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Helping Your Neurodivergent Child Feel Safe When the World Feels Scary Join Nextdoor, an app for neighborhoods where you can get local tips, buy and sell items, and more

The world is feeling very heavy these days. Our children can carry the brunt of it. When things feel big and scary, we can help our children cope. Check out my latest blog talking about what to do when difficult things happen in the world and it does not feel safe.

29.09.2025 19:50 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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When the Internet Is Too Loudβ€”and You're Already at Capacity Join Nextdoor, an app for neighborhoods where you can get local tips, buy and sell items, and more

Is your digital life getting the best of you as you struggle to manage the complexities of your twice exceptional child? If so, a digital detox may be the best plan. Check out my latest blog post on turning down the volume on the internet.

23.09.2025 23:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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What If Your Inner Voice Could Feel More Like Home? Join Nextdoor, an app for neighborhoods where you can get local tips, buy and sell items, and more

Find your way back to yourself with a positive, cognitive rewire. To learn more, read my latest blog on the power of affirmations (rewires). We believe what we tell ourselves.

15.09.2025 23:30 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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When Helping Your Child With ADHD Starts to Shine a Light on You, Too Join Nextdoor, an app for neighborhoods where you can get local tips, buy and sell items, and more

As you get help for your child with ADHD, have you started to wonder about yourself? This is very common in my work. Check out my latest blog on getting diagnosed late in life with ADHD.

08.09.2025 23:17 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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As a therapist, a mom, and someone who knows how messy and beautiful family life can be, I created Welcome Home Family Therapy to be just thatβ€”a place where families can find their way back home to ea... Join your neighborhood | Nextdoor

Family therapy can help you find your way home. If you are struggling to feel welcome, or be welcoming to those close to you, there is help. Check out my latest blog on the benefits of family therapy.

01.09.2025 18:19 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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In my work with parents, I’ve learned that β€œwelcome home” isn’t just about what happens under your roofβ€”it’s about the larger family system your children grow up in. Join Nextdoor, an app for neighborhoods where you can get local tips, buy and sell items, and more

Are you struggling in your extended family relationships? Many families are. Check out my latest blog post for a path to healing.

25.08.2025 23:41 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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When Separation Anxiety Takes Over When Separation Anxiety Takes Over If you’ve ever tried to leave your child at preschool only to peel them off your leg while they sob, you know how heartbreaking and exhausting separation anxiety can...

Separation anxiety is a tough one as parents. It is understandable to frustrated and upset. To get at the root of the challenge, we need to see how your child is perceiving lack of connection as a treat of danger. Check out my latest blog to see how would approach this with you and your child.

17.08.2025 19:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Parenting Preschool & School-Aged Kids Can Leave You Drainedβ€”Here’s Why Parenting Preschool & School-Aged Kids Can Leave You Drainedβ€”Here’s Why If you have a child between 3 and 9, you may have noticed how quickly joy can turn into stress. The school drop-off tears, the e...

Struggling in the parenting department with your young child? You do not have to go it alone. Check out my blog on how we can help heal that relationship.

11.08.2025 18:43 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Parenting a preteen (ages 9–13) can feel like learning a whole new language. Parenting a preteen (ages 9–13) can feel like learning a whole new language. I’ve spent over 30 years helping parents navigate these tricky β€œin-between” yearsβ€”and I’ve lived it myself as a parent of t...

Are you the stress-out, struggling parent of an elementary or junior high student? Then check out my latest blog on how I can help bring healing and connection to your relationship.

04.08.2025 18:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
As a parent and family therapist, I understand how challenging it can be when your child experiences sudden bursts of fear and anxiety. As a parent and family therapist, I understand how challenging it can be when your child experiences sudden bursts of fear and anxiety. You might feel powerless or unsure of how to help, especially if...

Struggling with panic attacks from your child? There is help. Check out my newest blog on managing the challenge.

28.07.2025 18:25 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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When You Feel Shut Down Instead of Showing Up When You Feel Shut Down Instead of Showing Up Sometimes, parenting gets so overwhelming your body just... checks out. You go quiet, shut down, maybe even feel numb or disconnected. Robyn Gobbel calls ...

Struggling with parenting from your Possum Pathway? Check out my latest blog on handling this survival mode.

22.07.2025 00:45 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
When OCD Disrupts the Bond with Your Child When OCD Disrupts the Bond with Your Child As a therapist and a recovering strict parent myself, I understand how OCD can quietly shape the parent-child relationship. You might be doing everything you...

If you are struggling with the impact of OCD on your relationship with your child, there is help. Check out my blog to see how we can work together to bring more safety into your nervous system and your connection to your child.

16.07.2025 00:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Parenting a sensitive, strong-willed, or neurodivergent child can leave you feeling completely worn down.

Parents' feelings matter. Let's talk about it.

06.07.2025 15:28 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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There is no such thing as a bad child.

Check out my new blog on changing your parenting lens to better see your brilliant child.

30.06.2025 23:53 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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When your child is having a hard time, chances areβ€”you are too.

Let's all work to stay grounded during these difficult times.

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As a recovering strict parent, I had to learn this the hard way: sometimes the connection I was craving with my child was the very thing that overwhelmed their nervous system.

When Connection is Scary

18.06.2025 00:39 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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S. Abigail McCarrel: Welcome Home Family Therapy When you're parenting a child with big feelings or baffling behaviorsβ€”especially one who's neurodivergent, gifted, or has a trauma historyβ€”it’s easy to feel worn thin. You’re doing your best, but the....

What if your "attention-seeking" child is simply needing to connect?

09.06.2025 22:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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When I first became a parent, I thought my job was to stop the crying.

My latest parenting blog, for your reading pleasure.

02.06.2025 23:52 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I used to think that being a good parent meant being firm, consistent, and in control at all times.

Life of a recovering strict parent and child therapist.

26.05.2025 03:09 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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As parents, we often feel like we’re on a constant quest to connect with our childrenβ€”especially when their behavior feels distant or overwhelming. As parents, we often feel like we’re on a constant quest to connect with our childrenβ€”especially when their behavior feels distant or overwhelming. It’s exhausting when your efforts to understand them...

Safety is more important than ever now. Check out my post about creating safety in your family.

12.05.2025 22:59 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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As a therapist and a recovering strict parent, this quote speaks directly to what I’ve come to understand about the nervous system.

Check out my latest blog on the true meaning of your child's meltdown.

05.05.2025 22:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I’ve lived this truth, both as a mom and as a therapist walking alongside other parents. I’ve lived this truth, both as a mom and as a therapist walking alongside other parents. Moms are only as happy as our unhappiest child. When our child hurts, we hurt. When they’re struggling, we feel...

Check out my latest blog on how moms are doing when they have struggling children.

30.04.2025 01:07 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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CIVIC SUNDAYS -TRUTH BOMB BRIEFING WITH JOHANNA SIEGMANN Β· Civic Sundays Civic Sundays LA is having a Truth Bomb Briefing, led by Johanna Siegmann, previewing a new way of communicating that meets the moment. This is a virtual event and will be held over Zoom on alternati...

I'm attending Civic Sundays's event, β€œCIVIC SUNDAYS -TRUTH BOMB BRIEFING WITH JOHANNA SIEGMANN” - sign up now to join me! www.mobilize.us/civicsundays...

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As a recovering strict parent and longtime therapist, I used to think my child’s outburstsβ€”or their total shutdownsβ€”were just β€œbad behavior.

Check out my new post on parenting your child's nervous system.

21.04.2025 18:36 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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After thirty years as a therapistβ€”and just as many as a recovering strict parentβ€”I can tell you, this quote rings deeply true.

Check out my new blog post on the healing power of connection.

14.04.2025 17:22 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Focusing on discipline and structure felt like the right way to ensure my children followed the rules and learned right from wrong.
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Check out my new post on being a recovering, strict parent.

17.03.2025 22:38 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Attuning to the body is a skill that can be developed from a young age.

Helping children with regulation in my latest blog.

11.03.2025 01:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Who are we to say that anyone's reaction is invalid?

Check out my new blog post on seeing your authentic child.

25.02.2025 00:58 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Did you feel seen by your parents as a child, really seen for the most precious human being that you are?

Check out my latest post about really knowing your child.

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