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On this day in 2014 I helped plan a Midsummer Night's Masquerade for teens (as a teen myself) and even wrote a murder mystery for it. I should see if I can find that script; it was a ton of fun to do! I also want to try to find a way to plan such events for my community now. We need that, I think.

Talk about The Wire, Sopranos, Game of Thrones all you want, but the greatest US television program ever made is Sesame Street. It's not even close. 50+ years of treating kids across class, ethnicity, religion not as mini-consumers...but as citizens with a stake in this world.

#QuoteOfTheDay
(to the tune of the lucky charms jingle) "They're tragically delicious!"

Honestly the only reason I still use Snapchat is for my grandma's snaps. Getting pictures of her garden or her nature walks or other family members she's visiting is exactly the dose of positivity I need these days. Just got a snap from her that was just a photo of a weird strawberry. I love her.

My partner and I have also started using tone tags out loud, inspired by an online friend/romantic interest of mine who regularly uses them. So we'll say things like "I'm such a weirdo. Positive." or "I'm mad at you for being right. Lighthearted." We're autistic and shit with tone so it helps.

Patting myself on the back for this thought: "Wow, I am a massive weirdo. I must be an absolute delight to the right people."

The answer is yes holy shit

😭

If I say the c word here will it attract bots like Twitter does

If I'm going to be a nursery school teacher, I should have nursery school teacher earrings. Handmade by carterjames.co!

Anyway, I was thinking of this because I'm going through my closet. I gained a lot of weight this past year, and I expect to lose some of it in the next year or so. Anything I can *reasonably* see myself fitting into by then is going in storage. Anything I can't is getting donated.

I was holding myself to a body standard that is possible for some people, but is impossible for me without doing severe damage to myself. I refused to accept the impossibility of it. Surely I can do everything able people can do...internalized ableism was harder to unpack than the ED.

eating disorder cw

6ish years into recovery, Ive gained such insight. Between medication, PCOS, and mobility issues, the only way to be the size I had been was to starve myself. A lot of recovery was accepting that. It's an intersection of ED and ableism that doesn't get touched on a lot if at all.

#QuoteOfTheDay

"I just have to defeat Algore."
"AL GORE???"

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I'm going to start bringing my no-context #QuoteOfTheDay posting from FB to Bluesky. Today's:

"Don't go in the fire, you'll die!"
"Ooooh, put me in the fire, I wanna die!"

I also have two larps in the next month and a lot of prep to do for both. Jeez.

I got a job as a subsitiute preschool teacher, I'm volunteering with an organization that does free ESL classes, and I'm acting in a performance that benefits domestic abuse survivors. It feels good to be busy. Overwhelming, but good.

Frightened Rabbit and We Were Promised Jetpacks. Do Not Separate Them (meme reference). If you want to go deeper, and Owl John in there too.

Autistic masking culture is saying something that's not meant to be a joke, and then when everyone laughs, pretending your intention was to be funny the whole time.

A goth and a genderqueer walk into a speakeasy... (@ Edgar Allan Poe Speakeasy)

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It finally happened to me.
A transphobe told me I look like a man.
Like, thanks, I appreciate it!

How does one get started with #HEMA? Asking for a friend (genuinely). Insights into the Milwaukee WI area HEMA scene would be appreciated as well.

(I'm not cis but) Eastern PA Trans Equity Project patransequity.org support, education, and financial assistance for trans folks in eastern and central Pennsylvania. One of the big things they do is name change assistance!

Today in therapy I accidentally combined executive dysfunction (what I normally say) and executive order (what I was trying to say) and coined "Trump's executive disorders."

It's a good day to sign up for a @queerliblib.bsky.social account.

do you need to drink water, take meds, get up and piss, eat something, or stretch

At the end of the day, we still have joy and love, y'know? It's important to hold onto that.

i can’t do anything about all of this today but i can brush my teeth and take my multivitamins and eat some breakfast.