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@madhmstr.bsky.social

β€œDon't waste hate on pink geranium.” Professional aunt. Trans rights are human rights. Posts about black cats, picture books, and random other stuff. 5th generation Pākehā Aucklander, of UK heritage.

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I Shouldn’t Have to Dehumanize My Son to Get Him Support Instead of focusing on the challenges facing disabled people, we should emphasize goals.

I wrote about this a few years back

www.thenation.com/article/soci...

11.08.2025 19:28 β€” πŸ‘ 53    πŸ” 8    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

Mum has regressed. It's like the last 4 months of therapy and recovery after her stroke didn't happen.
She told us she was ready to go today.
We're back to the confusion and not making sense at times.
But, sometimes, she's here and lucid.

11.08.2025 10:16 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 0

Over on Reddit someone is asking for science fiction for their precocious young reader and the people there are suggesting books that were old when that kid's grandparents were the same age as the kid, for fuck's sake if you didn't know any SF books from this millennium maybe sit this question out

11.08.2025 03:15 β€” πŸ‘ 4431    πŸ” 305    πŸ’¬ 483    πŸ“Œ 196

I will be paying an extra $1800 a year for my Hybrid Subaru...

if I go back to my old Subaru which is dying & hideously inefficient I'll SAVE $500 a year.

This is FUCKED in the head

11.08.2025 09:49 β€” πŸ‘ 31    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
Book cover for I Am Raven by Alastair Chisholm

Book cover for I Am Raven by Alastair Chisholm

Book cover for North and the Only One by Vashti Hardy

Book cover for North and the Only One by Vashti Hardy

Book cover for Scrap by Guy Bass

Book cover for Scrap by Guy Bass

Book cover for Mega Robo Bros: Power Up by Neill Cameron

Book cover for Mega Robo Bros: Power Up by Neill Cameron

Following on from this week’s sci-fi chat from @jacquisydney.bsky.social and @pgbellwriter.bsky.social, what are your #KidsBooksFriday sci-fi recommendations? We’re lucky to have the phenomenal @alastairc.com leading the charge and I’ve read a few other brilliant examples lately. #KidLitUK #KidLit

11.07.2025 06:40 β€” πŸ‘ 40    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 27    πŸ“Œ 6

House in the Cerulean Sea is a wonderful comfort read xoxo.
More Inventing the Renaissance for me.

11.08.2025 09:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Bah. Demanding people read half-century-old work as a purity test for genre membership is a fine way to kill the genre dead.

I wrote about such nonsense here;

whatever.scalzi.com/2020/08/07/o...

11.08.2025 03:34 β€” πŸ‘ 2411    πŸ” 314    πŸ’¬ 186    πŸ“Œ 71
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I found this AI gem earlier today.

10.08.2025 23:25 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Thanks google AI but I meant to type β€œshut”…

10.08.2025 19:09 β€” πŸ‘ 2123    πŸ” 322    πŸ’¬ 93    πŸ“Œ 14

... oh my god lmao

11.08.2025 08:46 β€” πŸ‘ 25    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Multiple times!

11.08.2025 06:03 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Do you ever just rewatch the final lineout of the Rugby World Cup 2021, played in 2022? No?

You really should. It’s one of the best moments of my life.

11.08.2025 05:46 β€” πŸ‘ 62    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 1

If I use my work email - you'll have it. And, it is inappropriate for me to use the form you used, to send such a reply.
If I use my personal email - you'll have it.

And, you wonder why I cut ties years ago.

11.08.2025 04:27 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

'Dear' Person Who Made Me Get an Unlisted Phone Number
Just because I left my house when you arrived this morning, wasn't about you. I had my coat in my hand, and was picking up the paperwork to refer my mother to hospice.
You using a work channel to contact me is juvenile. I cannot reply.

11.08.2025 04:25 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Mate, I'm a great-great-aunt TWICE!
Niece, born on 1981 is a grandmother! Meanwhile, her cousin who is 6 weeks younger, has 10 and 11 year children.

11.08.2025 04:09 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This is #LibraryLove.
Actually, it's Love Love Love ❀️
^DR

11.08.2025 04:00 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I've had to go home, twice, for emergency meetings with the community nurse.
So, I've missed the fire drill, and the customer kicking off because the police have finally service the extension of their trespass.

11.08.2025 02:14 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I applied for a job!
(The one I'm doing in an acting capacity, on top of my actual job.)

11.08.2025 01:24 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This morning's urgent tasks are complete:
Mum has been referred to hospice - for care at home.
Mum's doctor has been contacted about trying to get oral pain meds.

And, I've finally applied for the job.

10.08.2025 23:35 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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β€œFierce”, my 2026 calendar is available to pre-order now.*
Find it here: dragonsofwales.etsy.com/listing/1050...

*Due to the current uncertainty regarding imports to the US, this pre-order is not currently available to US customers. I am truly sorry, and hope this can be resolved soon.

10.08.2025 14:06 β€” πŸ‘ 107    πŸ” 37    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0

Oh Matty xoxo

10.08.2025 18:51 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A person being lurked on by a black cat.

A person being lurked on by a black cat.

A black cat sitting on a coffee table beside a person.

A black cat sitting on a coffee table beside a person.

A black cat on a footstool trying to stare out the person.

A black cat on a footstool trying to stare out the person.

Success! A black cat sprawled on a chair.

Success! A black cat sprawled on a chair.

Midnight is a big bully, who is determined to sleep in my chair.

10.08.2025 08:25 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I read some picture books and will try for some Inventing the Renaissance later tonight.

10.08.2025 06:11 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Good old Valley of the Horses.

(Mum couldn't deal with the parents who let their daughters read Clan of the Cave Bear, but not Valley.)

10.08.2025 05:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Mum's having a down / low energy day, so slept through the visits.

10.08.2025 00:53 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

SibL is ringing the dietician tomorrow.
Mum isn't really eating.
And is choking on solid foods.
It's hard getting her to take medication, and we're only focusing on pain meds at this time.

09.08.2025 21:48 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 0
the Polari Prize First Book longlist, with Jason Okundaye, Sacha Coward, Amy Twigg, Mae Diansangu and Ciara Maguire crossed out as they've withdrawn

the Polari Prize First Book longlist, with Jason Okundaye, Sacha Coward, Amy Twigg, Mae Diansangu and Ciara Maguire crossed out as they've withdrawn

The Polari Prize Longlist with Rhian Elizabeth crossed out as she's withdrawn

The Polari Prize Longlist with Rhian Elizabeth crossed out as she's withdrawn

New update on author withdrawals from the Polari Prize in protest of the inclusion of a proud transphobe

From the First Book longlist: Jason Okundaye, Sacha Coward, Amy Twigg, Mae Diansangu, Ciara Maguire

From the main award longlist: Rhian Elizabeth

09.08.2025 14:39 β€” πŸ‘ 606    πŸ” 108    πŸ’¬ 11    πŸ“Œ 13

The tension in our house has risen with the threat.

09.08.2025 21:31 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Up now.
Nephew and kid/s on their way.

SibK and BiLM up at 11am.

SibK has been solid and a rock of support.
BiLM is.... problematic.

09.08.2025 21:27 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Me, mentally: get up, get dressed, change sheets, do washing, move the piles of picture books, read books.
Me, physically: stay in bed and turn the electric blanket up to 2, listen to audiobook.

09.08.2025 20:33 β€” πŸ‘ 17    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

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