Jay Horita-Hawkins

I wish I had the inhibitions and care-free youthfulness of my 20’s. I’m sitting in the corner of a clothing optional event bar typing this. I don’t think it’s the age — it’s just an after-effect of being a widow. If I was with Geof, I’d be dancing on the floor with the rest of em.

01.03.2025 07:08 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I understand babies and children crying and being loud in the plane, but parents: babies don’t understand what “shhhhhhhh” means, so stop that!

20.02.2025 00:36 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

17.02.2025 17:18 — 👍 7    🔁 4    💬 0    📌 1

Next time, I’ll try to start a 3 way call with the institution they say they’re from and get them to talk to each other.

10.02.2025 21:05 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

No… I just got a call on Friday from a lady claiming she was from the US postal service, and that I supposedly sent firearms from NY last month. Her questions were getting a bit odd, so I asked for her name and told her I’ll call the USPS inspection directly to clear it up.

10.02.2025 20:52 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I wish for the most painful death to scammers. Just a PSA: If you get a call from anybody who asks for any personal information, or even from somebody from a bank or governmental agency (especially from a fraud agency), tell them you will give them a call yourself to sort it out.

07.02.2025 19:01 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Decided to do some cooking. It’s probably been a year since I cooked for myself. I made potato fondants (home style) with goose fat, butter, and beef stock. And a perfectly done steak with just olive oil, herbs de Provence, garlic powder, balsamic glaze, and salt/pepper.

06.02.2025 05:54 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I think every widow that loved their partner feels that they were the best thing that happened to them… and in a way, the worst.

19.01.2025 07:31 — 👍 6    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

My first post on here! Woo hoo. Thanks to every one who followed me from FB today. I’m hoping to journal more of my life here. :) I don’t have much going on for awhile though, not until my trip to Florida next month and Korea in April.

14.01.2025 02:54 — 👍 6    🔁 1    💬 1    📌 0