full range of their humanity?

04.03.2026 00:48 β€” πŸ‘ 24    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Jet Fuel Review
11 mutuals

Jet Fuel Review 11 mutuals

Do you know what happens when you put this next to Steel Beams Quarterly?

Nothing.

#AWP26

03.03.2026 17:59 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s only been tried once!

03.03.2026 23:10 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Can keeping your mother's corpse in the motel basement and dressing up as her in order to murder guests 'cure' grief?

03.03.2026 22:12 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Somewhere on the list of crimes of the AI industry is making me respect Star Trek V more.

"They're the things we carry with us, the things that make us who we are. If we lose them, we lose ourselves. I don't want my pain taken away! I need my pain!"

03.03.2026 18:01 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Bad Dudes meme reading

THE PRESIDENT IS HAVING A PSYCHOTIC BREAK

ARE YOU A BAD ENOUGH DUDE TO 5150 THE PRESIDENT

Bad Dudes meme reading THE PRESIDENT IS HAVING A PSYCHOTIC BREAK ARE YOU A BAD ENOUGH DUDE TO 5150 THE PRESIDENT

πŸ’ͺ

03.03.2026 17:58 β€” πŸ‘ 154    πŸ” 14    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 1
Jet Fuel Review
11 mutuals

Jet Fuel Review 11 mutuals

Do you know what happens when you put this next to Steel Beams Quarterly?

Nothing.

#AWP26

03.03.2026 17:59 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0