Mistrix Salem X || NYC’s Shibari Siren

If any creators need a walkthrough of Fansly’s interface, I’m happy to hop on a Signal call and give a rundown. It was a learning curve for me so I want to offer all that I currently know. 💕

There's no conflict between creativity and solid technical skills in BDSM scenes. Having a solid skill base allows you to play safely and bring more of your creative ideas to life.

Working on a "what to expect for your first suspension" guide for my substack! What are things you wish you knew before you bottomed for your first suspension? And if you've never done it, what questions do you have about the process and hiring a provider for it?

You don't walk into a jewelry store and ask for something for free, you respect that it's expensive and if you can't afford it you move on. The store is for buying things. Similarly, my work socials/website are for work. If you can't afford Me or can't stand the idea of paying for play, move on.

It just doesn't make sense to think that I would be out here consistently expending my resources to get very little or nothing in return? It's hard enough keeping up physically w paid sessions and my personal rope practice. You want me to add charity rope? This is not a public service lol

On the flip side, if I tie someone for free... they get the benefit of experiencing rope suspension without doing the usual required steps of either building a relationship w me or paying me. An experience worth hundreds at basically no cost.

It's about reciprocity. It's about cost/benefit. Tying a stranger does not really benefit me—it's emotionally pretty unfulfilling. But I spent money traveling there, expended my physical & emotional energy, lost hours I could've spent doing something fulfilling. So I'm at a net negative

Its often white queer and trans folks who do this. Lol just cause we have shared identities, does not mean I want to be your friend or play partner.... especially if you can't respect that this is my job 😇

When a provider posts a tour or incall availability, imo you should not be asking for any of that time for free. I had a complete stranger DM me about wanting to connect when I posted a tour once and it was so weird—if you wanna connect, book me.

It's so interesting how I post when I'm looking for a rope bottom for content or a class or something and it's crickets in my inbox, but I post my session availability and suddenly everyone comes out of the woodworks wanting to tie for fun/collab

gonna start sending this to clients who are running late

I'm looking to expand my bondage toolkit and am ISO a fan of my rope work to sponsor a hashira lesson. If you're an experienced rope bottom I'll even consider having you bottom for it...

Email me at salemthesadist@proton.me if that's you :)

Rider, a heavily tattooed trans man, takes a selfie as he stands up. He’s wearing a black jock strap. The photo has a black and white edit.

If I’m you’re #mcm, I wanna know 😏

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I think it's straightforward, shopping for furniture is not an activity I enjoy lol.

I haaaaate shopping for furniture so much but I'm too picky to offload that labor lol.

someone's making a lovely impression more than a month out from our first session...

I will echo something I've long heard now that I've finally experienced it: after chastity training, My subs have only become more attentive and eager to please Me. They move with more clarity, and our dynamics have deepened considerably.

I love the cold weather cause I get to start pulling office siren looks.... turtlenecks, mini skirts, nylons. I'm about to be the sultry, sensually dominant secretary of your dreams 🫦

Finally got myself a leather coat :') Reimburse me and I'll think of it as a gift from you...

An absolutely lethal lip combo that I wore to teach a lesson the other day...

I want a reality show where a Domme
plays matchmaker for their subs

Love a black Canadian tux moment. Most of my denim is black anyways

I dressed like this for our session and he said I looked "outrageous.... in the best way"

Strappado shenanigans at the rope jam with there.was.time.at.last (IG)

#shibari #rope #bondage #kinbaku #suspension #strappado

Yearning to leave lipstick prints all over a bound, helpless cutie

Mistrix Salem X teaching rope 101 at Hit Me Up in the summer.

I've been delighted with so many chances to teach rope in group, one-on-one, & informal settings lately and I'm so grateful. Besides just being a blast, I learn something every time, and I find new reasons to love this craft!! 🖤

Daydreaming about the pork bun I had the other day... y'all ever wish you could experience a food for the first time again? If so, what food? lol

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It's split lip szn, y'all stay safe out there 😩 It happens to even the most moisturized among us