M Delphine •NYC

more or less true for all of us focused on building our brands

There’s also an argument to make about how I also now exist or am marketed to a “certain” type of client whereas before I had a range and now the interest is coming from a select group who almost want to strip away the edge. That’s a convo for another day but will share images and website soon 💋

I remember when I first started my self esteem was very low so I didn’t have fun with the job and was also not fully into my own identity and now that I’m having fun with the job (because I no longer have low self-esteem) I gotta change a lot about me to connect with the clients who would want me.

About to take some new photos next week. One thing about coming back is the reminder that in order to be more visible I gotta lose the braids 🙄. It’s all good but it’s a weird thing to be able to catch as much tail as I do in my normie life to have to change so much to be back in the biz.

I still exist, I just hate this app ☹️ and often forget about it. I’m thinking of creating a site to offer a better way to reach me (I also really want to take people through the fall NYC art fairs and should start planning now) but I’m not sure yet. Here’s a recent somewhat naughty proof of life 😘

Everybody should get a little bisexual once in a while. As a treat

climate change isn't real but at least 3 tornados landed in the city of pittsburgh last summer and the city was under a tornado watch until 5:30 pm today

Art fair season is here and has gobbled up my schedule. Went to AIP*AD and saw some incredible gems that I am now lusting after, specifically the work of Boris Gaberscik.

I love Paris so much and visiting the old red light districts are always a treat. The Musée D’Orsay has Edward’s love chair that he had built for his visits to the brothels there.

Thinking about getting these boots 👀

Which one of you pervs is gonna book me for a session?

In my narrative film about a dominatrix, this was the non negotiable with me and the male cast member that he immediately strip upon entering the hotel room while the domme remained clothed. Some actors wanted to go to the underwear but to me that detail is what pushed the scene into “reality.”

I only brought my leather bikini for this trip …

Would love to make a fun date taking a client through this art fair.

www.aipad.com/show

Bataille’s Eroticism is great. I teach it to my students whenever I get the chance. I found it helpful with rethinking convos around consent and sexuality.

Anais Nin (Delta of Venus)
George Bataille (The story of an eye)
Kathy Acker (Pussy King of the Pirates)
Gary Indiana (I Can Give You Anything but Love)

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The “sexually suggestive” content moderators on here are wild! This app is better than the nazi one for algo but is the most restrictive in terms what images I can post. Mind you, all the images I have ever showed have been fully clothed and not suggestive at all; beyond annoyed.

Me on set last week, making work for a new project 👀

Also NYC art fairs are coming up, message me if you’ve ever wanted to go one.

This is happening ✨TONIGHT✨ and there’s only a few tickets left! Get them before they’re gone: bit.ly/sexdrive2

Dying for someone to appreciate my vintage lingerie collection …

so many spam/phishing messages …

I would say that my biggest draw for getting back in has been art. I have so much access to art fairs and navigating how those gated spaces work. I know so many people who want to collect but are afraid & feel that making a date out of going to a fair is fun/stress-free way to do it.

breaking back in after a hiatus has been an interesting experience; I’m fortunate I can invest in what it takes to become visible to a degree and that I can wait it out but the difference is alarming. When I first started I had terrible images with limited media presence and that was all I need.

I’m taking new photos next week but I definitely feel that this set of images did not get the love/flirty messages that they are deserving of.

What does it mean to be “good at sex”? The things that make a person good at sex often have much more to do with soft skills, not hard ones (pun intended).

“Being ‘good at sex’ is not a matter of technique or physical prowess, it’s a matter of connection — of being present with and for another person.” This week in my Pittsburgh City Paper column Pillow Talk, I talk about what it takes to be “good at sex.”

www.pghcitypaper.com/columns/what...

Re-watching True Detective

1000% this.

PSA for messaging me: address me by name, tell me about yourself (bonus points for telling me who your favorite artist or architect is), and tell me what drew you to me. That’s just standard decorum for meeting new consultants.

This book of poetry has stayed with me for the past few months, wish I knew more about the author/more information about her was publicly available.