She Bop

Guide to Stainless Steel Toys — Shebop While most of the toys we carry at She Bop are made from silicone and ABS plastic, there are a number of other body-safe materials we have in the shop that pique the interest of our customers. One of…

Thinking about exploring temperature play? Start with a glass or metal toy that can be warmed in water or cooled in the fridge—never the freezer! #Kinktober

Rope Safety 101: Never use craft rope! Always have safety shears within reach. Respect the nerves and blood flow. #Kinktober #Shibari #Bondage

Aftercare isn't optional, it's essential. Whether it's cuddles, water, a snack, or quiet conversation, planning for aftercare is part of planning the scene. #Kinktober #Aftercare

Ever wondered about the difference between a flogger and a paddle? It's all about thud vs. sting! We're breaking down sensation play basics all month long. #Kinktober

#KinktoberTip: Before trying any new scene, have a conversation about hard limits, soft limits, and a safe word. Green/Yellow/Red is a classic for a reason! 🟢🟡🔴

To all the Doms: Your aftercare is non-negotiable. Your sub's trust is your most valuable asset. Protect it fiercely.

Kinktober was designed to be educational, playful, inclusive, and engaging. The goal is to celebrate exploration in a safe, consensual, and fun way.

Happy #Kinktober! 🎃 This month is all about exploration, and that always starts with two things: Consent and Communication. Let's keep it safe, sane, and consensual!

Dame Dip Simple, sleek, and approachable.

This little device has been flying off our shelves! The Dame Dip 2 is perfect for solo play or adding a buzz to partnered fun. Come feel the magic! ✨

Aging is a natural part of life, and pleasure doesn't have an expiration date. We have products perfect for exploring new sensations at any age.

Masturbation isn't a substitute for partnered sex; it's a vital practice of self-love and understanding your own body. It's fundamental.

Queer-owned and queer-friendly. We see you, we support you, and we’re here to help you find exactly what brings you joy. 🌈

Celebrating you exactly as you are today. Your body is an instrument of pleasure, not something to be fixed.

Pleasure has no gender, no orientation, and no "right" way to look. Our store is a safe, welcoming space for EVERY body and every story. #AllAreWelcome

Womanizer Enhance Womanizer air technology + We-Vibe vibrational motor = pure heaven!

Tired of loud toys? The Womanizer Enhance is famously quiet. You could use it in a library (but maybe don't). 🤫 #DiscreetDesign

Self-care isn't just face masks and bubble baths. Sometimes, it's honoring your own desires and taking time for self-exploration. You deserve it.

Exploring sensation play? Start with a feather, then maybe a silk scarf, then a flogger. It's all about building anticipation and communicating every step of the way. #KinkFriendly

Not all bodies are the same, and neither are sex toys!

Lube 101: Slippery When Wet — Shebop Slick, wet, and wonderful — lubricant is a sexual accessory that should always be kept close at hand. Lube makes all sex acts frictionless and more fun and is absolutely essential for anal sex (the…

Let's talk lube ingredients! We're proud to carry brands that avoid parabens, glycerin, and glycol. Your body deserves the good stuff. #BodySafe #CleanLube

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A true Dom's most important tool isn't a flogger; it's patience. But the flogger is a very close second.

Communication is the best lubricant. 💬 Talking to your partner(s) about desires and boundaries can feel awkward, but it’s a skill that gets easier with practice. Start with "I feel..."

Mythbuster Monday: "Vibrators can desensitize you." FALSE! When used responsibly, they simply help you learn what you like. It's about exploration, not limitation.

Anal cleanliness tip:
Showering beforehand helps, but the rectum isn’t sterile. A quick external wash is fine—avoid harsh douching, which can irritate. If bit of a mess happens, it’s normal—just clean up and carry on!

Sex doesn’t have to end with an orgasm. Intimacy, connection, and exploration are just as valuable. 🌙

Orgasm equality matters. If pleasure is one-sided, it’s time for a conversation. Everyone deserves to feel good. 💦 #FairPlay

Fantasy is freedom. Your turn-ons are valid, as long as they’re safe, consensual, and bring you joy. There's no harm in having dirty thoughts.

You deserve pleasure, no matter your age, gender, or relationship status.

Regular gyno check-ups, STI testing, and safer sex practices are acts of self-love. 🩺

Masturbation is healthy, natural, and a great way to learn what you love. Don't let anyone make you feel ashamed for knowing how to feel good.

There’s no "normal" when it comes to desire. Your libido is unique to you—own it without shame. 💫